i guess she is in a LLM program, which usually take 1 year to get degree. $ 50,000 for one year, even 2 is a great package. i've never hear any school gives LLM scholarship or fellowship, even one of my friends, who is a partner for a top-20 law firm, never got this kind of offer. too good to be true.
真正优秀的北大人不说低调,但至少很矜持。他们不会把北大当成人生的最高点因为他 们明白更精彩的还在后面。他们习惯把经常把成功归零,而不是把北大挂在嘴上来导向 人们对自己的perception.更何况本科不是北大的,我看真没必要提。这位表姐很遗憾 没有为表妹塑造出这样一个矜持的才女形象。在信息有限的情况下,只能从表姐的素质 判断这一大家人的素质。如果表姐是这个素质,如果这贴是表妹过目后才发的,那么我 真的怀疑表妹是什么素质。总之我看了帖以后觉得很别扭,尤其最后的强调是处女的点 睛之笔,在我看来是本文的败笔。Not everything important is worth mention, not everyting worth mention is worth mention publicly,not everything worth mention publicly is appropriate to disclose upfront, unsolicit. 另外,学术/事业成就只是人生sucess equation 里很有限的一部分。一个才女并不能 为一个家庭有多少贡献如果她不花时间在老公孩子身上。当然,才女贡献聪明的基因没 错,但是罪犯里又有多少小时候不聪明呢?所以真的没有必要在智商上大作文章。 楼主表妹24岁,青春年少,there are far more important things to do, far more self improvement to do,为什么要急着找老公呢?J1来美一年在我看来is not a sign for readiness. 多看看书吧。一本"As a Lady Would Say" 10美元不到就可以买到。It summarizes the essence of being a true lady--understated elegance.