请推荐训练睡觉的书，四个半月的宝宝晚上不好好睡觉# NextGeneration - 我爱宝宝
e*r
1 楼
jeffery e peterson
1380 ROXBOROUGH DR
PLACENTIA, CA 92870-3521
1380 ROXBOROUGH DR
PLACENTIA, CA 92870-3521
v*2
2 楼
我们宝宝4个半月了，以前睡觉很乖，就是偶尔有过那么一两天晚上两个小时醒一次，
吃完就睡。快四个月的时候突然开始对周围事物很敏感，然后吃奶，睡觉就变成一团糟
。每天我们都弄不清楚他到底什么时候要吃，什么时候要睡。4个月checkup的时候医生
建议让宝宝单独睡一个房间，但是宝爸和我都不忍心。
现在宝宝晚上总是醒，每次都要吃奶才能睡。但是我发现他12点左右那一顿吃的比较多
，但是2-3点，4-5点这两顿都是吃上一两口就马上睡。我们曾试着让宝爸起来哄着宝宝
睡觉，给奶嘴，不喂奶，但是宝宝就是不睡，最后只有我再喂，他才能睡。以前早上宝
宝可以吃好多，现在因为晚上总是吃，所以早上一顿只吃一点，大概2-3OZ，而且要到
10点以后才吃。我总觉得早上这么长时间不吃对宝宝不好。
我爸爸因为心疼我，总是建议我们训练宝宝睡觉，但是宝宝爸爸总是舍不得，我也想训
练，因为我马上要上班了，但是我也舍不得。我想先看看书学习了解一下。
请问各位妈妈们有什么训练睡觉的书，能推荐一下吗？
还想请教一下，宝宝现在这样闹觉是暂时的，还是会越来越闹？要是暂时的，我就坚持
一下熬过去，要是会一直这样闹，我觉得还是得想办法怎么解决一下.
谢谢了先！
吃完就睡。快四个月的时候突然开始对周围事物很敏感，然后吃奶，睡觉就变成一团糟
。每天我们都弄不清楚他到底什么时候要吃，什么时候要睡。4个月checkup的时候医生
建议让宝宝单独睡一个房间，但是宝爸和我都不忍心。
现在宝宝晚上总是醒，每次都要吃奶才能睡。但是我发现他12点左右那一顿吃的比较多
，但是2-3点，4-5点这两顿都是吃上一两口就马上睡。我们曾试着让宝爸起来哄着宝宝
睡觉，给奶嘴，不喂奶，但是宝宝就是不睡，最后只有我再喂，他才能睡。以前早上宝
宝可以吃好多，现在因为晚上总是吃，所以早上一顿只吃一点，大概2-3OZ，而且要到
10点以后才吃。我总觉得早上这么长时间不吃对宝宝不好。
我爸爸因为心疼我，总是建议我们训练宝宝睡觉，但是宝宝爸爸总是舍不得，我也想训
练，因为我马上要上班了，但是我也舍不得。我想先看看书学习了解一下。
请问各位妈妈们有什么训练睡觉的书，能推荐一下吗？
还想请教一下，宝宝现在这样闹觉是暂时的，还是会越来越闹？要是暂时的，我就坚持
一下熬过去，要是会一直这样闹，我觉得还是得想办法怎么解决一下.
