从中国的老外论坛里看目前中国的外F形式# WaterWorld - 未名水世界
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中国女人见了老外男人就裤子松早就不是新闻了，但是究竟疯狂到什么程度呢？我近日
大概浏览了一下外国人在中国的论坛，里面关于约会relationship的版块基本都成了外
国男人们炫耀自己“战绩”排行榜，大家纷纷都在晒自己最近的“艳遇”，大概看了一
下，一个外国男人从18岁到81岁，不论身材如何，相貌如何，在中国待一两年，上几十
个中国女人基本是平均数如果有心的话，睡一两百国女都是很容易的事情，（这里指的
不是鸡），很多都是学生，白领，有素质有相貌的中国女人。而且一分钱不用付，很多
中国女人倒贴钱让老外上，并且带出去向别人炫耀，很长“面子“。
从论坛（shanghai expat）里面节选了几个老外男人炫耀自己艳遇的帖。
Re: Rules on Taking Girls Home by superkim » Wed Sep 21, 2011 3:59 pm
Back in 2003 I had a German friend who often went to Buddha Bar on Maoming
Lu. One night he went there and:
#1) He quickly met a local girl - took her home and fcuked her. Kicked her
out. Went back to the bar.
#2) Met a second local girl - took her home and fcuked her. Kicked her out.
Went back to the bar.
#3) Met a third local girl - took her home and fcuked her. Kicked her out.
Went to sleep.
True story. And probably not that unusual either. I have told some local '
friends' this story. They never believe me. They all claim that local girls
are traditional and 'good'. Cracks me up.
早在2003年，我有一个德国朋友，他们经常去茂名路酒吧佛。一天晚上，他去那里：
＃1）他很快就搭讪了一个当地女孩 – 带她回家，上了她。踢她出去。回到酒吧。
＃2）搭讪了第二个本地女孩 - 带她回家，上了她。踢她出去。回到酒吧。
＃3）搭讪了第三个当地女孩 - 送她回家，上了她。踢她出去。睡觉去了。
真实的故事。而且可能不是不寻常的事情。我已经告诉了一些地方的'朋友'这个故事。
他们从来不相信我。他们都声称，当地的女孩是传统和“好”。让我笑到不行。
by chingiskhan » Wed Sep 21, 2011 6:23 pm
I have hundreds of stories. I could go all night, so to speak! Friend of
mine was having lunch at Carls Junior in Raffles one day with wait for it,
his wife and one year old kid. Next table are 3 hot young students, around
20 years old. Wife takes kid to bathroom. Girl says to my friend "you are
such a great father, I wish you were my father" then they exchange numbers
before the wife comes back.
我有数以百计的故事。我可以去所有的夜晚，可以这么说！我的朋友Carls在Carls
Junior等待，他的妻子和一岁的孩子有一天午餐。隔壁桌子有三个很漂亮性感的女学生
，约20岁。老婆孩子到厕所后。女孩给我的朋友说：“你是这样一个伟大的父亲，我多
么想你是我的父亲啊”，然后他们迅速在他妻子回来交换号码。（后面的故事就不赘述
了,在随后的帖子中发现，该老外把三个女学生中的两个都XX了）
by expatguy1 » Fri Sep 23, 2011 10:46 am
I have had a great deal of sucess with the Married birds here. Most of them
are so discusted by their worthless Chinese husbands they are easy targets.
All they want is good sex, someone who showers regurarly and can last more
than 2 minutes in the sack. I was recently with a housewife 2 weeks ago and
she complained that her husband always came home trashed, wanted to have sex
and blew his wad in nano seconds. Most time though we would just come home
and pass out drunk. I have had countless housewives like this. Picking up
single Chinese women is very easy as well. I Funny, when I Eat at the Y,
most of them are like, OMG, where has this been all my life..., that keeps
them comming back for more, as their worthless BF and husbands wont head
south of the border...
我在上海搞已婚女人的成功率很高。他们大多数对自己一文不值的中国丈夫十分厌恶。
他们想要的是良好的性生活，要的是经常洗澡（意思是卫生习惯良好），并可以持续在
床上超过2分钟的男人。我最近2星期和一个家庭主妇在交往，她抱怨说，她的丈夫总是
回家脏兮兮的想跟她XXOO，但是几纳秒就缴械了。虽然我们只想回家并且醉倒。我遇到
过无数这样的家庭主妇又类似的故事。搞单身中国女人也是非常容易的。我想，当我在
Y吃饭，那里大部分单身女人会说，妈呀，这所有我的生活......，这使他们回来的更
多，因为他们毫无价值的男朋友和丈夫不会想通的.
by chingiskhan » Wed Sep 21, 2011 5:58 pm
A friend and myself once took two girls home we met at a club. After I was
done with my girl, she asked where my friend was and I pointed to his
bedroom. She then went in to his room and shagged him. His girl just went
home. I was really pissed he got to do both and I only got one. Then there's
the girl who slept with me and two of my friends (I was the last of the
three of us) and thought we didn't know. She didn't expect we'd talk. But of
course, we did.
