c*e
2 楼
继续修炼。
c*5
3 楼
这个绝对是很多家庭里都有的通病,中年的夫妻俩几乎都有这样的情况,就是互相看不
对眼,看着对方就觉得反感,对方说话也觉得不顺耳,看着对方的那张脸,就觉得已经
够了,根本一点都喜欢不起来 ,倒是不至于离婚,但是就说到了中年,俩人的状态几
乎都是这样子的。
什么浪漫啊,柔情蜜意啊,这种感觉在中年夫妻之间有吗??谁告诉我,有吗???
反正我家是没有的,我们两口子现在是一说话就要抬杠,有时候真的恨不得离婚,不过
这都是气头上的想法,毕竟没啥严重的事情,所以过了那个气头,也就又觉得不至于离
婚了,但是每次吵架,都会恨不得马上离婚,周而复始,这样的离婚年头都不知道出现
过多少次了。
是不是不管跟什么样的人结婚,多么优秀的,多么帅气的,多么漂亮的,多么性感的,
多么善良的,多么温柔的,多么浪漫的,到了中年这个阶段,也还是会变得互相看不对
眼,互相嫌弃呢,跟谁结婚,到头来感觉都是一样的,对吗?
毕竟不管再好看的人,看得久了,也就那样了,真的是不甘心,可是谁又能逃得过这种
现实呢,残酷的现实啊。
对眼,看着对方就觉得反感,对方说话也觉得不顺耳,看着对方的那张脸,就觉得已经
够了,根本一点都喜欢不起来 ,倒是不至于离婚,但是就说到了中年,俩人的状态几
乎都是这样子的。
什么浪漫啊,柔情蜜意啊,这种感觉在中年夫妻之间有吗??谁告诉我,有吗???
反正我家是没有的,我们两口子现在是一说话就要抬杠,有时候真的恨不得离婚,不过
这都是气头上的想法,毕竟没啥严重的事情,所以过了那个气头,也就又觉得不至于离
婚了,但是每次吵架,都会恨不得马上离婚,周而复始,这样的离婚年头都不知道出现
过多少次了。
是不是不管跟什么样的人结婚,多么优秀的,多么帅气的,多么漂亮的,多么性感的,
多么善良的,多么温柔的,多么浪漫的,到了中年这个阶段,也还是会变得互相看不对
眼,互相嫌弃呢,跟谁结婚,到头来感觉都是一样的,对吗?
毕竟不管再好看的人,看得久了,也就那样了,真的是不甘心,可是谁又能逃得过这种
现实呢,残酷的现实啊。
c*5
5 楼
要想看的对眼,就得想点办法
m*n
6 楼
email from the mortgage broker,
It will NOT be worth it for you to refinance-
You will have closing costs all over again-
You have a FANTASTIC rate of 4.75%- and the rule of thumb is 1% to 1.25%
less than what you currently have in order for it to be worth it for you to
refinance.
On $143,200-
4.5%
P&I: $725.54 (savings of $21)
Closing costs would run about $2500-
Thanks for inquiring—but I don’t think it will be worth it!
Have a nice weekend!
It will NOT be worth it for you to refinance-
You will have closing costs all over again-
You have a FANTASTIC rate of 4.75%- and the rule of thumb is 1% to 1.25%
less than what you currently have in order for it to be worth it for you to
refinance.
On $143,200-
4.5%
P&I: $725.54 (savings of $21)
Closing costs would run about $2500-
Thanks for inquiring—but I don’t think it will be worth it!
Have a nice weekend!
s*d
7 楼
1, 有cost就不一定值了,所以大家一般都是no cost refi
2, 用一个broker不愿意你马上refi,有的loan时间短他拿不到
commission。
【在 m*n 的大作中提到】
: email from the mortgage broker,
: It will NOT be worth it for you to refinance-
: You will have closing costs all over again-
: You have a FANTASTIC rate of 4.75%- and the rule of thumb is 1% to 1.25%
: less than what you currently have in order for it to be worth it for you to
: refinance.
: On $143,200-
: 4.5%
: P&I: $725.54 (savings of $21)
: Closing costs would run about $2500-
2, 用一个broker不愿意你马上refi,有的loan时间短他拿不到
commission。
【在 m*n 的大作中提到】
: email from the mortgage broker,
: It will NOT be worth it for you to refinance-
: You will have closing costs all over again-
: You have a FANTASTIC rate of 4.75%- and the rule of thumb is 1% to 1.25%
: less than what you currently have in order for it to be worth it for you to
: refinance.
: On $143,200-
: 4.5%
: P&I: $725.54 (savings of $21)
: Closing costs would run about $2500-
p*q
8 楼
it will be a different story with a big loan amount.
to
【在 m*n 的大作中提到】
: email from the mortgage broker,
: It will NOT be worth it for you to refinance-
: You will have closing costs all over again-
: You have a FANTASTIC rate of 4.75%- and the rule of thumb is 1% to 1.25%
: less than what you currently have in order for it to be worth it for you to
: refinance.
: On $143,200-
: 4.5%
: P&I: $725.54 (savings of $21)
: Closing costs would run about $2500-
to
【在 m*n 的大作中提到】
: email from the mortgage broker,
: It will NOT be worth it for you to refinance-
: You will have closing costs all over again-
: You have a FANTASTIC rate of 4.75%- and the rule of thumb is 1% to 1.25%
: less than what you currently have in order for it to be worth it for you to
: refinance.
: On $143,200-
: 4.5%
: P&I: $725.54 (savings of $21)
: Closing costs would run about $2500-
m*n
9 楼
谢谢
s*g
10 楼
你的broker是老美吧
呵呵
中国人 不会有人做有cost的refi的
老美呢 不会给你做no cost的refi
所以你会得到不同的建议
呵呵
中国人 不会有人做有cost的refi的
老美呢 不会给你做no cost的refi
所以你会得到不同的建议
m*n
11 楼
是的美国人,问我中国有没有银行?
f*e
21 楼
you have to make sure you can refinance without penalty. I have to stay
with my loan for 6 months before I can do it.
with my loan for 6 months before I can do it.
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