谢谢了先！
d*e
3 楼
lz， 我是没经验的准妈妈啊。但是我买了很多书，都是坛子上推荐。我最喜欢的是The
contented little baby book(大家简称CLB，我找了半天才知道全名呢)， 写的非常
简明，读起来很快。
contented little baby book(大家简称CLB，我找了半天才知道全名呢)， 写的非常
简明，读起来很快。
o*5
4 楼
简直是又一个当年的毛头嘛
当年我活活忍了他一个多月啊，不但没好，还变本加厉
训了之后就皆大欢喜
实在心疼可以再忍忍，如果是暂时的就忍过去了，如果不是暂时的，你忍无可忍，训的
决心会更大，也容易一举训成功，这样犹豫的，就不要训了
当年我活活忍了他一个多月啊，不但没好，还变本加厉
训了之后就皆大欢喜
实在心疼可以再忍忍，如果是暂时的就忍过去了，如果不是暂时的，你忍无可忍，训的
决心会更大，也容易一举训成功，这样犹豫的，就不要训了
m*e
5 楼
有没有ONLINE VERSION或者PDF电子书？谢谢推荐。
The
【在 d***e 的大作中提到】
: lz， 我是没经验的准妈妈啊。但是我买了很多书，都是坛子上推荐。我最喜欢的是The
: contented little baby book(大家简称CLB，我找了半天才知道全名呢)， 写的非常
: 简明，读起来很快。
The
【在 d***e 的大作中提到】
: lz， 我是没经验的准妈妈啊。但是我买了很多书，都是坛子上推荐。我最喜欢的是The
: contented little baby book(大家简称CLB，我找了半天才知道全名呢)， 写的非常
: 简明，读起来很快。
s*1
6 楼
Cry it out方法
http://www.amazon.com/Healthy-Sleep-Habits-Happy-Child/dp/03454
No cry方法
http://www.amazon.com/No-Cry-Sleep-Solution-Gentle-Through/dp/0
“CLB”
www.amazon.com/Contented-Little-Baby-Confident-Parenting/dp/0451202430/ref=
sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1320343418&sr=1-1
【在 v***2 的大作中提到】
: 我们宝宝4个半月了，以前睡觉很乖，就是偶尔有过那么一两天晚上两个小时醒一次，
: 吃完就睡。快四个月的时候突然开始对周围事物很敏感，然后吃奶，睡觉就变成一团糟
: 。每天我们都弄不清楚他到底什么时候要吃，什么时候要睡。4个月checkup的时候医生
: 建议让宝宝单独睡一个房间，但是宝爸和我都不忍心。
: 现在宝宝晚上总是醒，每次都要吃奶才能睡。但是我发现他12点左右那一顿吃的比较多
: ，但是2-3点，4-5点这两顿都是吃上一两口就马上睡。我们曾试着让宝爸起来哄着宝宝
: 睡觉，给奶嘴，不喂奶，但是宝宝就是不睡，最后只有我再喂，他才能睡。以前早上宝
: 宝可以吃好多，现在因为晚上总是吃，所以早上一顿只吃一点，大概2-3OZ，而且要到
: 10点以后才吃。我总觉得早上这么长时间不吃对宝宝不好。
: 我爸爸因为心疼我，总是建议我们训练宝宝睡觉，但是宝宝爸爸总是舍不得，我也想训
http://www.amazon.com/Healthy-Sleep-Habits-Happy-Child/dp/03454
No cry方法
http://www.amazon.com/No-Cry-Sleep-Solution-Gentle-Through/dp/0
“CLB”
www.amazon.com/Contented-Little-Baby-Confident-Parenting/dp/0451202430/ref=
sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1320343418&sr=1-1
【在 v***2 的大作中提到】
: 我们宝宝4个半月了，以前睡觉很乖，就是偶尔有过那么一两天晚上两个小时醒一次，
: 吃完就睡。快四个月的时候突然开始对周围事物很敏感，然后吃奶，睡觉就变成一团糟
: 。每天我们都弄不清楚他到底什么时候要吃，什么时候要睡。4个月checkup的时候医生
: 建议让宝宝单独睡一个房间，但是宝爸和我都不忍心。
