t*u
2 楼
m*s
3 楼
我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
j*o
4 楼
是不是这样的,这个身份背景调查和名字popular关系很大吗
看网上获批时间长短有感
thanks
看网上获批时间长短有感
thanks
a*a
5 楼
同学们,你们每天换bra吗?或者几天换一次?我怎么觉得每天换洗太勤,马上就变形
了啊。。。
还有,什么牌子/型号比较帮助保持现状啊。。。就是说,对下垂比较有防范作用?//
blush
了啊。。。
还有,什么牌子/型号比较帮助保持现状啊。。。就是说,对下垂比较有防范作用?//
blush
l*n
7 楼
超市啊 我这好像除了safeway都行。。。
y*i
8 楼
这个可以找老师谈一下了
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
m*7
10 楼
..if I was a girl, I would buy 31 different color bras(about $12 per
victoria's secret)..and wash them every month..
victoria's secret)..and wash them every month..
z*0
12 楼
这个属于bully了,俺觉得应该告诉老师甚至校长,让他们出面惩戒。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
l*w
13 楼
听朋友说FBI的name check 90%以上都是一个月就完了。
c*u
15 楼
真的?这得找老师找校长。不开玩笑。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
s*m
16 楼
我的经验是:无关
j*o
19 楼
thanks,看来是运气控阿
人品是关键阿
人品是关键阿
l*n
20 楼
11月的 都给了
safeway买一百只有一部分现实6%。。。莫名其妙的
safeway买一百只有一部分现实6%。。。莫名其妙的
B*1
25 楼
如果都见过校长了,就要求换班。再不行,搬家换学校。成人无法控制小孩的思想和行
为。家长也几乎不会对孩子的行为过失负责。
为。家长也几乎不会对孩子的行为过失负责。
l*2
26 楼
It's the adults behind this. If I were you I would also confront the
paretens face to face.
Well, just remind, I know you might not be happy to see Chinese around, but
in a country
based on imigrants from all over world, you are better to show your kids a
possitive attidtudes to immigratns like Chinese; otherwise he might get into
trouble because of you.
paretens face to face.
Well, just remind, I know you might not be happy to see Chinese around, but
in a country
based on imigrants from all over world, you are better to show your kids a
possitive attidtudes to immigratns like Chinese; otherwise he might get into
trouble because of you.
B*1
30 楼
并不是所有的 Chinese 都是好人,并不是所有的 Chinese 都是坏人。一个孩子,如果
真碰上了一个坏 Chinese 或貌似坏的 Chinese,有可能造成上述小孩所说的话。跟小
孩讲理,大家都在家里都操练过。自己琢磨去吧。
你如果放心自己的孩子和一个已经表示不喜欢你孩子的人朝夕相处,自然可以不换班不
换校。如果这是你的 common sense 话。
真碰上了一个坏 Chinese 或貌似坏的 Chinese,有可能造成上述小孩所说的话。跟小
孩讲理,大家都在家里都操练过。自己琢磨去吧。
你如果放心自己的孩子和一个已经表示不喜欢你孩子的人朝夕相处,自然可以不换班不
换校。如果这是你的 common sense 话。
z*0
32 楼
直接找小孩家长有点过激了,可能让本来有理的事情看上去像胡闹。
你咋知道是对方家长施加的影响,而不是学校同学的影响或电影电视的影响。
but
into
【在 l******2 的大作中提到】
: It's the adults behind this. If I were you I would also confront the
: paretens face to face.
: Well, just remind, I know you might not be happy to see Chinese around, but
: in a country
: based on imigrants from all over world, you are better to show your kids a
: possitive attidtudes to immigratns like Chinese; otherwise he might get into
: trouble because of you.
你咋知道是对方家长施加的影响,而不是学校同学的影响或电影电视的影响。
but
into
【在 l******2 的大作中提到】
: It's the adults behind this. If I were you I would also confront the
: paretens face to face.
: Well, just remind, I know you might not be happy to see Chinese around, but
: in a country
: based on imigrants from all over world, you are better to show your kids a
: possitive attidtudes to immigratns like Chinese; otherwise he might get into
: trouble because of you.
a*r
33 楼
其实吧,这事情也给这儿当父母的提个醒,在家少说点这种有种族倾向的话,“比如烙
印太多了,我不想让娃去那个学校”,孩子都是在重复家里大人说的话而已。
印太多了,我不想让娃去那个学校”,孩子都是在重复家里大人说的话而已。
a*g
35 楼
理所当然找老师。先写email非常严肃指出问题,留个底,看回信,然后再决定去不去
谈,或者要谈到哪一步。
我们小孩子在学校里,另外有一个中国小孩子很aggresive,有次早上拍儿子的头(儿子
目前算是熊蛋一枚)弄哭了,正好被妈妈听见,妈妈就email义正言辞地告诉老师,老
师都说是bully,绝不容许。后来我去学校drop儿子的时候,和aid宣扬宣扬,那个小孩
成了重点关注。学校也是有规则的不想惹麻烦的(现在学校连两个小孩玩时,有时高兴
,aid都说 no touch.。。这个,俺觉得小心过分了)
很多事情,大人是小孩子的榜样,不要指望一次就影响小孩子,但是长远的风格影响很
大。
除非碰到了极其操蛋的老师和校长,斗了很久你自己都屈服了,不要轻易换学校。你能
保证下一个学校,和社会上类似的事情,你儿子以后碰不到吗?当然,碰到有人持枪或
者团伙来了,这时候还是先保命要紧。
被歧视,如果小孩子能够smart,和别人联合起来,反过来能把那个小孩给斗成“shut
up”了,那真的要恭喜了。这个本领,很可惜,自己还没有学会。
柿子建软的捏,到哪里都如此。没有办法,是软柿子也要想办法装成硬柿子.如果总指
望换个学校滚个地方,以后会被捏得更多。
【在 c*******u 的大作中提到】
: 真的?这得找老师找校长。不开玩笑。
谈,或者要谈到哪一步。
我们小孩子在学校里,另外有一个中国小孩子很aggresive,有次早上拍儿子的头(儿子
目前算是熊蛋一枚)弄哭了,正好被妈妈听见,妈妈就email义正言辞地告诉老师,老
师都说是bully,绝不容许。后来我去学校drop儿子的时候,和aid宣扬宣扬,那个小孩
成了重点关注。学校也是有规则的不想惹麻烦的(现在学校连两个小孩玩时,有时高兴
,aid都说 no touch.。。这个,俺觉得小心过分了)
很多事情,大人是小孩子的榜样,不要指望一次就影响小孩子,但是长远的风格影响很
大。
除非碰到了极其操蛋的老师和校长,斗了很久你自己都屈服了,不要轻易换学校。你能
保证下一个学校,和社会上类似的事情,你儿子以后碰不到吗?当然,碰到有人持枪或
者团伙来了,这时候还是先保命要紧。
被歧视,如果小孩子能够smart,和别人联合起来,反过来能把那个小孩给斗成“shut
up”了,那真的要恭喜了。这个本领,很可惜,自己还没有学会。
柿子建软的捏,到哪里都如此。没有办法,是软柿子也要想办法装成硬柿子.如果总指
望换个学校滚个地方,以后会被捏得更多。
【在 c*******u 的大作中提到】
: 真的?这得找老师找校长。不开玩笑。
m*s
37 楼
我们给老师的信,贴过来
Dear Mrs. XXXXX,
We are sorry to bother you by email, but recently LY(我儿子) talked with us
about a few things at school that we would like you to know about.