一位朋友和我曾经带两个在俱乐部认识的本地女孩回家，我搞完我带的女孩后，她问我
的朋友在哪里，我指向他的卧室。她随后又在他的房间和他XXOO。他带的女孩刚刚回家
了。我真的很生气，他上了两个本地女人，我只搞了一个。然后还有这样一个女孩，她
和我们三个朋友都睡过（我是我们三个人的最后），以为我们不知道。她没想到我们会
谈论。但当然，我们聊到了。
by jeffinflorida » Tue Dec 16, 2008 4:34 pm
Here's my dilemma: This is a true story but some names have been changed to
protect the innocent...
About 5 days ago I was walking back to my home from the nearby village
market where I brought a bag of oranges. Whilst this is not uncommon, a very
attractive girl came up to say hello and asked me if I ever go dancing at a
local club. I live in an area with 3 major universities and there are 30k+
students around so the village is always flooded with girls at all times of
the day. It was about 1pm this day. She asked me where I was from and if I
was a teacher at the school I was heading to and I said yes. I asked her
where she was going and she said the internet cafe that we walked by. I said
by and kept walking. I have had these random encounters many times, I'm
sure we all do.
Fast forward. Friday night. My steady girlfriend of 8 months is i n her room
, didn't want to come over. I am HAPPILY playing Xbox in my room, laying on
the couch. There's a knock on the door. I put some pants on ( like to play
Xbox in my Fruit of the Looms - and guess who is there! This attractive 22
year old girl. At my door.So I invite her in. She asks me if I want to go
dancing. I say no, not tonight, I am playing Xbox. So she sits on my couch
and we chat. Her English is ok. She's a 3rd year student at my school, but
not in my program. After about 1/2 hour I figure What The Hell, lets put
some moves on her. Ok no kiss, bad sign... Hands up her shirt Good sign I
ask her if its ok, she says yes. So the hands start to wander... Um the rack
is nice and not fake...
One hour later we are in my bed! Oh baby baby...
Come 11 I kind of want her to leave so I can go back to Xbox... I was
playing Call Of Duty World At War... Love to kill Nazis...
She says ok I will sleep here tonight. I say ok... Well guess what I had for
breakfast the next morning... So she leaves later on the day. I have NO
CLUE what her name is and don't have her phone number but I gave her mine. I
spend the day with my girlfriend, who is totally on the rag with her
attitude... And go back home. The next day... A knock at my door! Guess who'
s back! She comes over, spends the night yet again... This has gone on
almost every night since I met her. She comes over, watches tv, eats,
showers, does me, and either leaves or spends the night. After 5 days, I
still don't know her name or WHAT SHE WANTS. I am sure she has an angle, don
’t they all? Does she want money? A Visa? Clothes? New phone? Don’t know
yet. I can tell you she is attractive, loves to be held and cuddled, and
sleeps 14 hours a day – when she is not watching tv. What to do? I have 2
girlfriends already… Wasn’t really looking for a third. Maybe I need to
post this on a new thread…
这是我的迷惑之处，这是真实的故事但是主人公使用化名为了保障隐私。
大概五天前，我走在回家的路上路过一个菜市场，带着一包橙子。一个非常漂亮的女孩
走上来跟我搭讪（这种情况实际上经常发生）并询问我是否会在这附近的夜店跳舞，我
住的地方有三个大学，超过30,000学生住在附近，所以街头总是有很多女学生。这事情
发生在下午一点。
她问我从哪里来，我说我是附近学校的一个老师，正在前往学校的路上。我问她去哪里
，她说她正要去网吧。我一边走一边说。。。其实我已经遇到过很多类似的搭讪，我相
信我们（老外）都遇到过很多。
一转眼到了星期五晚上。我8个月长期交往女友在她的房间不想过来。我很高兴地在我
的房间玩的Xbox，躺在沙发上。有一个敲门声。我把裤子穿上（我喜欢穿着内裤玩游戏
） - 猜猜谁在门口？竟然是这迷人的22岁女孩。我请她进来，她问我要不要去跳舞我
说不要，我要玩xbox。她于是就坐在我的沙发上跟我聊天，她的英文不错，是我教书学
校里大三的一个学生，但不是我们系的。过了半个小时，我开始对他发起攻势，不准亲
吻，坏兆头，摸她的T-shirt，还可以，我问我是否可以继续，她说OK，所以我开始摸
她，她胸很大，也不假
一个小时后我们上床了。
11点钟我想让她离开了，我还想继续玩Xbox，喜欢call of duty，继续杀我的纳粹德军
。。。她问我是否可以在这里过夜我说可以猜猜我第二天早上吃什么早餐（意味着很好
）她那天晚些时候走了，我一点都不知道她的名字和电话，但是我给了她我的电话，我
花了一天的时间去陪我的那个固定女友，她来月经了情绪不好于是就回家了。隔天，又
有人敲门，猜是谁，还是那个女孩，她几乎每天晚上都来，看电视洗澡，跟我XXOO，然
后度过整晚。过了我天我仍然不知道她要什么，我认为她肯定有想法，只是不知道。她
要钱么？签证？衣服还是一个新手机？我不知道。我唯一能说的是她很迷人，喜欢被搂
着，不看电视的时候可以睡14小时我怎么办？我已经有两个女朋友了，我不想要第三个
。。。也许我应该发一个新帖（在这个论坛）求助。。
Been in China for almost 6 weeks now and have "hung out" with this Chinese
girl twice.
我已经在中国呆了6周了，和这个中国女孩约会了2次
