献给sibling rivalry(四)(ADVICE)# Parenting - 为人父母
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Advice for the family
1. helping the firstborn feel some sense of control and reassurance
-- **(想给大宝换床换房间的妈妈们注意了)让大宝在二宝来之前几个月就换好，让
他在二宝来之后还是睡同样的环境。这样二宝来之后他不会有被DISPLACED的感觉
-- maintain his daily routine
-- maintain his world as constant and conforting
-- Allow the older child to make decisions, such as "which socks would
you like to wear today?"
-- ** When both child have needs at the same time, parents should attend
to the OLDER child FIRST. Because the older sibling is questioning
1. helping the firstborn feel some sense of control and reassurance
-- **(想给大宝换床换房间的妈妈们注意了)让大宝在二宝来之前几个月就换好，让
他在二宝来之后还是睡同样的环境。这样二宝来之后他不会有被DISPLACED的感觉
-- maintain his daily routine
-- maintain his world as constant and conforting
-- Allow the older child to make decisions, such as "which socks would
you like to wear today?"
-- ** When both child have needs at the same time, parents should attend
to the OLDER child FIRST. Because the older sibling is questioning