1. One day MJ(who bullies my son) told LY that he did not want LY to be in
his class because
he is Chinese. We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say,
however that truly made LY very sad.
2. One day MJ repeatedly kicked away the blocks that LY was cleaning up.
At the fourth time, LY could not help crying.
3. MJ kicked LY so he fell to the ground before the carpet time.
4. We told LY to talk to Mrs. XXXXX when these things happen, however he
said: "I am afraid MJ will punch me after the time-out." LY told us MJ
has been mean to him repeatedly. It sounds to us that LY is not comfortable
with MJ..
We are concerned at what MJ said and did to LY. We do not think LY or any
kid should be treated differently because of his/her ethnicity. We
appreciate what you have done to make the class a discrimination-free
environment and hopefully we can work together on this issue in the future.
If there is anything we can do to make the things change, please let us know.
Best regards,
【在 a****g 的大作中提到】
: 理所当然找老师。先写email非常严肃指出问题,留个底,看回信,然后再决定去不去
: 谈,或者要谈到哪一步。
: 我们小孩子在学校里,另外有一个中国小孩子很aggresive,有次早上拍儿子的头(儿子
: 目前算是熊蛋一枚)弄哭了,正好被妈妈听见,妈妈就email义正言辞地告诉老师,老
: 师都说是bully,绝不容许。后来我去学校drop儿子的时候,和aid宣扬宣扬,那个小孩
: 成了重点关注。学校也是有规则的不想惹麻烦的(现在学校连两个小孩玩时,有时高兴
: ,aid都说 no touch.。。这个,俺觉得小心过分了)
: 很多事情,大人是小孩子的榜样,不要指望一次就影响小孩子,但是长远的风格影响很
: 大。
: 除非碰到了极其操蛋的老师和校长,斗了很久你自己都屈服了,不要轻易换学校。你能
Dear Mrs. XXXXX,
We are sorry to bother you by email, but recently LY(我儿子) talked with us
about a few things at school that we would like you to know about.
1. One day MJ(who bullies my son) told LY that he did not want LY to be in
his class because
he is Chinese. We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say,
however that truly made LY very sad.
2. One day MJ repeatedly kicked away the blocks that LY was cleaning up.
At the fourth time, LY could not help crying.
3. MJ kicked LY so he fell to the ground before the carpet time.
4. We told LY to talk to Mrs. XXXXX when these things happen, however he
said: "I am afraid MJ will punch me after the time-out." LY told us MJ
has been mean to him repeatedly. It sounds to us that LY is not comfortable
with MJ..
We are concerned at what MJ said and did to LY. We do not think LY or any
kid should be treated differently because of his/her ethnicity. We
appreciate what you have done to make the class a discrimination-free
environment and hopefully we can work together on this issue in the future.
If there is anything we can do to make the things change, please let us know.
Best regards,
【在 a****g 的大作中提到】
: 理所当然找老师。先写email非常严肃指出问题,留个底,看回信,然后再决定去不去
: 谈,或者要谈到哪一步。
: 我们小孩子在学校里,另外有一个中国小孩子很aggresive,有次早上拍儿子的头(儿子
: 目前算是熊蛋一枚)弄哭了,正好被妈妈听见,妈妈就email义正言辞地告诉老师,老
: 师都说是bully,绝不容许。后来我去学校drop儿子的时候,和aid宣扬宣扬,那个小孩
: 成了重点关注。学校也是有规则的不想惹麻烦的(现在学校连两个小孩玩时,有时高兴
: ,aid都说 no touch.。。这个,俺觉得小心过分了)
: 很多事情,大人是小孩子的榜样,不要指望一次就影响小孩子,但是长远的风格影响很
: 大。
: 除非碰到了极其操蛋的老师和校长,斗了很久你自己都屈服了,不要轻易换学校。你能
D*R
39 楼
换学校,这样的孩子,留给其他的中国孩子和家长来收拾,自己保持了绅士风度又保证
了安全,不是挺好么?
了安全,不是挺好么?
r*f
41 楼
他们老师是当摆设用的么?
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
a*g
42 楼
个人意见太温柔了。If I were you, I would write
Dear Miss xxx:
We would like to bring up a few things that LY told us on him
at school. Hope you can help address them:
1. On xxx Mojoe told LY that he did not want LY to be in his class because
he is CHINESE. This really hurt LY, and made him very sad.
2. On xxx, Mojoe kept kicking the blocks that LY was cleaning up
CONSECUTIVELY four time. This drove LY crazy, and he could not help crying
and feeling helpless.
3. On xxx, Mojoe kicked LY so hard that he lost control, and fell to the
ground, just before the carpet time.
We were shocked to find out those. We told LY we would let teacher know, and
we were even shocked with his reply "I am afraid Mojoe will punch me after
the time-out." This obviously indicates to me that LY even feel scared
when with Mojoe at school out of his past actions against LY. Based LY,
Mojoe has been like this for a long time and looks means to him.
We want to work together with you in preventing similar behaviors in the
school,especially just because Mojoe knows LY is Chinese. Please kindly let
me know when it is a good time to have short talk about it. Hopefully this
is is an individual case, and can be solved within the class level.
