tingtingliu, You are free to say anything you want. Why you are so eager to say sth bad about others? Because you are not happy with your life. You can say your kids played with my kids in your backyard this afternoon. That is fine. I have been blessed having a lot of things that others do not have. So, just ignor you. Majority people spend time reading and posting here is to meet that special person in their life. We have career and a lot of meaningful things to take care. Do you have a lot of free time?