Info about said Chinese girl- 关于她的信息。。。
Year older than me (I'm 23), she works full time at company IT translating.
Her English is excellent, sometimes she has virtually no accent. She's from
Shandong province, has never been to US.
Ok, how we met is by a jogging ad she had placed on a large China ad site.
Basically she was looking for a "jogging partner" for evenings around her
neighborhood. Me, being interested in staying in shape, replied to the ad
and basically just asked her where are some good parks to run, etc (I was
leaving for China in just a few days). So, anyways we eventually swap skype
ids and she's very welcoming and offers to meet up with me my first week in
the city (BJ I hope this is ok since this is a SH forum). Sure, she happens
to be very pretty as far as I can tell on her skype pic.
Anyway, first meeting goes pretty well; she's definitely fit, attractive (
minus the pit daddy longlegs). We didn't jog, but casually walked around
some hutongs and had no problem chatting away. We talked a bit in Mandarin
as well. The flirting didn't really escalate too much, some slight touches
on the arm and a squeeze of the biceps once. My way of "flirting" is to
crack semi-vulgar jokes and tease, which because she is almost fluent in
English she understood most of. There was definitely some chemistry.
So the 3 hour or so session ended and she said anytime I wanted to hang out
she would be up for it. Fast forward about 12 days and we agree to meet at a
popular western hangout for dinner, kind of at the last minute. Me being a
big dummy that day totally screwed up the subway stop and didnt realize it
until 45 minutes later..then my cell dies so I can't call her to say I wont
show.I apologized later that nightwhen I returned home and say if she still
wants to meet up I'd pay for entire dinner since I pretty much stood her up.
So eventually we meet up again (not exactly super convienent since we're on
opposite sides of city) a few weeks later.
Before and after dinner the touching and constant flirting was out of
control. Sure, some of it I brought on myself because hey, I sort of dig
this girl's personality, intelligence, humor and body, so I was stirring the
pot. Her hand touched/smacked my ass at least 4 different times, she put
her hand through my lush hair twice. She loves to lean into the body when
laughing.
Basically, I'm pretty sure she only finds Western guys attractive, as she
told me she had an American boy friend for 6 months. Can't get a handle on
if she's looking down the road for a pass to the states, or wants a fling (
hasn't invited me up to apartment but did give me subtle clue when she told
me of new pet she got).
She's obviously not one of the types who just wants to be a house wife in
the states, though I could defintely seeing her as one of those girls who
wants to date a foreigner to show off to her friends (thus she seeks out
similar age. As for the gold digger aspect- Me, being recently graduated and
not sure if I want to try work in BJ or back in states, am not loaded in
the wallet-I think she pretty much gets this.
She says she's not a big partier, which I kinda believe..but I still get a
vibe that she very well throws herself to young good looking Western guys,
and am sure many have escalated things much quicker than I. So the next time
we plan to meet is fairly soon, and I'm definitely pushing towards being
more physically with her than I initially have been, but I'm still a bit
cautious about her. I'm not looking to bang every attractive Asian girl who
speaks good english and that I get along with, but you know, I may want to
with this one. Ever since she offered to meet me so soon upon entering the
city, it's been me who has initiated meeting up (albeit just about to be 3
times so far). She's definitely doesn't blow up my phone, which I'm not
complaining about..but it's not the usual with with interested girls. What's
your reading on this girl?