Appreciate your prompt response and needed action. We hope a better
environment can be provided to other students as well, whether Chinese or
not.
==============================================================
us
because
,
.
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我们给老师的信,贴过来
: Dear Mrs. XXXXX,
: We are sorry to bother you by email, but recently LY(我儿子) talked with us
: about a few things at school that we would like you to know about.
: 1. One day MJ(who bullies my son) told LY that he did not want LY to be in
: his class because
: he is Chinese. We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say,
: however that truly made LY very sad.
: 2. One day MJ repeatedly kicked away the blocks that LY was cleaning up.
: At the fourth time, LY could not help crying.
Dear Miss xxx:
We would like to bring up a few things that LY told us on him
at school. Hope you can help address them:
1. On xxx Mojoe told LY that he did not want LY to be in his class because
he is CHINESE. This really hurt LY, and made him very sad.
2. On xxx, Mojoe kept kicking the blocks that LY was cleaning up
CONSECUTIVELY four time. This drove LY crazy, and he could not help crying
and feeling helpless.
3. On xxx, Mojoe kicked LY so hard that he lost control, and fell to the
ground, just before the carpet time.
We were shocked to find out those. We told LY we would let teacher know, and
we were even shocked with his reply "I am afraid Mojoe will punch me after
the time-out." This obviously indicates to me that LY even feel scared
when with Mojoe at school out of his past actions against LY. Based LY,
Mojoe has been like this for a long time and looks means to him.
We want to work together with you in preventing similar behaviors in the
school,especially just because Mojoe knows LY is Chinese. Please kindly let
me know when it is a good time to have short talk about it. Hopefully this
is is an individual case, and can be solved within the class level.
Appreciate your prompt response and needed action. We hope a better
environment can be provided to other students as well, whether Chinese or
not.
==============================================================
us
because
,
.
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我们给老师的信,贴过来
: Dear Mrs. XXXXX,
: We are sorry to bother you by email, but recently LY(我儿子) talked with us
: about a few things at school that we would like you to know about.
: 1. One day MJ(who bullies my son) told LY that he did not want LY to be in
: his class because
: he is Chinese. We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say,
: however that truly made LY very sad.
: 2. One day MJ repeatedly kicked away the blocks that LY was cleaning up.
: At the fourth time, LY could not help crying.
r*f
44 楼
嗯,确实口气太weak了,都这样了还不拍狠点。
【在 a****g 的大作中提到】
: 个人意见太温柔了。If I were you, I would write
: Dear Miss xxx:
: We would like to bring up a few things that LY told us on him
: at school. Hope you can help address them:
: 1. On xxx Mojoe told LY that he did not want LY to be in his class because
: he is CHINESE. This really hurt LY, and made him very sad.
: 2. On xxx, Mojoe kept kicking the blocks that LY was cleaning up
: CONSECUTIVELY four time. This drove LY crazy, and he could not help crying
: and feeling helpless.
: 3. On xxx, Mojoe kicked LY so hard that he lost control, and fell to the
【在 a****g 的大作中提到】
: 个人意见太温柔了。If I were you, I would write
: Dear Miss xxx:
: We would like to bring up a few things that LY told us on him
: at school. Hope you can help address them:
: 1. On xxx Mojoe told LY that he did not want LY to be in his class because
: he is CHINESE. This really hurt LY, and made him very sad.
: 2. On xxx, Mojoe kept kicking the blocks that LY was cleaning up
: CONSECUTIVELY four time. This drove LY crazy, and he could not help crying
: and feeling helpless.
: 3. On xxx, Mojoe kicked LY so hard that he lost control, and fell to the
m*s
49 楼
老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
Dear XX,
I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
bringing it to my attention.
What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
stand for in the classroom. It is the first I've heard of LY being picked
on for being Chinese, and that is something I have zero tolerance for, and
will not allow to happen in my class. I will talk with both boys tomorrow.
I'm sure you've already told LY, but please reiterate to him that all the
teachers want to know when he is being picked on-for any reason, and we will
help keep him safe. I've already changed our lesson plans for tomorrow to
include some activities that focus on community building, respect, and
embracing things that make us special/unique.
For the past couple weeks we've been reading books by Rosanne Thong- an
author who writes books that feature Chinese characters and culture. We've
had LY and another child-who also reads and speaks Chinese-help us read the
Chinese characters in the story and share cultural references. LY seems
very proud of his Chinese heritage and I love that we have diversity in the
classroom, because we can learn so much from one another. I never want to
make him feel ashamed or upset that he is "different" from others.
I also wanted to let you know that I've forwarded your email to our
principal Mrs. XXXX. I will meet with her to collaborate for further ideas
on how to handle the situation.
Thank you for sharing your concerns,
XXXXX
【在 a****g 的大作中提到】
: 个人意见太温柔了。If I were you, I would write
: Dear Miss xxx:
: We would like to bring up a few things that LY told us on him
: at school. Hope you can help address them:
: 1. On xxx Mojoe told LY that he did not want LY to be in his class because
: he is CHINESE. This really hurt LY, and made him very sad.
: 2. On xxx, Mojoe kept kicking the blocks that LY was cleaning up
: CONSECUTIVELY four time. This drove LY crazy, and he could not help crying
: and feeling helpless.
: 3. On xxx, Mojoe kicked LY so hard that he lost control, and fell to the
Dear XX,
I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
bringing it to my attention.
What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
stand for in the classroom. It is the first I've heard of LY being picked
on for being Chinese, and that is something I have zero tolerance for, and
will not allow to happen in my class. I will talk with both boys tomorrow.
I'm sure you've already told LY, but please reiterate to him that all the
teachers want to know when he is being picked on-for any reason, and we will
help keep him safe. I've already changed our lesson plans for tomorrow to
include some activities that focus on community building, respect, and
embracing things that make us special/unique.
For the past couple weeks we've been reading books by Rosanne Thong- an
author who writes books that feature Chinese characters and culture. We've
had LY and another child-who also reads and speaks Chinese-help us read the
Chinese characters in the story and share cultural references. LY seems
very proud of his Chinese heritage and I love that we have diversity in the
classroom, because we can learn so much from one another. I never want to
make him feel ashamed or upset that he is "different" from others.
