reply to this part:"但我的时间和精力有限,很快就会被孩子拉下很多的".
I don't think you need to worry too much. Your child grows up in a
different cultural environment, he will learn different things. It is
natural.
But after all, who said knowing pop cultural things will define a child's
academic and social success, or make him less happy and less productive in
life? Even if he does not know certain things (words, stories and etc.), he
will LEARN, if not from you, from other people or from his peer.
Encourage his