她比我大一岁（我23）,她在IT公司做全职工作。她的英文很流利，有时几乎没有任何
口音。她来自山东，没去过美国。
我们认识在一个中国广告论坛上，她发帖找傍晚跑步的‘跑友’，我喜欢锻炼，就回复
了她，并且问她附近有什么好的公园。我们交换了Skype，她很热情并且提议见面。。
。。从她的skype照片可以看出她很漂亮。。。。
不论怎样，第一次见面相当不错，她的绝对合适的，有吸引力的（腿有点粗）。我们没
有慢跑，但随便逛了周围的一些胡同，聊得相当投机。我们用普通话交流了一阵。但是
没有太多的调情，我们的手臂和二头肌挤一些轻微的接触一次。我的“调情”方式是破
解隐晦的黄色笑话和挑逗她，也是因为她几乎是一口流利的英语（没有交流障碍），她
应该明白。肯定有一些‘情调’在其中。
这样，3小时左右的见面结束了。她说，任何时候我想约她出去都可以。叙述跳进12天
，我们约在在西部一个不错的餐馆吃饭，我那天脑子坏掉了，做错了地铁。等我意识到
的时候已经迟了45分钟。..然后我的手机没电了，所以我不能打电话给她说我那天晚上
不会来了。我晚上回到家里，问她是否想再见面，我会为这个晚餐卖单（）因为我几乎
放了她整整一天的鸽子。最后我们几周后又见面了（我们住在这个城市的相反方向所以
并不是很方便）
（这次吃饭），饭前饭后我们的调情嬉戏几乎无法控制，我很主动因为我几乎看透了这
个女孩的性格，智慧，幽默和身体。所以我一直在调升气氛。。。我们互相触摸。。（
此处省去一些翻译）
基本上，我很肯定她认为只有西方男人才是吸引人的，她也告诉我说她六个月前有一个
美国男友。我不太确定她是否想通过结婚到美国或者只是发展一段短期恋情。（她没有
邀请我去她家，但是当她提起她新养得宠物时候有暗示过我）
她的显然不是只是想嫁到美做一个家庭主妇的类型，但我可以很明显地看到他是那种喜
欢和老外谈恋爱并且带到她朋友面前炫耀的那种人，所以她喜欢找年龄相若的老外约会
。对我来讲，刚刚离开学校，还不太确定究竟在哪里工作（北京或者美国）我明显不是
大款，也没什么钱，我想她知道这一点。(篇幅所限，一下翻译省去）
以下是从The Beijinger（北京老外的主要论坛）里面节选的一个很热门的帖子.
Why are Chinese girls so easy to...*you know*
Posted Aug 25, 2009 12:39pm by rhinox
Why are Chinese girls so easy to bang?
'Should pretty much sum it all up. Beijing is like a PARADISE for guys. And
I'm not talking about brothels/massage parlors or anything where you pay
money. It's like girls throw themselves at you at clubs, schools, bars,
classes, etc, just to experience something "different", "exotic" and "
exciting".I've gotten quite big-headed since arriving in China. I got action
back in the States, but NOTHING like China. My Chinese isn't even that good
. Can you imagine a Chinese guy in the U.S. trying to pick up chicks with
broken English?I'm by no means complaining, just wondering =P
中国女孩为什么那么容易就跟我们（老外）上床？
“几乎总结这一切。北京就像是一个（老外）男人的天堂。我不是在谈论妓院/按摩院
或任何你付钱的场所。而是中国女孩们主动对你投怀送抱，在俱乐部，学校，酒吧，类
等，体验一番“不同”，“异国情调”和“令人兴奋”。
我以前在美国也有类似经历。但没有像中国（这么容易）。
我的中文没有怎么好。但你能想象在美国的中国男人，可以用蹩脚的英文搭讪女孩么？
我没有抱怨什么，只是想知道为什么。
评论：在这些论坛里读了一些帖子，粗略估计一下。发现现在在北上广这种大城市的年
轻女生，如果是受过教育，懂英文，长相身材比较好的，只要跟老外男人接触过70%都
跟老外睡过了（包括很多已经结婚的）。有些老外在上海北京等地当外籍教师，班上长
得像样的女学生80%都被他睡过（而且大多数是女生倒贴的），公司主管更不用说。。
。。。这就是中国改革开放的结果。
大概浏览了一下外国人在中国的论坛，里面关于约会relationship的版块基本都成了外
国男人们炫耀自己“战绩”排行榜，大家纷纷都在晒自己最近的“艳遇”，大概看了一
下，一个外国男人从18岁到81岁，不论身材如何，相貌如何，在中国待一两年，上几十
个中国女人基本是平均数如果有心的话，睡一两百国女都是很容易的事情，（这里指的
不是鸡），很多都是学生，白领，有素质有相貌的中国女人。而且一分钱不用付，很多
中国女人倒贴钱让老外上，并且带出去向别人炫耀，很长“面子“。
从论坛（shanghai expat）里面节选了几个老外男人炫耀自己艳遇的帖。
Re: Rules on Taking Girls Home by superkim » Wed Sep 21, 2011 3:59 pm
Back in 2003 I had a German friend who often went to Buddha Bar on Maoming
Lu. One night he went there and:
#1) He quickly met a local girl - took her home and fcuked her. Kicked her
out. Went back to the bar.
