You should do this: Let your wife go back to Shanghai first, and see if she can get her business running. If yes, then you can go to Shanghai, and you won't have to worry about housing. If no, then I think she won't have much leverage to argue with you then. Right now, she is living in a fantasy about Shanghai, just like many people lived in the fantasy about America before they came out. However most likely she will give up the idea to live in Shanghai after a few months .
【在 s******y 的大作中提到】 : You should do this: : Let your wife go back to Shanghai first, and see if she can get her business : running. If yes, then you can go to Shanghai, and you won't have to worry : about housing. If no, then I think she won't have much leverage to argue : with you then. : Right now, she is living in a fantasy about Shanghai, just like many people : lived in the fantasy about America before they came out. However : most likely she will give up the idea to live in Shanghai after a few months : .
s*y
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Yes, it is a decent life (if you have a job), just not as fantastic as people (like your family or relatives back in China) may assume. But that's not the point. The point here is we need to make his wife realize that without a decent job, there will be hell in Shanghai.
【在 s******t 的大作中提到】 : 为什么说fantasy about america? : 我觉得在美国有身份有工作, 生活很好啊. : : business : people : months