: 现在宝宝晚上总是醒，每次都要吃奶才能睡。但是我发现他12点左右那一顿吃的比较多
: ，但是2-3点，4-5点这两顿都是吃上一两口就马上睡。我们曾试着让宝爸起来哄着宝宝
: 睡觉，给奶嘴，不喂奶，但是宝宝就是不睡，最后只有我再喂，他才能睡。以前早上宝
: 宝可以吃好多，现在因为晚上总是吃，所以早上一顿只吃一点，大概2-3OZ，而且要到
: 10点以后才吃。我总觉得早上这么长时间不吃对宝宝不好。
: 我爸爸因为心疼我，总是建议我们训练宝宝睡觉，但是宝宝爸爸总是舍不得，我也想训
w*0
7 楼
各种方法，不同的书一大堆一大堆的。
最残酷的是CRY IT OUT
比较温柔的PUPD: PICK UP PUT DOWN
最温柔的 www.kellymom.com找FORUM之后，在对应的论坛里看置顶的SLEEP相关帖子
另外有用没用的睡眠书我买过一大堆，多数最后都没仔细看
：）
【在 v***2 的大作中提到】
: 我们宝宝4个半月了，以前睡觉很乖，就是偶尔有过那么一两天晚上两个小时醒一次，
: 吃完就睡。快四个月的时候突然开始对周围事物很敏感，然后吃奶，睡觉就变成一团糟
: 。每天我们都弄不清楚他到底什么时候要吃，什么时候要睡。4个月checkup的时候医生
: 建议让宝宝单独睡一个房间，但是宝爸和我都不忍心。
: 现在宝宝晚上总是醒，每次都要吃奶才能睡。但是我发现他12点左右那一顿吃的比较多
: ，但是2-3点，4-5点这两顿都是吃上一两口就马上睡。我们曾试着让宝爸起来哄着宝宝
: 睡觉，给奶嘴，不喂奶，但是宝宝就是不睡，最后只有我再喂，他才能睡。以前早上宝
: 宝可以吃好多，现在因为晚上总是吃，所以早上一顿只吃一点，大概2-3OZ，而且要到
: 10点以后才吃。我总觉得早上这么长时间不吃对宝宝不好。
: 我爸爸因为心疼我，总是建议我们训练宝宝睡觉，但是宝宝爸爸总是舍不得，我也想训
最残酷的是CRY IT OUT
比较温柔的PUPD: PICK UP PUT DOWN
最温柔的 www.kellymom.com找FORUM之后，在对应的论坛里看置顶的SLEEP相关帖子
另外有用没用的睡眠书我买过一大堆，多数最后都没仔细看
：）
【在 v***2 的大作中提到】
: 我们宝宝4个半月了，以前睡觉很乖，就是偶尔有过那么一两天晚上两个小时醒一次，
: 吃完就睡。快四个月的时候突然开始对周围事物很敏感，然后吃奶，睡觉就变成一团糟
: 。每天我们都弄不清楚他到底什么时候要吃，什么时候要睡。4个月checkup的时候医生
: 建议让宝宝单独睡一个房间，但是宝爸和我都不忍心。
: 现在宝宝晚上总是醒，每次都要吃奶才能睡。但是我发现他12点左右那一顿吃的比较多
: ，但是2-3点，4-5点这两顿都是吃上一两口就马上睡。我们曾试着让宝爸起来哄着宝宝
: 睡觉，给奶嘴，不喂奶，但是宝宝就是不睡，最后只有我再喂，他才能睡。以前早上宝
: 宝可以吃好多，现在因为晚上总是吃，所以早上一顿只吃一点，大概2-3OZ，而且要到
: 10点以后才吃。我总觉得早上这么长时间不吃对宝宝不好。
: 我爸爸因为心疼我，总是建议我们训练宝宝睡觉，但是宝宝爸爸总是舍不得，我也想训
s*1
8 楼
Wakeful 4 Month Olds
by Jan Barger, RN, MA, IBCLC
Reprinted with permission from the author.
zz from kellymom.com
概要： 小小孩可以一觉睡5－6小时，怎么长到4个月忽然开始半夜经常醒，要吃的呢？
主张sleep train的人（包括医生）认为小孩曾经6小时不醒，证明他不饿，不要喂夜奶
，cry it out. 本文作者表示小孩此时神经系统发育，对周围环境敏感，导致白天胸喂
不能集中精神，吃不好，夜里黑，安静，胸喂效果最好。
简单的说，小孩醒，要吃，是生理发育的结果，和坏习惯无关，与其想办法train孩子
，不如大人改变对婴儿行为的期待。
更简单的说，一个字，忍。
One of the concerns I have about some parenting books and pediatricians who
give advice about sleeping infants is this: Baby starts sleeping through the
night at, say, about 3 months -- or at least sleeping 5 to 6 hours.
