My son did not make the basketball team# Parenting - 为人父母
d*g
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d*g
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"Freshman year I was on the freshman team, sophomore year I was on JV, and
now I'm a junior and was hoping to make varsity. We had tryouts this week
and instead of getting on varsity like I'd hoped, I got put on freaking JV
again. Words cannot describe how sad and angry I am right now... All of my
close friends made varsity and I'm just as good as them.
The JV always gets mashed together with the freshman team so today we had to
learn rotations and it SUCKED! Nobody knows what they're doing! I'm so
frustrated that nobody knows how to even hit the ball correctly. :/
The only positive thing I see is that I'll be captain of the team since I'm
the oldest and play every game. But honestly I'd rather be on varsity and
never play. Varsity gets to tee-pee the freshmens houses, gets the new
uniforms, best practice time, etc. I was really looking forward to getting
to do that.
Plus it's so EMABARRASSING to be on JV as a junior! I can't even admit it to
myself. People always expect juniors/seniors to be on varsity, not JV. It
makes me feel ashamed that I'm not good enough to be on varsity.
How should I handle this? I want to quit so badly but I know that I would
miss playing. Any tips? "
"Freshman year I was on the freshman team, sophomore year I was on JV, and
now I'm a junior and was hoping to make varsity. We had tryouts this week
and instead of getting on varsity like I'd hoped, I got put on freaking JV
again. Words cannot describe how sad and angry I am right now... All of my
close friends made varsity and I'm just as good as them.
The JV always gets mashed together with the freshman team so today we had to
learn rotations and it SUCKED! Nobody knows what they're doing! I'm so
frustrated that nobody knows how to even hit the ball correctly. :/
The only positive thing I see is that I'll be captain of the team since I'm
the oldest and play every game. But honestly I'd rather be on varsity and
never play. Varsity gets to tee-pee the freshmens houses, gets the new
uniforms, best practice time, etc. I was really looking forward to getting
to do that.
Plus it's so EMABARRASSING to be on JV as a junior! I can't even admit it to
myself. People always expect juniors/seniors to be on varsity, not JV. It
makes me feel ashamed that I'm not good enough to be on varsity.
How should I handle this? I want to quit so badly but I know that I would
miss playing. Any tips? "
d*g
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"
I know this is old, but I know how you felt, this is me right now. I'm a
junior and just found out today that i got placed in JV which is so
embarrassing because I'm literally the only upperclassman on JV!! The rest
are sophomores and freshman, and even worse some freshman got put into
varsity and I didn't. It's humiliating even when they were new to the sport
just like I was. And my junior friends got put onto varsity when they were
just as inexperienced as me. I know I'm not the best, but I will admit that
I played a little better than the freshman who are now on varsity.
"
I know this is old, but I know how you felt, this is me right now. I'm a
junior and just found out today that i got placed in JV which is so
embarrassing because I'm literally the only upperclassman on JV!! The rest
are sophomores and freshman, and even worse some freshman got put into
varsity and I didn't. It's humiliating even when they were new to the sport
just like I was. And my junior friends got put onto varsity when they were
just as inexperienced as me. I know I'm not the best, but I will admit that
I played a little better than the freshman who are now on varsity.
"
d*g
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"Im exactly in your position before (this question was 2012 and now its 2014
). Anyway, I feel really sad right now that Im even crying while typing this
. I just heard from one of my coaches (shes really not the one who decides
who made the team) but still! Shes a coach in my sport. She said that im
gonna be in JV. Im a junior and what she said really hurt me so bad :'( I
cant even stop from crying today. I feel like im such a loser for not making
it into Varsity. All my junior friends are gonna be in varsity and im not :
( I tried my best in tryouts and I play pretty good and I serve really good
in volleyball like some of the people in Varsity. Sorry if I sounded like a
cry-baby but this is unfair. And my friends i think they dont even care
about me whether I made it or not. I guess theyre happy because im still in
JV unlike them."
). Anyway, I feel really sad right now that Im even crying while typing this
. I just heard from one of my coaches (shes really not the one who decides
who made the team) but still! Shes a coach in my sport. She said that im
gonna be in JV. Im a junior and what she said really hurt me so bad :'( I
cant even stop from crying today. I feel like im such a loser for not making
it into Varsity. All my junior friends are gonna be in varsity and im not :
( I tried my best in tryouts and I play pretty good and I serve really good
in volleyball like some of the people in Varsity. Sorry if I sounded like a
cry-baby but this is unfair. And my friends i think they dont even care
about me whether I made it or not. I guess theyre happy because im still in
JV unlike them."
