EB2和EB1能都做吗？还要准备EB1 吗？# EB23 - 劳工卡
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I usually don't jump into this kind of quarrels, but I am saying this for
your own good. If you don't like what I say, forget it. I am not gonna say
more anyways.
-- There could be many reasons why you find it hard to land a professorship,
and I am not in a position to judge your intellectual work. But I do notice
, from this long thread of conversations, that you are too defensive. You
fence and secure yourself by fighting against every sentence that you don't
like. It is not good for you, not for your career and neither for your
happiness. You don't listen to people---or, you choose only what you like to
listen to---so that people feel uncomfortable talking to you. Most of the
comments here are out of kindness, I can tell, but you judge people's
qualifications and act in a manner that you know more about your problem
than they do. Then, what is the point to look for help here in the first
place? Being defensive means that you are afraid of admitting your dark side
, and that you don't want to confront what really prevents you being a
better you. Your fragile personality is a stumbling block for your future
achievements, be it or not a contributing factor of your current hardness of
career.
The last piece of advice: please, always be confident, yet humble.
your own good. If you don't like what I say, forget it. I am not gonna say
more anyways.
-- There could be many reasons why you find it hard to land a professorship,
and I am not in a position to judge your intellectual work. But I do notice
, from this long thread of conversations, that you are too defensive. You
fence and secure yourself by fighting against every sentence that you don't
like. It is not good for you, not for your career and neither for your
happiness. You don't listen to people---or, you choose only what you like to
listen to---so that people feel uncomfortable talking to you. Most of the
comments here are out of kindness, I can tell, but you judge people's
qualifications and act in a manner that you know more about your problem
than they do. Then, what is the point to look for help here in the first
place? Being defensive means that you are afraid of admitting your dark side
, and that you don't want to confront what really prevents you being a
better you. Your fragile personality is a stumbling block for your future
achievements, be it or not a contributing factor of your current hardness of
career.
The last piece of advice: please, always be confident, yet humble.