#2) Met a second local girl - took her home and fcuked her. Kicked her out.
Went back to the bar.
#3) Met a third local girl - took her home and fcuked her. Kicked her out.
Went to sleep.
True story. And probably not that unusual either. I have told some local '
friends' this story. They never believe me. They all claim that local girls
are traditional and 'good'. Cracks me up.
早在2003年，我有一个德国朋友，他们经常去茂名路酒吧佛。一天晚上，他去那里：
＃1）他很快就搭讪了一个当地女孩 – 带她回家，上了她。踢她出去。回到酒吧。
＃2）搭讪了第二个本地女孩 - 带她回家，上了她。踢她出去。回到酒吧。
＃3）搭讪了第三个当地女孩 - 送她回家，上了她。踢她出去。睡觉去了。
真实的故事。而且可能不是不寻常的事情。我已经告诉了一些地方的'朋友'这个故事。
他们从来不相信我。他们都声称，当地的女孩是传统和“好”。让我笑到不行。
by chingiskhan » Wed Sep 21, 2011 6:23 pm
I have hundreds of stories. I could go all night, so to speak! Friend of
mine was having lunch at Carls Junior in Raffles one day with wait for it,
his wife and one year old kid. Next table are 3 hot young students, around
20 years old. Wife takes kid to bathroom. Girl says to my friend "you are
such a great father, I wish you were my father" then they exchange numbers
before the wife comes back.
我有数以百计的故事。我可以去所有的夜晚，可以这么说！我的朋友Carls在Carls
Junior等待，他的妻子和一岁的孩子有一天午餐。隔壁桌子有三个很漂亮性感的女学生
，约20岁。老婆孩子到厕所后。女孩给我的朋友说：“你是这样一个伟大的父亲，我多
么想你是我的父亲啊”，然后他们迅速在他妻子回来交换号码。（后面的故事就不赘述
了,在随后的帖子中发现，该老外把三个女学生中的两个都XX了）
by expatguy1 » Fri Sep 23, 2011 10:46 am
I have had a great deal of sucess with the Married birds here. Most of them
are so discusted by their worthless Chinese husbands they are easy targets.
All they want is good sex, someone who showers regurarly and can last more
than 2 minutes in the sack. I was recently with a housewife 2 weeks ago and
she complained that her husband always came home trashed, wanted to have sex
and blew his wad in nano seconds. Most time though we would just come home
and pass out drunk. I have had countless housewives like this. Picking up
single Chinese women is very easy as well. I Funny, when I Eat at the Y,
most of them are like, OMG, where has this been all my life..., that keeps
them comming back for more, as their worthless BF and husbands wont head
south of the border...
我在上海搞已婚女人的成功率很高。他们大多数对自己一文不值的中国丈夫十分厌恶。
他们想要的是良好的性生活，要的是经常洗澡（意思是卫生习惯良好），并可以持续在
床上超过2分钟的男人。我最近2星期和一个家庭主妇在交往，她抱怨说，她的丈夫总是
回家脏兮兮的想跟她XXOO，但是几纳秒就缴械了。虽然我们只想回家并且醉倒。我遇到
过无数这样的家庭主妇又类似的故事。搞单身中国女人也是非常容易的。我想，当我在
Y吃饭，那里大部分单身女人会说，妈呀，这所有我的生活......，这使他们回来的更
多，因为他们毫无价值的男朋友和丈夫不会想通的.
by chingiskhan » Wed Sep 21, 2011 5:58 pm
A friend and myself once took two girls home we met at a club. After I was
done with my girl, she asked where my friend was and I pointed to his
bedroom. She then went in to his room and shagged him. His girl just went
home. I was really pissed he got to do both and I only got one. Then there's
the girl who slept with me and two of my friends (I was the last of the
three of us) and thought we didn't know. She didn't expect we'd talk. But of
course, we did.
