我是独生, 我LD有哥哥, 对比一下, 我觉得还是有个伴长大比较好,能早点懂得很 多人生的道理,比如分享和退让. 我小时候家里条件很好, 要什么有什么,我ld 就差一些, 但是他们哥俩感情好,一 起玩, 也不觉得有什么遗憾。 父母是偏心一点的, 但是也不影响他们的感情。我公 婆可幸福呢。 至于钱吗, 多一个给自己多一点动力, 而且老二的成本其实低很多, 如果用LIVE IN NANNY 的话, 和DAY CARE 一个价 。 我是个后妈, 对孩子的EXPECTATION不高,没 打算送什么才艺班之类的。 if you are bored and really need some science to back up your decision, read this : http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1209949,00.html
the best thing have sibling is to growing up togther. If it is 100% sure is a girl, I would love to have a third one. If I started realier, we should have 4 kids, 2 boys and 2 girls, my dream family. I have two boys, 4 and 6. It is wonderful feeling to see them play toghter, sometimes it is rought. My older one can read to his brother already. How nice!
to me, 比较高的生活水准 is 物质上. I would not be happy if financially struggling. for example, One of my dreams is to travel around the world. I could do this with my son, but no possibility to do it with 2 or more children.
养娃的意义不是在花钱, but money is the most practical part, one can never live without it. personally, I think I'm being a responsible parent by not bringing more lives into this world.
【在 V*****8 的大作中提到】 : 养娃的意义不是在花钱, but money is the most practical part, one can never : live without it. : personally, I think I'm being a responsible parent by not bringing more : lives into this world.