I also wanted to let you know that I've forwarded your email to our
principal Mrs. XXXX. I will meet with her to collaborate for further ideas
on how to handle the situation.
Thank you for sharing your concerns,
XXXXX
【在 a****g 的大作中提到】
: 个人意见太温柔了。If I were you, I would write
: Dear Miss xxx:
: We would like to bring up a few things that LY told us on him
: at school. Hope you can help address them:
: 1. On xxx Mojoe told LY that he did not want LY to be in his class because
: he is CHINESE. This really hurt LY, and made him very sad.
: 2. On xxx, Mojoe kept kicking the blocks that LY was cleaning up
: CONSECUTIVELY four time. This drove LY crazy, and he could not help crying
: and feeling helpless.
: 3. On xxx, Mojoe kicked LY so hard that he lost control, and fell to the
l*u
50 楼
感觉老师回应的挺不错的。
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
D*R
51 楼
嗯,老师态度蛮不错的。
m*m
52 楼
别忘了再和老follow up
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
I*e
55 楼
老师不错
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
o*3
56 楼
这件事beida过了,没什么骨气。我们小区也发生过类似的事情。中国家长也是一忍再
忍之后,才和校长说的。回复是,家长应该第一时间将此事通知学校,学校对这样的事
情是没有容忍的。如果小朋友再说这种种族歧视的话,他将被离开这所学校。不一定是
开除,但是绝对不能再上这个学校了。
忍之后,才和校长说的。回复是,家长应该第一时间将此事通知学校,学校对这样的事
情是没有容忍的。如果小朋友再说这种种族歧视的话,他将被离开这所学校。不一定是
开除,但是绝对不能再上这个学校了。
s*d
57 楼
这个应该马上告诉学校吧,把事情闹大,要求对方道歉
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
s*l
59 楼
这老师水平可以啊,看得我都有点感动了。
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
y*n
62 楼
中学时候上课学到一个道理,叫做“看问题要抓住主要矛盾,要抓住矛盾的主要方面”
。可惜偏偏有人喜欢避重就轻。
不过开心看到这里大多数人都是按照这个原则支持楼主为自己的孩子发出声音,谴责歧
视和伤害行为。
。可惜偏偏有人喜欢避重就轻。
不过开心看到这里大多数人都是按照这个原则支持楼主为自己的孩子发出声音,谴责歧
视和伤害行为。
c*i
69 楼
你好缺乏同情心,人家特意找骂,你都不肯帮忙。
其实,换个角度,有人愿意充当反面教材,还是很难得的。比如绘画模特不光有美女,
还有不美的。。。
其实,换个角度,有人愿意充当反面教材,还是很难得的。比如绘画模特不光有美女,
还有不美的。。。
l*a
70 楼
。。。北大是激起了民愤,但是也不要人生攻击,这里毕竟不是8区,过了今晚所有攻
击的贴我都会删的。
击的贴我都会删的。
k*e
71 楼
嗯,我是近来学习的。
g*g
72 楼
一个孩子,如果
真碰上了一个坏 Chinese 或貌似坏的 Chinese,有可能造成上述小孩所说的话
~~啥样的坏Chinese可以给小孩幼小心灵造成这样的重大创伤,让他恨中国人。。。
你真是玷污了括号里的几个字。
【在 B******1 的大作中提到】
: 并不是所有的 Chinese 都是好人,并不是所有的 Chinese 都是坏人。一个孩子,如果
: 真碰上了一个坏 Chinese 或貌似坏的 Chinese,有可能造成上述小孩所说的话。跟小
: 孩讲理,大家都在家里都操练过。自己琢磨去吧。
: 你如果放心自己的孩子和一个已经表示不喜欢你孩子的人朝夕相处,自然可以不换班不
: 换校。如果这是你的 common sense 话。
真碰上了一个坏 Chinese 或貌似坏的 Chinese,有可能造成上述小孩所说的话
~~啥样的坏Chinese可以给小孩幼小心灵造成这样的重大创伤,让他恨中国人。。。
你真是玷污了括号里的几个字。
【在 B******1 的大作中提到】
: 并不是所有的 Chinese 都是好人,并不是所有的 Chinese 都是坏人。一个孩子,如果
: 真碰上了一个坏 Chinese 或貌似坏的 Chinese,有可能造成上述小孩所说的话。跟小
: 孩讲理,大家都在家里都操练过。自己琢磨去吧。
: 你如果放心自己的孩子和一个已经表示不喜欢你孩子的人朝夕相处,自然可以不换班不
: 换校。如果这是你的 common sense 话。
L*o
74 楼
老师态度不错。
老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
Dear XX,
I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
bringing it to my attention.
What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
stand for in the classroom. It is the first I've heard of LY being picked
on for being Chinese, and that is something I have zero tolerance for, and
will not allow to happen in my class. I will talk with both boys tomorrow.
I'm sure you've already told LY, but please reiterate to him that all the
teachers want to know when he is being picked on-for any reason, and we will
help keep him safe. I've already changed our lesson plans for tomorrow to
include some activities that focus on community building, respect, and
embracing things that make us special/unique.
For the past couple weeks we've been reading books by Rosanne Thong- an
author who writes books that feature Chinese characters and culture. We've
had LY and another child-who also reads and speaks Chinese-help us read the
Chinese characters in the story and share cultural references. LY seems
very proud of his Chinese heritage and I love that we have diversity in the
classroom, because we can learn so much from one another. I never want to
make him feel ashamed or upset that he is "different" from others.
I also wanted to let you know that I've forwarded your email to our
principal Mrs. XXXX. I will meet with her to collaborate for further ideas
on how to handle the situation.
Thank you for sharing your concerns,
XXXXX
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
Dear XX,
I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
bringing it to my attention.
What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
stand for in the classroom. It is the first I've heard of LY being picked
on for being Chinese, and that is something I have zero tolerance for, and
will not allow to happen in my class. I will talk with both boys tomorrow.
I'm sure you've already told LY, but please reiterate to him that all the
teachers want to know when he is being picked on-for any reason, and we will
help keep him safe. I've already changed our lesson plans for tomorrow to
include some activities that focus on community building, respect, and
embracing things that make us special/unique.