一位朋友和我曾经带两个在俱乐部认识的本地女孩回家，我搞完我带的女孩后，她问我
的朋友在哪里，我指向他的卧室。她随后又在他的房间和他XXOO。他带的女孩刚刚回家
了。我真的很生气，他上了两个本地女人，我只搞了一个。然后还有这样一个女孩，她
和我们三个朋友都睡过（我是我们三个人的最后），以为我们不知道。她没想到我们会
谈论。但当然，我们聊到了。
by jeffinflorida » Tue Dec 16, 2008 4:34 pm
Here's my dilemma: This is a true story but some names have been changed to
protect the innocent...
About 5 days ago I was walking back to my home from the nearby village
market where I brought a bag of oranges. Whilst this is not uncommon, a very
attractive girl came up to say hello and asked me if I ever go dancing at a
local club. I live in an area with 3 major universities and there are 30k+
students around so the village is always flooded with girls at all times of
the day. It was about 1pm this day. She asked me where I was from and if I
was a teacher at the school I was heading to and I said yes. I asked her
where she was going and she said the internet cafe that we walked by. I said
by and kept walking. I have had these random encounters many times, I'm
sure we all do.
Fast forward. Friday night. My steady girlfriend of 8 months is i n her room
, didn't want to come over. I am HAPPILY playing Xbox in my room, laying on
the couch. There's a knock on the door. I put some pants on ( like to play
Xbox in my Fruit of the Looms - and guess who is there! This attractive 22
year old girl. At my door.So I invite her in. She asks me if I want to go
dancing. I say no, not tonight, I am playing Xbox. So she sits on my couch
and we chat. Her English is ok. She's a 3rd year student at my school, but
not in my program. After about 1/2 hour I figure What The Hell, lets put
some moves on her. Ok no kiss, bad sign... Hands up her shirt Good sign I
ask her if its ok, she says yes. So the hands start to wander... Um the rack
is nice and not fake...
One hour later we are in my bed! Oh baby baby...
Come 11 I kind of want her to leave so I can go back to Xbox... I was
playing Call Of Duty World At War... Love to kill Nazis...
She says ok I will sleep here tonight. I say ok... Well guess what I had for
breakfast the next morning... So she leaves later on the day. I have NO
CLUE what her name is and don't have her phone number but I gave her mine. I
spend the day with my girlfriend, who is totally on the rag with her
attitude... And go back home. The next day... A knock at my door! Guess who'
s back! She comes over, spends the night yet again... This has gone on
almost every night since I met her. She comes over, watches tv, eats,
showers, does me, and either leaves or spends the night. After 5 days, I
still don't know her name or WHAT SHE WANTS. I am sure she has an angle, don
’t they all? Does she want money? A Visa? Clothes? New phone? Don’t know
yet. I can tell you she is attractive, loves to be held and cuddled, and
sleeps 14 hours a day – when she is not watching tv. What to do? I have 2
girlfriends already… Wasn’t really looking for a third. Maybe I need to
post this on a new thread…
这是我的迷惑之处，这是真实的故事但是主人公使用化名为了保障隐私。
大概五天前，我走在回家的路上路过一个菜市场，带着一包橙子。一个非常漂亮的女孩
走上来跟我搭讪（这种情况实际上经常发生）并询问我是否会在这附近的夜店跳舞，我
住的地方有三个大学，超过30,000学生住在附近，所以街头总是有很多女学生。这事情
发生在下午一点。
她问我从哪里来，我说我是附近学校的一个老师，正在前往学校的路上。我问她去哪里
，她说她正要去网吧。我一边走一边说。。。其实我已经遇到过很多类似的搭讪，我相
信我们（老外）都遇到过很多。
一转眼到了星期五晚上。我8个月长期交往女友在她的房间不想过来。我很高兴地在我
的房间玩的Xbox，躺在沙发上。有一个敲门声。我把裤子穿上（我喜欢穿着内裤玩游戏
） - 猜猜谁在门口？竟然是这迷人的22岁女孩。我请她进来，她问我要不要去跳舞我
说不要，我要玩xbox。她于是就坐在我的沙发上跟我聊天，她的英文不错，是我教书学
校里大三的一个学生，但不是我们系的。过了半个小时，我开始对他发起攻势，不准亲
吻，坏兆头，摸她的T-shirt，还可以，我问我是否可以继续，她说OK，所以我开始摸
她，她胸很大，也不假
一个小时后我们上床了。
11点钟我想让她离开了，我还想继续玩Xbox，喜欢call of duty，继续杀我的纳粹德军
。。。她问我是否可以在这里过夜我说可以猜猜我第二天早上吃什么早餐（意味着很好
）她那天晚些时候走了，我一点都不知道她的名字和电话，但是我给了她我的电话，我
花了一天的时间去陪我的那个固定女友，她来月经了情绪不好于是就回家了。隔天，又
有人敲门，猜是谁，还是那个女孩，她几乎每天晚上都来，看电视洗澡，跟我XXOO，然
后度过整晚。过了我天我仍然不知道她要什么，我认为她肯定有想法，只是不知道。她
要钱么？签证？衣服还是一个新手机？我不知道。我唯一能说的是她很迷人，喜欢被搂
着，不看电视的时候可以睡14小时我怎么办？我已经有两个女朋友了，我不想要第三个
。。。也许我应该发一个新帖（在这个论坛）求助。。
Been in China for almost 6 weeks now and have "hung out" with this Chinese
girl twice.
