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l*d2004-05-12 07:05

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//comfort.
I used to be bothered by not having many friends around too. Now I made
peace with myself. I live in a small town without many friends around.
But when I went out with girls, I found sometimes I had to spend time on things
I didnt enjoy doing, like shopping in the stores they wanted. hehe,call me
self centered but i just did not like it.
Friends are hard to find. I still talk to my friends in college, the connection
is there even though we talk once a month or even less. But that kind

b*r2004-05-12 07:05

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Thanks. I guess that's the reason. They always thought I would call them so
they don't bother to call me. I'm trying to enjoy myself when stayed alone.
But I tend to spend more money in that situation. Buying things or consuming
things make me feel better but then gilty.I'm struggling to break even
now...:)

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connection
connection
point of
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【在 l**d 的大作中提到】

: //comfort.
: I used to be bothered by not having many friends around too. Now I made
: peace with myself. I live in a small town without many friends around.
: But when I went out with girls, I found sometimes I had to spend time on things
: I didnt enjoy doing, like shopping in the stores they wanted. hehe,call me
: self centered but i just did not like it.
: Friends are hard to find. I still talk to my friends in college, the connection
: is there even though we talk once a month or even less. But that kind

l*d2004-05-12 07:05

3 楼

That was what I do. Spend money to pamper myself, shopping, massages...
But financial stress may cause new problems. Now maybe it is a good time
to save money. Watching the digital increase in your saving account
is another new enjoyment I found.

【在 b**********r 的大作中提到】

: Thanks. I guess that's the reason. They always thought I would call them so
: they don't bother to call me. I'm trying to enjoy myself when stayed alone.
: But I tend to spend more money in that situation. Buying things or consuming
: things make me feel better but then gilty.I'm struggling to break even
: now...:)
:
: things
: connection
: connection
: point of