Suddenly around 4 months, little Buford starts waking up at night to nurse.
Mom is understandably distressed. Some books say "it's a bad habit that must
be stopped." Her pediatrician says essentially the same thing. Someone else
points out that since the baby slept through the night at 3 months, it is
OBVIOUS that the baby CAN sleep and isn't hungry. The book goes on to talk
about how the baby is now manipulating the mother. The pediatrician says he'
s big enough to go without eating at night. Grandma tells her to let Buford
cry it out. So does the book. There may be different ways, but in essence,
don't pick him up and feed him....
Has NO ONE stopped to consider the developmental stage of the breastfeeding
baby that begins at about four months and can go on to 6 or 7 months? Think
about your four month old breastfeeding -- what are they doing? This baby is
on and off the breast -- so interested in the world around him he can
hardly stand it. "Oh look! There's the dog! Hi, Mommy, I love you SOOOO much
! The phone?! A car went by. The TV is on. Big sister comes into the room...
.hey, there's just too much going on for me to concentrate on eating. I
think I'm full now. I'll see you later....."
When I get one of these babies in my office, I have to observe the feed
without saying a word to the mother. The entire feeding is done in complete
silence so that the baby will EAT and not look around at me. How many times
have you been told to go into a darkened, quiet room to get a good feeding?
OK, now think about night time. Buford is really hungry -- he didn't eat
well during the day. Nighttime is here; it's dark, quiet, and he has mommy's
undivided attention. So he has a really great meal. Doesn't take long -- he
's pretty efficient by now. But it is down to business and complete.
But WAIT! Someone told the mother that the baby can't possibly be hungry --
just let him cry it out. Now mom's milk supply diminishes because punkin isn
't eating well during the day -- too many things going on, and he's going
through some new developmental stages (when Hildegarde is learning something
new, she doesn't nurse as well until the new skill is mastered). IF mom has
kept Buford/Hildegarde on a schedule since day 1, then she will probably
NOT be able to increase her supply -- not with pumping, not with herbs. If
she fed her baby frequently enough and laid down enough prolactin receptors
in the first two weeks to a month, there is hope that we can bring the milk
back up. But if she was truly "obeying" a schedule and only feeding every 2.
5 to 3 hours, she may not be able to (depending on mom's breastmilk storage
supplies, etc).
Why don't bottle feeding babies wake up as much at 4 months? Because by this
time, mom has often handed the bottle off to baby to feed himself, and/or
seats him looking out so he can check out the dog, the phone, the sibling,
etc -- and continue eating at the same time.
Please don't deny that your breastfeeding baby is quite possibly very hungry
at night at four months, even though they may have been sleeping through
the night prior to this. Look at the feed -- can you hear swallowing? Does
your breast get softer? Is he EATING? Then don't make him cry it out! He
needs to eat....and he needs his mommy.
【在 w******0 的大作中提到】
: 各种方法，不同的书一大堆一大堆的。
: 最残酷的是CRY IT OUT
: 比较温柔的PUPD: PICK UP PUT DOWN
: 最温柔的 www.kellymom.com找FORUM之后，在对应的论坛里看置顶的SLEEP相关帖子
: 另外有用没用的睡眠书我买过一大堆，多数最后都没仔细看
: ：）
by Jan Barger, RN, MA, IBCLC
Reprinted with permission from the author.