For the past couple weeks we've been reading books by Rosanne Thong- an
author who writes books that feature Chinese characters and culture. We've
had LY and another child-who also reads and speaks Chinese-help us read the
Chinese characters in the story and share cultural references. LY seems
very proud of his Chinese heritage and I love that we have diversity in the
classroom, because we can learn so much from one another. I never want to
make him feel ashamed or upset that he is "different" from others.
I also wanted to let you know that I've forwarded your email to our
principal Mrs. XXXX. I will meet with her to collaborate for further ideas
on how to handle the situation.
Thank you for sharing your concerns,
XXXXX
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
w*k
75 楼
板上大妈们都不觉得这个是个事,响应程度都不如朱玲那个事情高
大妈们不急,挺好。
ABC这事情,已经暗示着你们的孩子今后生存空间越来越狭小。等以后说杀光中国人的
那个白人小孩长大,就到了水到渠成下手的时候了。到时候第一批给做成人油肥皂的,
就是你们的小孩。
党卫军把犹太人扔进毒气室的时候,犹太人各个都拿着德国护照。屁用没有,你就是有
八本德国护照不也是犹太人不是吗。鉴别中国人那就更容易了,就那张脸,你就浑身都
汶上美国国旗,又有神马用处涅。
大妈们就继续研究给小孩开party,是请黑小孩邻居,还是白小孩邻居好了。眼前就这
么点子事情,管20年后干神马呢。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
大妈们不急,挺好。
ABC这事情,已经暗示着你们的孩子今后生存空间越来越狭小。等以后说杀光中国人的
那个白人小孩长大,就到了水到渠成下手的时候了。到时候第一批给做成人油肥皂的,
就是你们的小孩。
党卫军把犹太人扔进毒气室的时候,犹太人各个都拿着德国护照。屁用没有,你就是有
八本德国护照不也是犹太人不是吗。鉴别中国人那就更容易了,就那张脸,你就浑身都
汶上美国国旗,又有神马用处涅。
大妈们就继续研究给小孩开party,是请黑小孩邻居,还是白小孩邻居好了。眼前就这
么点子事情,管20年后干神马呢。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
D*R
78 楼
您老人家倒是给个link啊,唉
这里是指南
https://sites.google.com/site/boycottjimmykimmelandabc/step-by-step-fcc-
complaints
【在 n*********e 的大作中提到】
: 想到Lord of Rings中的一句台词
: so it begins.
: 上班工作久了,都知道埋头苦干,一味退让,不敢斗争的结局。
: 请到FCC网站file complaint against ABC的节目
这里是指南
https://sites.google.com/site/boycottjimmykimmelandabc/step-by-step-fcc-
complaints
【在 n*********e 的大作中提到】
: 想到Lord of Rings中的一句台词
: so it begins.
: 上班工作久了,都知道埋头苦干,一味退让,不敢斗争的结局。
: 请到FCC网站file complaint against ABC的节目
b*1
79 楼
这算很不好的了,他就是欺负你家孩子,你孩子应该告诉老师原话,老师会给那个孩子
家长留纸条,写上Bully原因。
我们家孩子就收到过,是因为他们几个小伙伴之一做了恶作具给一个男孩,他们几个就
参与的偷笑而已,结果告诉老师了,证据也在,几个孩子都给纸条了,在学校就逼着孩
子门给那孩子道歉,写道歉信,老师做的也很过分,我孩子说他没有做也让写,给家长
也是说事情的经过,说不允许Bully存在,我回家仔细问了孩子经过,也反驳老师说的
,说孩子没有参与,唯一错误就是知道了没有告诉老师。后来还听我孩子说我们狡辩的
不对,管他呢。是什么就是什么。
你也应该告诉老师,说严重点,影响孩子情绪什么的,老师会重视的。
让孩子多交几个好朋友,这样根本没有孩子欺负一说。小学我感觉孩子还是很容易交朋
友的。以前有的人说中学以后白人,黑人,黄人的就不在一起了,我也没有经验,但是
小学感觉没有这个问题,孩子的好朋友因为搬家也变化,什么人种都有,现在因为这里
中国人少,也没有黑人,他的好朋友就全是白人和混血。几个孩子铁的很,家长也算很
友好的。但愿初中也这样。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
家长留纸条,写上Bully原因。
我们家孩子就收到过,是因为他们几个小伙伴之一做了恶作具给一个男孩,他们几个就
参与的偷笑而已,结果告诉老师了,证据也在,几个孩子都给纸条了,在学校就逼着孩
子门给那孩子道歉,写道歉信,老师做的也很过分,我孩子说他没有做也让写,给家长
也是说事情的经过,说不允许Bully存在,我回家仔细问了孩子经过,也反驳老师说的
,说孩子没有参与,唯一错误就是知道了没有告诉老师。后来还听我孩子说我们狡辩的
不对,管他呢。是什么就是什么。
你也应该告诉老师,说严重点,影响孩子情绪什么的,老师会重视的。
让孩子多交几个好朋友,这样根本没有孩子欺负一说。小学我感觉孩子还是很容易交朋
友的。以前有的人说中学以后白人,黑人,黄人的就不在一起了,我也没有经验,但是
小学感觉没有这个问题,孩子的好朋友因为搬家也变化,什么人种都有,现在因为这里
中国人少,也没有黑人,他的好朋友就全是白人和混血。几个孩子铁的很,家长也算很
友好的。但愿初中也这样。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
t*o
80 楼
这种事情不是简单bully,有关种族歧视
零容忍!
要求学校严肃处理,不能简单说说算了。
否则保持追究家长和学校法律责任的权利!
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
零容忍!
要求学校严肃处理,不能简单说说算了。
否则保持追究家长和学校法律责任的权利!
