价值观和是非观

一个有原则的人，他的价值观是独立思想的表现，不以眼前的利益和当下的潮流而改变。

“... the way things changed so much in America, they look at him as if John came from another age, lived by a different code, an ancient, antiquated code where honor, courage, integrity, duty, were alive. That was obvious, how John lived his life. The truth is, John's code was ageless, is ageless. When you talked earlier, Grant, you talked about values. It wasn't about politics with John. He could disagree on substance, but the underlying values that animated everything John did, everything he was, come to a different conclusion. He'd part company with you if you lacked the basic values of decency, respect, knowing this project is bigger than yourself." ～ Joe Biden

 

价值，value, 重利益和重精神的有不同的估量。 

 

一个注重品德的人，他的是非观以善恶来区分对错。一个人是好人还是坏人，不以是否对自己好来分别，而是看那人是否扶弱抑强；一件事是好事还是坏事，不以狭隘自身利益来判断，而是看那件事是否对社会整体有益。

重人品的交结朋友，不会因意见不同或利益不一至而反目。如拜登和麦克恩。

重品德的论荣辱，不以成败为标准。忠诚并坚持自己的信念，体现的是独立人格和精神自由。

荣辱是对人，成败是对事。

麦克恩的荣誉，在于他勇于承担责任，为自己为国家。他为人正直，真诚。

作了几十年议员，麦克恩并没什么值得夸耀的政绩。作为政客，他两度竞选总统失败。而那两个击败他的政治对手，将应他的邀请在追思会上致词。

盖棺定论，是成王败寇，还是崇高的英雄主义，不同的价值观是非观有不一样的结论。