q*n
2 楼
太多感性激荡，
爱太多的时候也会很sad,
想哭的感觉千丝万缕，
理性无法分析排解。
需要一个抒解的渠道
不想看心理医生那同情的脸。。。
爱太多的时候也会很sad,
想哭的感觉千丝万缕，
理性无法分析排解。
需要一个抒解的渠道
不想看心理医生那同情的脸。。。
c*e
3 楼
早就屏蔽了啊。。
r*e
4 楼
去旅游
【在 q*n 的大作中提到】
: 太多感性激荡，
: 爱太多的时候也会很sad,
: 想哭的感觉千丝万缕，
: 理性无法分析排解。
: 需要一个抒解的渠道
: 不想看心理医生那同情的脸。。。
【在 q*n 的大作中提到】
: 太多感性激荡，
: 爱太多的时候也会很sad,
: 想哭的感觉千丝万缕，
: 理性无法分析排解。
: 需要一个抒解的渠道
: 不想看心理医生那同情的脸。。。
s*r
5 楼
很久了
q*n
6 楼
谢谢，那时候多半好了。
怕的是忧郁“随风潜入夜，润物细无声”。
【在 r*****e 的大作中提到】
: 去旅游
怕的是忧郁“随风潜入夜，润物细无声”。
【在 r*****e 的大作中提到】
: 去旅游
p*r
7 楼
还不睡?
我是今夜诗魔昏晓侵。
你有闲就去诗版吧，
比心理医生管用。
【在 q*n 的大作中提到】
: 太多感性激荡，
: 爱太多的时候也会很sad,
: 想哭的感觉千丝万缕，
: 理性无法分析排解。
: 需要一个抒解的渠道
: 不想看心理医生那同情的脸。。。
q*n
8 楼
不会写诗。
手边有笔不能写，有琴不能弹。
sadness seizes my heart.
【在 p*******r 的大作中提到】
:
: 还不睡?
: 我是今夜诗魔昏晓侵。
: 你有闲就去诗版吧，
: 比心理医生管用。
手边有笔不能写，有琴不能弹。
sadness seizes my heart.
【在 p*******r 的大作中提到】
:
: 还不睡?
: 我是今夜诗魔昏晓侵。
: 你有闲就去诗版吧，
: 比心理医生管用。
s*n
9 楼
Again that is very very misleading about Buddism according to my opinion.
Your feeling may be better, but I think you have a double loss. Both in
"feelings" and in "Buddism".
Your feeling may be better, but I think you have a double loss. Both in
"feelings" and in "Buddism".
s*n
10 楼
It is not difficult to learn or start.
Once you start, you may find it interesting
and claim yourself a poet. I've seen a lot
of people like that. Both on the positive and
negtive side.
【在 q*n 的大作中提到】
: 不会写诗。
: 手边有笔不能写，有琴不能弹。
: sadness seizes my heart.
Once you start, you may find it interesting
and claim yourself a poet. I've seen a lot
of people like that. Both on the positive and
negtive side.
【在 q*n 的大作中提到】
: 不会写诗。
: 手边有笔不能写，有琴不能弹。
: sadness seizes my heart.
s*n
11 楼
I think my post has already shown my opinion.
1. I don't think simply give up those "extreme feelings" is good. If
buddism is used to comfort a sad people, that is a misusage and sad. In
some sense this "extreme feelings" can be your invaluable personal treasure.
2. Buddism is an energytic dynamic philosophy. It is far more complicated
that what you just indicated. I don't think frequent trying to simplify some
thing we are not sure is a good practice.
1. I don't think simply give up those "extreme feelings" is good. If
buddism is used to comfort a sad people, that is a misusage and sad. In
some sense this "extreme feelings" can be your invaluable personal treasure.
2. Buddism is an energytic dynamic philosophy. It is far more complicated
that what you just indicated. I don't think frequent trying to simplify some
thing we are not sure is a good practice.
p*r
12 楼
extreme feeling is not the problem. But attachment to extreme feelings, the
double love and hate thing is a problem.
If
life.
opinion.
【在 s***n 的大作中提到】
: I think my post has already shown my opinion.
: 1. I don't think simply give up those "extreme feelings" is good. If
: buddism is used to comfort a sad people, that is a misusage and sad. In
: some sense this "extreme feelings" can be your invaluable personal treasure.
: 2. Buddism is an energytic dynamic philosophy. It is far more complicated
: that what you just indicated. I don't think frequent trying to simplify some
: thing we are not sure is a good practice.
double love and hate thing is a problem.
If
life.
opinion.
【在 s***n 的大作中提到】
: I think my post has already shown my opinion.
: 1. I don't think simply give up those "extreme feelings" is good. If
: buddism is used to comfort a sad people, that is a misusage and sad. In
: some sense this "extreme feelings" can be your invaluable personal treasure.
: 2. Buddism is an energytic dynamic philosophy. It is far more complicated
: that what you just indicated. I don't think frequent trying to simplify some
: thing we are not sure is a good practice.
s*n
13 楼
如果我急得不错, 这个就是所谓的马斯洛的"高峰体验", 怎样运用这些体验, 是一个
很好的问题.