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
b*1
81 楼
是的,好的学校管的很严的。
不能搬家换学校的,软骨头样,你这样忍,还不是纵容,那孩子以后长大更欺负中国人
,就应该好好的教育这样的人,让他知道痛,长大就不敢了。
其实私下从K我就给孩子灌输强势的理念,告诉他碰到欺负你的,若打你有机会还击就
狠狠的打回去,不行就告老师。小时候他说老师不让打人,我说别人打你,你打回去,
有问题老师找我们。你别害怕。
我们家孩子对中国印象还是很好,都是兴奋的给老师,学生讲他回中国的趣事,拿照片
炫耀,羡慕的小朋友都说中国好,老师还给我们说孩子喜欢中国,老师也专门讲中国的
风景,长城,大熊猫等,小朋友很喜欢的。努力感染同化你周围的人就是贡献。我孩子
都许偌给邻居孩子下次回中国送他个中国旅游纪念牌。我们现在的邻居经常带我孩子与
他们孩子一起出去。一次他们去一个教堂车展,碰到一名人设计跑车的,邻居给名人说
了话,名人带我家孩子和邻居孩子一起做他的跑车跑了一会,回来高兴的给我说那跑车
很舒服很好。
这里小孩子在这里学的很美国化,很会说话,有时候也很虚伪。我们嘴都很笨,英语也
说不好。小孩子没有这问题。美国学校重视阅读,阅读好了,会说话。
【在 o****3 的大作中提到】
: 这件事beida过了,没什么骨气。我们小区也发生过类似的事情。中国家长也是一忍再
: 忍之后,才和校长说的。回复是,家长应该第一时间将此事通知学校,学校对这样的事
: 情是没有容忍的。如果小朋友再说这种种族歧视的话,他将被离开这所学校。不一定是
: 开除,但是绝对不能再上这个学校了。
不能搬家换学校的,软骨头样,你这样忍,还不是纵容,那孩子以后长大更欺负中国人
,就应该好好的教育这样的人,让他知道痛,长大就不敢了。
其实私下从K我就给孩子灌输强势的理念,告诉他碰到欺负你的,若打你有机会还击就
狠狠的打回去,不行就告老师。小时候他说老师不让打人,我说别人打你,你打回去,
有问题老师找我们。你别害怕。
我们家孩子对中国印象还是很好,都是兴奋的给老师,学生讲他回中国的趣事,拿照片
炫耀,羡慕的小朋友都说中国好,老师还给我们说孩子喜欢中国,老师也专门讲中国的
风景,长城,大熊猫等,小朋友很喜欢的。努力感染同化你周围的人就是贡献。我孩子
都许偌给邻居孩子下次回中国送他个中国旅游纪念牌。我们现在的邻居经常带我孩子与
他们孩子一起出去。一次他们去一个教堂车展,碰到一名人设计跑车的,邻居给名人说
了话,名人带我家孩子和邻居孩子一起做他的跑车跑了一会,回来高兴的给我说那跑车
很舒服很好。
这里小孩子在这里学的很美国化,很会说话,有时候也很虚伪。我们嘴都很笨,英语也
说不好。小孩子没有这问题。美国学校重视阅读,阅读好了,会说话。
【在 o****3 的大作中提到】
: 这件事beida过了,没什么骨气。我们小区也发生过类似的事情。中国家长也是一忍再
: 忍之后,才和校长说的。回复是,家长应该第一时间将此事通知学校,学校对这样的事
: 情是没有容忍的。如果小朋友再说这种种族歧视的话,他将被离开这所学校。不一定是
: 开除,但是绝对不能再上这个学校了。
p*f
83 楼
根本是媒体的问题,媒体对华人充满敌意,会影响一般的不思考的老百姓。
就这个个案来说,我觉得如果我是家长,除了反映给老师以外,让学校处理这种行为以
外,我会试图了解事情真正的起源,因为这个矛盾可能是1,确实只是种族歧视,2,
其他矛盾冲突导致恶言相向。 如果是2,可能还需要对自己的孩子做些其他的教育,
不能因为为歧视问题把事情简单化。
另外,在父母版上或者在bbs,看到别人跟你想得不一样,就恶言相向,这难道比种族
歧视更好吗?
这个bbs最早创立的时候是为了在中国人当中有个自由言论的地方,现在因为商业化,
为了挣点击,完全堕落成鼓励挑起各种争端,鼓励互相谩骂的堕落的地方。 站方,看
看你们置顶的那些文章,shame on you。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
就这个个案来说,我觉得如果我是家长,除了反映给老师以外,让学校处理这种行为以
外,我会试图了解事情真正的起源,因为这个矛盾可能是1,确实只是种族歧视,2,
其他矛盾冲突导致恶言相向。 如果是2,可能还需要对自己的孩子做些其他的教育,
不能因为为歧视问题把事情简单化。
另外,在父母版上或者在bbs,看到别人跟你想得不一样,就恶言相向,这难道比种族
歧视更好吗?
这个bbs最早创立的时候是为了在中国人当中有个自由言论的地方,现在因为商业化,
为了挣点击,完全堕落成鼓励挑起各种争端,鼓励互相谩骂的堕落的地方。 站方,看
看你们置顶的那些文章,shame on you。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
c*u
85 楼
老师处理得还不错。
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
y*i
86 楼
老师不错。
作为家长,也可以经常去学校,介绍一些中国文化里面有趣的东西。这样会让孩子觉得
BEING CHINESE IS NICE,IS COOL。接下来譬如新年之类的民族节日,可以好好利用起
来。
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
作为家长,也可以经常去学校,介绍一些中国文化里面有趣的东西。这样会让孩子觉得
BEING CHINESE IS NICE,IS COOL。接下来譬如新年之类的民族节日,可以好好利用起
来。
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
v*1
89 楼
这信写的一点都不够强硬。为了孩子要强大起来。不然孩子更被欺负。
us
,
★ 发自iPhone App: ChineseWeb 8.1
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我们给老师的信,贴过来
: Dear Mrs. XXXXX,
: We are sorry to bother you by email, but recently LY(我儿子) talked with us
: about a few things at school that we would like you to know about.
: 1. One day MJ(who bullies my son) told LY that he did not want LY to be in
: his class because
: he is Chinese. We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say,
: however that truly made LY very sad.
: 2. One day MJ repeatedly kicked away the blocks that LY was cleaning up.
: At the fourth time, LY could not help crying.
us
,
★ 发自iPhone App: ChineseWeb 8.1
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我们给老师的信,贴过来
: Dear Mrs. XXXXX,
: We are sorry to bother you by email, but recently LY(我儿子) talked with us
: about a few things at school that we would like you to know about.
: 1. One day MJ(who bullies my son) told LY that he did not want LY to be in
: his class because
: he is Chinese. We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say,
: however that truly made LY very sad.
: 2. One day MJ repeatedly kicked away the blocks that LY was cleaning up.
: At the fourth time, LY could not help crying.
c*7
90 楼
学习
but
into
【在 l******2 的大作中提到】
: It's the adults behind this. If I were you I would also confront the
: paretens face to face.