我已经在中国呆了6周了，和这个中国女孩约会了2次
Info about said Chinese girl- 关于她的信息。。。
Year older than me (I'm 23), she works full time at company IT translating.
Her English is excellent, sometimes she has virtually no accent. She's from
Shandong province, has never been to US.
Ok, how we met is by a jogging ad she had placed on a large China ad site.
Basically she was looking for a "jogging partner" for evenings around her
neighborhood. Me, being interested in staying in shape, replied to the ad
and basically just asked her where are some good parks to run, etc (I was
leaving for China in just a few days). So, anyways we eventually swap skype
ids and she's very welcoming and offers to meet up with me my first week in
the city (BJ I hope this is ok since this is a SH forum). Sure, she happens
to be very pretty as far as I can tell on her skype pic.
Anyway, first meeting goes pretty well; she's definitely fit, attractive (
minus the pit daddy longlegs). We didn't jog, but casually walked around
some hutongs and had no problem chatting away. We talked a bit in Mandarin
as well. The flirting didn't really escalate too much, some slight touches
on the arm and a squeeze of the biceps once. My way of "flirting" is to
crack semi-vulgar jokes and tease, which because she is almost fluent in
English she understood most of. There was definitely some chemistry.
So the 3 hour or so session ended and she said anytime I wanted to hang out
she would be up for it. Fast forward about 12 days and we agree to meet at a
popular western hangout for dinner, kind of at the last minute. Me being a
big dummy that day totally screwed up the subway stop and didnt realize it
until 45 minutes later..then my cell dies so I can't call her to say I wont
show.I apologized later that nightwhen I returned home and say if she still
wants to meet up I'd pay for entire dinner since I pretty much stood her up.
So eventually we meet up again (not exactly super convienent since we're on
opposite sides of city) a few weeks later.
Before and after dinner the touching and constant flirting was out of
control. Sure, some of it I brought on myself because hey, I sort of dig
this girl's personality, intelligence, humor and body, so I was stirring the
pot. Her hand touched/smacked my ass at least 4 different times, she put
her hand through my lush hair twice. She loves to lean into the body when
laughing.
Basically, I'm pretty sure she only finds Western guys attractive, as she
told me she had an American boy friend for 6 months. Can't get a handle on
if she's looking down the road for a pass to the states, or wants a fling (
hasn't invited me up to apartment but did give me subtle clue when she told
me of new pet she got).
She's obviously not one of the types who just wants to be a house wife in
the states, though I could defintely seeing her as one of those girls who
wants to date a foreigner to show off to her friends (thus she seeks out
similar age. As for the gold digger aspect- Me, being recently graduated and
not sure if I want to try work in BJ or back in states, am not loaded in
the wallet-I think she pretty much gets this.
She says she's not a big partier, which I kinda believe..but I still get a
vibe that she very well throws herself to young good looking Western guys,
and am sure many have escalated things much quicker than I. So the next time
we plan to meet is fairly soon, and I'm definitely pushing towards being
more physically with her than I initially have been, but I'm still a bit
cautious about her. I'm not looking to bang every attractive Asian girl who
speaks good english and that I get along with, but you know, I may want to
with this one. Ever since she offered to meet me so soon upon entering the
city, it's been me who has initiated meeting up (albeit just about to be 3
times so far). She's definitely doesn't blow up my phone, which I'm not
complaining about..but it's not the usual with with interested girls. What's
your reading on this girl?
