别优秀来优秀去了# Piebridge - 鹊桥
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说到底，婚姻需要很多很多跟人相处的技巧，纸上谈兵谁都可以， BinLaden眼中的优
秀的人未必都是适合婚姻的。
随便列几点婚姻的杀手， 大家可以对号入座。
1。A "harsh start" in an argument - immediately becoming negative and
accusatory when confronting your partner.
2. Criticism - saying negative things about your partner's character or
personality.
3. Contempt - sneering, sarcasm, cynicism, name-calling,
mockery,hostile humor, disgust.
4. Defensiveness - justifying your behavior, attacking your partner
instead.
5. Stonewalling - disengaging, turning away, refusing or becoming
unable to speak or react.
6. Flooding - a physiological response to your partner's negativity,
characterized by increased heart rate, secretion of adrenaline,
increase blood pressure, and a sense of being overwhelmed.
7. Failed repair attempts - attempts by one partner to repair damage
and keep negativity from escalating, which are ignored or otherwise
met with failure.
大家看到修身的重要性了吧， ：）
个别大妈YY就随她们去吧， 要相信群众的眼睛。
秀的人未必都是适合婚姻的。
随便列几点婚姻的杀手， 大家可以对号入座。
1。A "harsh start" in an argument - immediately becoming negative and
accusatory when confronting your partner.
2. Criticism - saying negative things about your partner's character or
personality.
3. Contempt - sneering, sarcasm, cynicism, name-calling,
mockery,hostile humor, disgust.
4. Defensiveness - justifying your behavior, attacking your partner
instead.
5. Stonewalling - disengaging, turning away, refusing or becoming
unable to speak or react.
6. Flooding - a physiological response to your partner's negativity,
characterized by increased heart rate, secretion of adrenaline,
increase blood pressure, and a sense of being overwhelmed.
7. Failed repair attempts - attempts by one partner to repair damage
and keep negativity from escalating, which are ignored or otherwise
met with failure.
大家看到修身的重要性了吧， ：）
个别大妈YY就随她们去吧， 要相信群众的眼睛。