: Well, just remind, I know you might not be happy to see Chinese around, but
: in a country
: based on imigrants from all over world, you are better to show your kids a
: possitive attidtudes to immigratns like Chinese; otherwise he might get into
: trouble because of you.
but
into
【在 l******2 的大作中提到】
: It's the adults behind this. If I were you I would also confront the
: paretens face to face.
: Well, just remind, I know you might not be happy to see Chinese around, but
: in a country
: based on imigrants from all over world, you are better to show your kids a
: possitive attidtudes to immigratns like Chinese; otherwise he might get into
: trouble because of you.
a*5
91 楼
lz的信口气太软了, 当然老师确实不错
s*6
92 楼
找律师发封信,我觉得不能只找小孩儿,家长要求要道歉。
a*j
93 楼
Mark
S*s
100 楼
《闻香识女人》里面好像说知情不报是正义的。
美国好像也没有包庇罪这一说,作伪证不行,可是沉默可以
【在 b*****1 的大作中提到】
: 这算很不好的了,他就是欺负你家孩子,你孩子应该告诉老师原话,老师会给那个孩子
: 家长留纸条,写上Bully原因。
: 我们家孩子就收到过,是因为他们几个小伙伴之一做了恶作具给一个男孩,他们几个就
: 参与的偷笑而已,结果告诉老师了,证据也在,几个孩子都给纸条了,在学校就逼着孩
: 子门给那孩子道歉,写道歉信,老师做的也很过分,我孩子说他没有做也让写,给家长
: 也是说事情的经过,说不允许Bully存在,我回家仔细问了孩子经过,也反驳老师说的
: ,说孩子没有参与,唯一错误就是知道了没有告诉老师。后来还听我孩子说我们狡辩的
: 不对,管他呢。是什么就是什么。
: 你也应该告诉老师,说严重点,影响孩子情绪什么的,老师会重视的。
: 让孩子多交几个好朋友,这样根本没有孩子欺负一说。小学我感觉孩子还是很容易交朋
美国好像也没有包庇罪这一说,作伪证不行,可是沉默可以
【在 b*****1 的大作中提到】
: 这算很不好的了,他就是欺负你家孩子,你孩子应该告诉老师原话,老师会给那个孩子
: 家长留纸条,写上Bully原因。
: 我们家孩子就收到过,是因为他们几个小伙伴之一做了恶作具给一个男孩,他们几个就
: 参与的偷笑而已,结果告诉老师了,证据也在,几个孩子都给纸条了,在学校就逼着孩
: 子门给那孩子道歉,写道歉信,老师做的也很过分,我孩子说他没有做也让写,给家长
: 也是说事情的经过,说不允许Bully存在,我回家仔细问了孩子经过,也反驳老师说的
: ,说孩子没有参与,唯一错误就是知道了没有告诉老师。后来还听我孩子说我们狡辩的
: 不对,管他呢。是什么就是什么。
: 你也应该告诉老师,说严重点,影响孩子情绪什么的,老师会重视的。
: 让孩子多交几个好朋友,这样根本没有孩子欺负一说。小学我感觉孩子还是很容易交朋
f*r
105 楼
Good
but
into
【在 l******2 的大作中提到】
: It's the adults behind this. If I were you I would also confront the
: paretens face to face.
: Well, just remind, I know you might not be happy to see Chinese around, but
: in a country
: based on imigrants from all over world, you are better to show your kids a
: possitive attidtudes to immigratns like Chinese; otherwise he might get into
: trouble because of you.
but
into
【在 l******2 的大作中提到】
: It's the adults behind this. If I were you I would also confront the
: paretens face to face.
: Well, just remind, I know you might not be happy to see Chinese around, but
: in a country
: based on imigrants from all over world, you are better to show your kids a
: possitive attidtudes to immigratns like Chinese; otherwise he might get into
: trouble because of you.
f*r
107 楼
Re
【在 a****g 的大作中提到】
: 个人意见太温柔了。If I were you, I would write
: Dear Miss xxx:
: We would like to bring up a few things that LY told us on him
: at school. Hope you can help address them:
: 1. On xxx Mojoe told LY that he did not want LY to be in his class because
: he is CHINESE. This really hurt LY, and made him very sad.
: 2. On xxx, Mojoe kept kicking the blocks that LY was cleaning up
: CONSECUTIVELY four time. This drove LY crazy, and he could not help crying
: and feeling helpless.
: 3. On xxx, Mojoe kicked LY so hard that he lost control, and fell to the
【在 a****g 的大作中提到】
: 个人意见太温柔了。If I were you, I would write
: Dear Miss xxx:
: We would like to bring up a few things that LY told us on him
: at school. Hope you can help address them:
: 1. On xxx Mojoe told LY that he did not want LY to be in his class because
: he is CHINESE. This really hurt LY, and made him very sad.
: 2. On xxx, Mojoe kept kicking the blocks that LY was cleaning up
: CONSECUTIVELY four time. This drove LY crazy, and he could not help crying
: and feeling helpless.
: 3. On xxx, Mojoe kicked LY so hard that he lost control, and fell to the
d*i
110 楼
这信写得太软弱了。 这种事情要的是 calm but assertive. 指出这种涉及种族的言
论,哪怕是小孩子说,也是不能接受的。 学校有义务制止教育孩子。有什么要求要直
说,不要说什么We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say。
你这种说一半又吞一半的的语气会让老美感觉怪怪的。
us
,
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我们给老师的信,贴过来
: Dear Mrs. XXXXX,
: We are sorry to bother you by email, but recently LY(我儿子) talked with us
: about a few things at school that we would like you to know about.
: 1. One day MJ(who bullies my son) told LY that he did not want LY to be in
: his class because
: he is Chinese. We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say,
: however that truly made LY very sad.
: 2. One day MJ repeatedly kicked away the blocks that LY was cleaning up.
: At the fourth time, LY could not help crying.
论,哪怕是小孩子说,也是不能接受的。 学校有义务制止教育孩子。有什么要求要直
说,不要说什么We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say。
你这种说一半又吞一半的的语气会让老美感觉怪怪的。
us
,
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我们给老师的信,贴过来
: Dear Mrs. XXXXX,
: We are sorry to bother you by email, but recently LY(我儿子) talked with us
: about a few things at school that we would like you to know about.