【在 p*******r 的大作中提到】
: extreme feeling is not the problem. But attachment to extreme feelings, the
: double love and hate thing is a problem.
:
: If
: life.
: opinion.
很好的问题.
【在 p*******r 的大作中提到】
: extreme feeling is not the problem. But attachment to extreme feelings, the
: double love and hate thing is a problem.
:
: If
: life.
: opinion.
p*r
14 楼
Buddhism is about losing, not gaining my dear. :)
different
very
sadness
different
very
sadness
p*r
15 楼
peak experience is useless.
the
treaure.
complicated
some
【在 s***n 的大作中提到】
: 如果我急得不错, 这个就是所谓的马斯洛的"高峰体验", 怎样运用这些体验, 是一个
: 很好的问题.
the
treaure.
complicated
some
【在 s***n 的大作中提到】
: 如果我急得不错, 这个就是所谓的马斯洛的"高峰体验", 怎样运用这些体验, 是一个
: 很好的问题.
o*e
16 楼
nothing is useful. hehe
simplify
【在 p*******r 的大作中提到】
: peak experience is useless.
:
: the
: treaure.
: complicated
: some
simplify
【在 p*******r 的大作中提到】
: peak experience is useless.
:
: the
: treaure.
: complicated
: some
q*n
17 楼
So how do you deal with sad feelings now?
To me, sad feelings can be addict. They are often associated with beautiful
and sublime feelings such as love or nostalgia. Although they put a negative
influence on me in the practical senses, it is quite hard for me to abandon
them willingly. In clinical psychology, a method called "cognitive therapy" is
often used to deal with ones' own emotional problem, especially for people not
clinical depressed. The idea of the method is to analyze the roots of y
To me, sad feelings can be addict. They are often associated with beautiful
and sublime feelings such as love or nostalgia. Although they put a negative
influence on me in the practical senses, it is quite hard for me to abandon
them willingly. In clinical psychology, a method called "cognitive therapy" is
often used to deal with ones' own emotional problem, especially for people not
clinical depressed. The idea of the method is to analyze the roots of y
q*n
18 楼
what "double love and hate" thing?
【在 p*******r 的大作中提到】
: extreme feeling is not the problem. But attachment to extreme feelings, the
: double love and hate thing is a problem.
:
: If
: life.
: opinion.
【在 p*******r 的大作中提到】
: extreme feeling is not the problem. But attachment to extreme feelings, the
: double love and hate thing is a problem.
:
: If
: life.
: opinion.
a*y
19 楼
想得出写不出来那更难受，呵呵
【在 p*******r 的大作中提到】
: peak experience is useless.
:
: the
: treaure.
: complicated
: some
【在 p*******r 的大作中提到】
: peak experience is useless.
:
: the
: treaure.
: complicated
: some
a*y
20 楼
I disagree,
for example extreme sadness w/o attachment cause my right hip pain
extreme happiness w/o attachment cause my left hip pain
Do you consider this as a problem? or you even consider body pain as an
attachment?
the
the
complicated
wrong.
to
for example extreme sadness w/o attachment cause my right hip pain
extreme happiness w/o attachment cause my left hip pain
Do you consider this as a problem? or you even consider body pain as an
attachment?
the
the
complicated
wrong.
to
a*y
21 楼
看大多数心理医生可能还不如看我管用，别说我狂。呵呵
【在 q*n 的大作中提到】
: 太多感性激荡，
: 爱太多的时候也会很sad,
: 想哭的感觉千丝万缕，
: 理性无法分析排解。
: 需要一个抒解的渠道
: 不想看心理医生那同情的脸。。。
【在 q*n 的大作中提到】
: 太多感性激荡，
: 爱太多的时候也会很sad,
: 想哭的感觉千丝万缕，
: 理性无法分析排解。
: 需要一个抒解的渠道
: 不想看心理医生那同情的脸。。。
q*n
22 楼
hey, don't mind.
It is always funny to see how posts are marked here. hehe.
I am alreay used to it.
did you see my reply on your post?
It is always funny to see how posts are marked here. hehe.
I am alreay used to it.
did you see my reply on your post?
q*n
23 楼
5733 :)
q*n
24 楼
how long you have been meditated?
so for you, "in tranquility" you feel the kind of "extreme sadness", but onl
y in the positive side(compassion) rather than the negative side?
\
so for you, "in tranquility" you feel the kind of "extreme sadness", but onl
y in the positive side(compassion) rather than the negative side?
\
q*n
25 楼
sorry i missed them, thanky you.
q*n
26 楼
谢谢。 唉。 生活不容易啊。
q*n
27 楼
唉，生活不容易啊， 我没准快要戒网了。
自己的问题处理不好， 谈别的都是空的， 逃避而已。
chrr其实挺勤快的，就是有点怪怪的。
自己的问题处理不好， 谈别的都是空的， 逃避而已。
chrr其实挺勤快的，就是有点怪怪的。
v*e
28 楼
嗯？你怎么消失了？ 到处找，这还有点。
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