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男人的甜言蜜语到底有多少是真的？

男人的甜言蜜语到底有多少是真的？# Love - 情爱幽幽

v*72010-07-15 07:07

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United States Senator

f*y2010-07-15 07:07

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问下，男人的甜言蜜语到底有多少是真的？
时过境迁，到底多少是有效的？
为什么一个月前的那个人现在都变了个样儿？
上过床了，爱情就不存在了么？

m*o2010-07-15 07:07

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what does it say

f*e2010-07-15 07:07

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好听了听听受用就行了
别往心里去

w*t2010-07-15 07:07

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"comprehensive"...

【在 m****o 的大作中提到】

: what does it say

s*32010-07-15 07:07

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我就讨厌甜言蜜语的男人，尽来些虚的

【在 f*******y 的大作中提到】

: 问下，男人的甜言蜜语到底有多少是真的？
: 时过境迁，到底多少是有效的？
: 为什么一个月前的那个人现在都变了个样儿？
: 上过床了，爱情就不存在了么？

w*i2010-07-15 07:07

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没分手觉得都是真的
分了手觉得都是假的

【在 f*******y 的大作中提到】

s*d2010-07-15 07:07

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听听罢了，当不得真的。

d*k2010-07-15 07:07

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说什么了？
怎么让你相信了？

【在 f*******y 的大作中提到】

a*i2010-07-15 07:07

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恩

【在 s*******d 的大作中提到】

: 听听罢了，当不得真的。

s*e2010-07-15 07:07

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说实话，那些甜言蜜语很少有真的。。。。

p*s2010-07-15 07:07

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It's probably real at the moment they say that, But it doesn't mean for ever
. So, don't take it too seriously.
Sex and Love are two different thing.Physical attraction is the key thing in
the early stage of a relationship, Love comes more slowly and later.

【在 f*******y 的大作中提到】

n*02010-07-15 07:07

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忘了是谁说过，男人甜言蜜语的时候，可能真的是这么想
但是到了要分手转身的时候，那些话对他没有任何约束

w*e2010-07-15 07:07

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两性关系中，男女都不要采取被动的姿态。
如果你爱他，你得到你要的了吗？
如果你不爱他? 你也没失去什么。

p*s2010-07-15 07:07

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Agree

【在 n*******0 的大作中提到】

: 忘了是谁说过，男人甜言蜜语的时候，可能真的是这么想
: 但是到了要分手转身的时候，那些话对他没有任何约束

p*s2010-07-15 07:07

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No expectation is always good for itself.
Once I read a book, if we have enough love by ourselves, we r not afraid of
giving some to other people, and won't expect for return at all.

【在 w********e 的大作中提到】

: 两性关系中，男女都不要采取被动的姿态。
: 如果你爱他，你得到你要的了吗？
: 如果你不爱他? 你也没失去什么。

w*e2010-07-15 07:07

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If you can't get anything in return, you will get frustrated for sure.

of

【在 p*******s 的大作中提到】

:
: No expectation is always good for itself.
: Once I read a book, if we have enough love by ourselves, we r not afraid of
: giving some to other people, and won't expect for return at all.

p*s2010-07-15 07:07

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Well, if you don't expect that, then you won't.
Expectation is the key thing.

【在 w********e 的大作中提到】

: If you can't get anything in return, you will get frustrated for sure.
:
: of

w*e2010-07-15 07:07

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Even God wants us to love HIM back, who can else stand higher beyond HIM?

【在 p*******s 的大作中提到】

: Well, if you don't expect that, then you won't.
: Expectation is the key thing.

p*s2010-07-15 07:07

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How do you know God wants you to love him back? Why if there is not God in
my world at all....
I don't think Budda wants me to love him/her back. Buddist is generous. haha!

【在 w********e 的大作中提到】

: Even God wants us to love HIM back, who can else stand higher beyond HIM?

w*e2010-07-15 07:07

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hehe,
My point is nobody can love someone without expectation, even I. :)))

haha!

【在 p*******s 的大作中提到】

: How do you know God wants you to love him back? Why if there is not God in
: my world at all....
: I don't think Budda wants me to love him/her back. Buddist is generous. haha!

p*s2010-07-15 07:07

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【在 w********e 的大作中提到】

: hehe,
: My point is nobody can love someone without expectation, even I. :)))
:
: haha!

f*y2010-07-15 07:07

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其实都知道，就是当局者迷。
也可能好久没有人关心了。面对突如其来的亲切很是感动。
但是人家深切的时候，怎么也没有办法去否定那一切，不去否定，只能去肯定。
肯定完了就悲剧了。
惯性了一段时间，面对他的态度转变，人就开始歇斯底里了－－好怀念他好的时候。
其实并没有贪婪到天天要他为我做什么，只是想settle down。
但是看样子，根本不可能。
算了，我要犯病，男人没一个可以相信的！

w*e2010-07-15 07:07

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Come on, don't misunderstand me.
whatever, I am not the one going to the hell anyway.

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t*h2010-07-15 07:07

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不要随便就上床,现在的女人怎么搞的,听两句好听的就找不着北了

【在 f*******y 的大作中提到】

: 其实都知道，就是当局者迷。
: 也可能好久没有人关心了。面对突如其来的亲切很是感动。
: 但是人家深切的时候，怎么也没有办法去否定那一切，不去否定，只能去肯定。
: 肯定完了就悲剧了。
: 惯性了一段时间，面对他的态度转变，人就开始歇斯底里了－－好怀念他好的时候。
: 其实并没有贪婪到天天要他为我做什么，只是想settle down。
: 但是看样子，根本不可能。
: 算了，我要犯病，男人没一个可以相信的！

w*e2010-07-15 07:07

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严格来说，
上床不存在谁吃亏，谁占便宜。

【在 t********h 的大作中提到】

: 不要随便就上床,现在的女人怎么搞的,听两句好听的就找不着北了

t*h2010-07-15 07:07

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也是

【在 w********e 的大作中提到】

: 严格来说，
: 上床不存在谁吃亏，谁占便宜。

p*s2010-07-15 07:07

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maybe you should try not to expect too much at the beginning.
My last roommate told me that relationship should start at low expectation,
the longer two people are together, the more expectataion are accumulated.
If you do it in a reverse way, it's gonna be rocky.

【在 f*******y 的大作中提到】