她比我大一岁（我23）,她在IT公司做全职工作。她的英文很流利，有时几乎没有任何
口音。她来自山东，没去过美国。
我们认识在一个中国广告论坛上，她发帖找傍晚跑步的‘跑友’，我喜欢锻炼，就回复
了她，并且问她附近有什么好的公园。我们交换了Skype，她很热情并且提议见面。。
。。从她的skype照片可以看出她很漂亮。。。。
不论怎样，第一次见面相当不错，她的绝对合适的，有吸引力的（腿有点粗）。我们没
有慢跑，但随便逛了周围的一些胡同，聊得相当投机。我们用普通话交流了一阵。但是
没有太多的调情，我们的手臂和二头肌挤一些轻微的接触一次。我的“调情”方式是破
解隐晦的黄色笑话和挑逗她，也是因为她几乎是一口流利的英语（没有交流障碍），她
应该明白。肯定有一些‘情调’在其中。
这样，3小时左右的见面结束了。她说，任何时候我想约她出去都可以。叙述跳进12天
，我们约在在西部一个不错的餐馆吃饭，我那天脑子坏掉了，做错了地铁。等我意识到
的时候已经迟了45分钟。..然后我的手机没电了，所以我不能打电话给她说我那天晚上
不会来了。我晚上回到家里，问她是否想再见面，我会为这个晚餐卖单（）因为我几乎
放了她整整一天的鸽子。最后我们几周后又见面了（我们住在这个城市的相反方向所以
并不是很方便）
（这次吃饭），饭前饭后我们的调情嬉戏几乎无法控制，我很主动因为我几乎看透了这
个女孩的性格，智慧，幽默和身体。所以我一直在调升气氛。。。我们互相触摸。。（
此处省去一些翻译）
基本上，我很肯定她认为只有西方男人才是吸引人的，她也告诉我说她六个月前有一个
美国男友。我不太确定她是否想通过结婚到美国或者只是发展一段短期恋情。（她没有
邀请我去她家，但是当她提起她新养得宠物时候有暗示过我）
她的显然不是只是想嫁到美做一个家庭主妇的类型，但我可以很明显地看到他是那种喜
欢和老外谈恋爱并且带到她朋友面前炫耀的那种人，所以她喜欢找年龄相若的老外约会
。对我来讲，刚刚离开学校，还不太确定究竟在哪里工作（北京或者美国）我明显不是
大款，也没什么钱，我想她知道这一点。(篇幅所限，一下翻译省去）
以下是从The Beijinger（北京老外的主要论坛）里面节选的一个很热门的帖子.
Why are Chinese girls so easy to...*you know*
Posted Aug 25, 2009 12:39pm by rhinox
Why are Chinese girls so easy to bang?
'Should pretty much sum it all up. Beijing is like a PARADISE for guys. And
I'm not talking about brothels/massage parlors or anything where you pay
money. It's like girls throw themselves at you at clubs, schools, bars,
classes, etc, just to experience something "different", "exotic" and "
exciting".I've gotten quite big-headed since arriving in China. I got action
back in the States, but NOTHING like China. My Chinese isn't even that good
. Can you imagine a Chinese guy in the U.S. trying to pick up chicks with
broken English?I'm by no means complaining, just wondering =P
中国女孩为什么那么容易就跟我们（老外）上床？
“几乎总结这一切。北京就像是一个（老外）男人的天堂。我不是在谈论妓院/按摩院
或任何你付钱的场所。而是中国女孩们主动对你投怀送抱，在俱乐部，学校，酒吧，类
等，体验一番“不同”，“异国情调”和“令人兴奋”。
我以前在美国也有类似经历。但没有像中国（这么容易）。
我的中文没有怎么好。但你能想象在美国的中国男人，可以用蹩脚的英文搭讪女孩么？
我没有抱怨什么，只是想知道为什么。
评论：在这些论坛里读了一些帖子，粗略估计一下。发现现在在北上广这种大城市的年
轻女生，如果是受过教育，懂英文，长相身材比较好的，只要跟老外男人接触过70%都
跟老外睡过了（包括很多已经结婚的）。有些老外在上海北京等地当外籍教师，班上长
得像样的女学生80%都被他睡过（而且大多数是女生倒贴的），公司主管更不用说。。
。。。这就是中国改革开放的结果。
