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1岁的小孩天天咬人抓头发尖叫，正常么？还是我管教无方？

1岁的小孩天天咬人抓头发尖叫，正常么？还是我管教无方？# NextGeneration - 我爱宝宝

k*b2011-12-26 08:12

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最近是越演越烈了，经常乘我们不注意，就抓住我的手，或者冷不丁的窜上来咬我一口
。我每次屁颠屁颠的凑上去要亲他，就会被他拽住我的头发，死命的扯，边扯还边张
口咬人。一不满意或者不给他想要的东西就尖叫，叫的我头痛欲裂。咬人，我知道是
因为他长牙，但是给了他磨牙棒，不用，偏要咬我；抓头发是几个月下来一直这样，
已经发展到路上见到一个8个月大的小妹妹，上去就扯人家头发，弄的我们尴尬，当时
很想转地洞，我们已经很冷静的给他讲道理，说不能尖叫，不要咬人，抓头发，每次
咬人抓人，就打手心，每天唐了n遍，也打n遍，一点效果也没有，我们全家已经是黔
驴技穷，感觉真是失败。
这要是到了daycare ，要是咬，抓别家小孩，多危险啊，那还不给老师给踢回来。不
知道大家的1岁左右的，是不是也这样，还是就我们家特殊，宠坏了？

g*e2011-12-26 08:12

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我家一岁左右也咬人，也抓头发，但是都仅限于我。
我觉得都没这么唐，她自己就好了。
不过她现在还是喜欢轻轻摸我头发，不是以前使劲的拽了。

m*a2011-12-26 08:12

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my son never bites me or pulls my hair, but I think many kids do. when I
sent my son to daycare, his teacher lent me a book talking about biting.
basically it says biting is a way for kids to release their negative
emotions. there could be many reasons for biting. seeking attention, for
example, is a major reason. when he bites or pulled others hair, you would
give him more reactions and attentions which would encourage him more.
calmly blocking his hands without looking at him could probably help. don't
give him the satisfactory that his action would make you frustrated or angry
or even react. of course there are many other potential reasons. you could
borrow or buy some books regarding this topic. good luck!