Why People Procrastinate# PsychoAnalysis - 心理分析
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本文摘自The Feeling Good Handbook by David Burns, Chapter 9.
6. "Should statements".
Procrastinators often tell themselves:"I really SHOULD write those letters.
I OUGHT TO get started." These "should statements" usually aren't very
effective, because they make you feel guilty and resentful, so you avoid the
task. The moment you tell yourself "I really SHOULD do it", you will
probably have the thought "...but I don't really have to right now. I'll
wait until later". Sometimes, the more you tell yours
6. "Should statements".
Procrastinators often tell themselves:"I really SHOULD write those letters.
I OUGHT TO get started." These "should statements" usually aren't very
effective, because they make you feel guilty and resentful, so you avoid the
task. The moment you tell yourself "I really SHOULD do it", you will
probably have the thought "...but I don't really have to right now. I'll
wait until later". Sometimes, the more you tell yours