d*g
5 楼
娃的足球进步不小。。从惨不人睹，已经混到了普通球员。作为普通球员，也算是能在
队里起到自己的作用。。
态度积极。训练比赛都开开心心。朋友也交了不少。
还强了身，健了体。。
当然了，这背后娃的付出也不少，汗水很多，时间很多。。。平庸的努力娃最需要担心
。。。球技进步固然好，但觉得越是努力，越是需要降压。。越是WORK HARD，越是需
要放平心态。。
从头也没指望啥，到底不是那快料－－但努力着努力着，花了汗水和心血，就容易失望
。。
给自己提个醒。。搞体育还是不能太入戏。。
队里起到自己的作用。。
态度积极。训练比赛都开开心心。朋友也交了不少。
还强了身，健了体。。
当然了，这背后娃的付出也不少，汗水很多，时间很多。。。平庸的努力娃最需要担心
。。。球技进步固然好，但觉得越是努力，越是需要降压。。越是WORK HARD，越是需
要放平心态。。
从头也没指望啥，到底不是那快料－－但努力着努力着，花了汗水和心血，就容易失望
。。
给自己提个醒。。搞体育还是不能太入戏。。
n*f
6 楼
老中孩子数学不好，不学钢琴，会有一种不安全感。
老美孩子，体育不好，也一样。
可能都是一种强迫症。
老美孩子，体育不好，也一样。
可能都是一种强迫症。
p*i
7 楼
前一阵我们也经历了同样的心路历程。孩子最喜欢冰球，上个赛季孩子和我都很努力，
训练比赛私教，结果tryout没有进travel team，说实话心里是非常沮丧的。他不是队
里最好的，但是一年努力提高了很多，tryout时也有得分。travelteam里面有些小孩并
不比他打得好。继续留在house league里和比他小的孩子打很无趣，但是如果进了
travel team 估计他上场不会多，教练肯定是先关注自己孩子的。最后还是很堵心得决
定再打一年house league。明年去附近别的俱乐部也去tryout，现在这个俱乐部唯一优
点是离家近，费用是附近几个最高的，在他这个年龄组的travel team成绩其实也不怎
么样, AAA队整个赛季就赢了两场。
再说棒球，去年打得不错，今年让他升到minor league, 队里面除了一个教练的儿子，
他最小，各方面pitching,catching, fielding 都不行，几乎是队里最差的，很多时间
不上场坐在那里无所事事。他也显得不是很喜欢这项运动了。我想让他off season再练
练，不知道他肯不肯。
孩子说实话现在看来没啥体育天分，多练练能好点，但是不太可能成为最好的，现在只
能走一步看一步了，就当锻炼身体了.
训练比赛私教，结果tryout没有进travel team，说实话心里是非常沮丧的。他不是队
里最好的，但是一年努力提高了很多，tryout时也有得分。travelteam里面有些小孩并
不比他打得好。继续留在house league里和比他小的孩子打很无趣，但是如果进了
travel team 估计他上场不会多，教练肯定是先关注自己孩子的。最后还是很堵心得决
定再打一年house league。明年去附近别的俱乐部也去tryout，现在这个俱乐部唯一优
点是离家近，费用是附近几个最高的，在他这个年龄组的travel team成绩其实也不怎
么样, AAA队整个赛季就赢了两场。
再说棒球，去年打得不错，今年让他升到minor league, 队里面除了一个教练的儿子，
他最小，各方面pitching,catching, fielding 都不行，几乎是队里最差的，很多时间
不上场坐在那里无所事事。他也显得不是很喜欢这项运动了。我想让他off season再练
练，不知道他肯不肯。
孩子说实话现在看来没啥体育天分，多练练能好点，但是不太可能成为最好的，现在只
能走一步看一步了，就当锻炼身体了.
d*g
8 楼
我从前没觉得，但这周感觉明显，教练的娃的playtime 可真多啊。不过我们队这两个
教练的娃水平真心一般。呵呵。也算是可怜天下父母心。这以后父母积极娃可上可下的
可能就上了。
教练的娃水平真心一般。呵呵。也算是可怜天下父母心。这以后父母积极娃可上可下的
可能就上了。
p*i
9 楼
我们今年棒球前几场比赛基本就是大家给三个教练的孩子陪练，一直输。
: 我从前没觉得，但这周感觉明显，教练的娃的playtime 可真多啊。不过我们队
这两个
: 教练的娃水平真心一般。呵呵。也算是可怜天下父母心。这以后父母积极娃可上
可下的
: 可能就上了。
【在 d****g 的大作中提到】
: 我从前没觉得，但这周感觉明显，教练的娃的playtime 可真多啊。不过我们队这两个
: 教练的娃水平真心一般。呵呵。也算是可怜天下父母心。这以后父母积极娃可上可下的
: 可能就上了。
: 我从前没觉得，但这周感觉明显，教练的娃的playtime 可真多啊。不过我们队
这两个
: 教练的娃水平真心一般。呵呵。也算是可怜天下父母心。这以后父母积极娃可上
可下的
: 可能就上了。
【在 d****g 的大作中提到】
: 我从前没觉得，但这周感觉明显，教练的娃的playtime 可真多啊。不过我们队这两个
: 教练的娃水平真心一般。呵呵。也算是可怜天下父母心。这以后父母积极娃可上可下的
: 可能就上了。
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