zz from kellymom.com
概要： 小小孩可以一觉睡5－6小时，怎么长到4个月忽然开始半夜经常醒，要吃的呢？
主张sleep train的人（包括医生）认为小孩曾经6小时不醒，证明他不饿，不要喂夜奶
，cry it out. 本文作者表示小孩此时神经系统发育，对周围环境敏感，导致白天胸喂
不能集中精神，吃不好，夜里黑，安静，胸喂效果最好。
简单的说，小孩醒，要吃，是生理发育的结果，和坏习惯无关，与其想办法train孩子
，不如大人改变对婴儿行为的期待。
更简单的说，一个字，忍。
One of the concerns I have about some parenting books and pediatricians who
give advice about sleeping infants is this: Baby starts sleeping through the
night at, say, about 3 months -- or at least sleeping 5 to 6 hours.
Suddenly around 4 months, little Buford starts waking up at night to nurse.
Mom is understandably distressed. Some books say "it's a bad habit that must
be stopped." Her pediatrician says essentially the same thing. Someone else
points out that since the baby slept through the night at 3 months, it is
OBVIOUS that the baby CAN sleep and isn't hungry. The book goes on to talk
about how the baby is now manipulating the mother. The pediatrician says he'
s big enough to go without eating at night. Grandma tells her to let Buford
cry it out. So does the book. There may be different ways, but in essence,
don't pick him up and feed him....
Has NO ONE stopped to consider the developmental stage of the breastfeeding
baby that begins at about four months and can go on to 6 or 7 months? Think
about your four month old breastfeeding -- what are they doing? This baby is
on and off the breast -- so interested in the world around him he can
hardly stand it. "Oh look! There's the dog! Hi, Mommy, I love you SOOOO much
! The phone?! A car went by. The TV is on. Big sister comes into the room...
.hey, there's just too much going on for me to concentrate on eating. I
think I'm full now. I'll see you later....."
When I get one of these babies in my office, I have to observe the feed
without saying a word to the mother. The entire feeding is done in complete
silence so that the baby will EAT and not look around at me. How many times
have you been told to go into a darkened, quiet room to get a good feeding?
OK, now think about night time. Buford is really hungry -- he didn't eat
well during the day. Nighttime is here; it's dark, quiet, and he has mommy's
undivided attention. So he has a really great meal. Doesn't take long -- he
's pretty efficient by now. But it is down to business and complete.
But WAIT! Someone told the mother that the baby can't possibly be hungry --
just let him cry it out. Now mom's milk supply diminishes because punkin isn
't eating well during the day -- too many things going on, and he's going
through some new developmental stages (when Hildegarde is learning something
new, she doesn't nurse as well until the new skill is mastered). IF mom has
kept Buford/Hildegarde on a schedule since day 1, then she will probably
NOT be able to increase her supply -- not with pumping, not with herbs. If
she fed her baby frequently enough and laid down enough prolactin receptors
in the first two weeks to a month, there is hope that we can bring the milk
back up. But if she was truly "obeying" a schedule and only feeding every 2.
5 to 3 hours, she may not be able to (depending on mom's breastmilk storage
supplies, etc).
Why don't bottle feeding babies wake up as much at 4 months? Because by this
time, mom has often handed the bottle off to baby to feed himself, and/or
seats him looking out so he can check out the dog, the phone, the sibling,
etc -- and continue eating at the same time.
Please don't deny that your breastfeeding baby is quite possibly very hungry
at night at four months, even though they may have been sleeping through
the night prior to this. Look at the feed -- can you hear swallowing? Does
your breast get softer? Is he EATING? Then don't make him cry it out! He
needs to eat....and he needs his mommy.
【在 w******0 的大作中提到】
: 各种方法，不同的书一大堆一大堆的。
: 最残酷的是CRY IT OUT
: 比较温柔的PUPD: PICK UP PUT DOWN
: 最温柔的 www.kellymom.com找FORUM之后，在对应的论坛里看置顶的SLEEP相关帖子
: 另外有用没用的睡眠书我买过一大堆，多数最后都没仔细看
: ：）
j*i
9 楼
healthy sleep habits
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