: 1. One day MJ(who bullies my son) told LY that he did not want LY to be in
: his class because
: he is Chinese. We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say,
: however that truly made LY very sad.
: 2. One day MJ repeatedly kicked away the blocks that LY was cleaning up.
: At the fourth time, LY could not help crying.
m*s
112 楼
我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
y*i
113 楼
这个可以找老师谈一下了
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
z*0
114 楼
这个属于bully了,俺觉得应该告诉老师甚至校长,让他们出面惩戒。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
c*u
115 楼
真的?这得找老师找校长。不开玩笑。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
B*1
120 楼
如果都见过校长了,就要求换班。再不行,搬家换学校。成人无法控制小孩的思想和行
为。家长也几乎不会对孩子的行为过失负责。
为。家长也几乎不会对孩子的行为过失负责。
l*2
121 楼
It's the adults behind this. If I were you I would also confront the
paretens face to face.
Well, just remind, I know you might not be happy to see Chinese around, but
in a country
based on imigrants from all over world, you are better to show your kids a
possitive attidtudes to immigratns like Chinese; otherwise he might get into
trouble because of you.
paretens face to face.
Well, just remind, I know you might not be happy to see Chinese around, but
in a country
based on imigrants from all over world, you are better to show your kids a
possitive attidtudes to immigratns like Chinese; otherwise he might get into
trouble because of you.
B*1
125 楼
并不是所有的 Chinese 都是好人,并不是所有的 Chinese 都是坏人。一个孩子,如果
真碰上了一个坏 Chinese 或貌似坏的 Chinese,有可能造成上述小孩所说的话。跟小
孩讲理,大家都在家里都操练过。自己琢磨去吧。
你如果放心自己的孩子和一个已经表示不喜欢你孩子的人朝夕相处,自然可以不换班不
换校。如果这是你的 common sense 话。
真碰上了一个坏 Chinese 或貌似坏的 Chinese,有可能造成上述小孩所说的话。跟小
孩讲理,大家都在家里都操练过。自己琢磨去吧。
你如果放心自己的孩子和一个已经表示不喜欢你孩子的人朝夕相处,自然可以不换班不
换校。如果这是你的 common sense 话。
z*0
127 楼
直接找小孩家长有点过激了,可能让本来有理的事情看上去像胡闹。
你咋知道是对方家长施加的影响,而不是学校同学的影响或电影电视的影响。
but
into
【在 l******2 的大作中提到】
: It's the adults behind this. If I were you I would also confront the
: paretens face to face.
: Well, just remind, I know you might not be happy to see Chinese around, but
: in a country
: based on imigrants from all over world, you are better to show your kids a
: possitive attidtudes to immigratns like Chinese; otherwise he might get into
: trouble because of you.
你咋知道是对方家长施加的影响,而不是学校同学的影响或电影电视的影响。
but
into
【在 l******2 的大作中提到】
: It's the adults behind this. If I were you I would also confront the
: paretens face to face.
: Well, just remind, I know you might not be happy to see Chinese around, but
: in a country
: based on imigrants from all over world, you are better to show your kids a
: possitive attidtudes to immigratns like Chinese; otherwise he might get into
: trouble because of you.
a*r
128 楼
其实吧,这事情也给这儿当父母的提个醒,在家少说点这种有种族倾向的话,“比如烙
印太多了,我不想让娃去那个学校”,孩子都是在重复家里大人说的话而已。
印太多了,我不想让娃去那个学校”,孩子都是在重复家里大人说的话而已。
a*g
130 楼
理所当然找老师。先写email非常严肃指出问题,留个底,看回信,然后再决定去不去
谈,或者要谈到哪一步。
我们小孩子在学校里,另外有一个中国小孩子很aggresive,有次早上拍儿子的头(儿子
目前算是熊蛋一枚)弄哭了,正好被妈妈听见,妈妈就email义正言辞地告诉老师,老
师都说是bully,绝不容许。后来我去学校drop儿子的时候,和aid宣扬宣扬,那个小孩
成了重点关注。学校也是有规则的不想惹麻烦的(现在学校连两个小孩玩时,有时高兴
,aid都说 no touch.。。这个,俺觉得小心过分了)
很多事情,大人是小孩子的榜样,不要指望一次就影响小孩子,但是长远的风格影响很
大。
除非碰到了极其操蛋的老师和校长,斗了很久你自己都屈服了,不要轻易换学校。你能
保证下一个学校,和社会上类似的事情,你儿子以后碰不到吗?当然,碰到有人持枪或
者团伙来了,这时候还是先保命要紧。
被歧视,如果小孩子能够smart,和别人联合起来,反过来能把那个小孩给斗成“shut
up”了,那真的要恭喜了。这个本领,很可惜,自己还没有学会。
柿子建软的捏,到哪里都如此。没有办法,是软柿子也要想办法装成硬柿子.如果总指
望换个学校滚个地方,以后会被捏得更多。
【在 c*******u 的大作中提到】
: 真的?这得找老师找校长。不开玩笑。
谈,或者要谈到哪一步。
我们小孩子在学校里,另外有一个中国小孩子很aggresive,有次早上拍儿子的头(儿子
目前算是熊蛋一枚)弄哭了,正好被妈妈听见,妈妈就email义正言辞地告诉老师,老
师都说是bully,绝不容许。后来我去学校drop儿子的时候,和aid宣扬宣扬,那个小孩
成了重点关注。学校也是有规则的不想惹麻烦的(现在学校连两个小孩玩时,有时高兴
,aid都说 no touch.。。这个,俺觉得小心过分了)
很多事情,大人是小孩子的榜样,不要指望一次就影响小孩子,但是长远的风格影响很
大。
除非碰到了极其操蛋的老师和校长,斗了很久你自己都屈服了,不要轻易换学校。你能
保证下一个学校,和社会上类似的事情,你儿子以后碰不到吗?当然,碰到有人持枪或
者团伙来了,这时候还是先保命要紧。
被歧视,如果小孩子能够smart,和别人联合起来,反过来能把那个小孩给斗成“shut
up”了,那真的要恭喜了。这个本领,很可惜,自己还没有学会。
柿子建软的捏,到哪里都如此。没有办法,是软柿子也要想办法装成硬柿子.如果总指
望换个学校滚个地方,以后会被捏得更多。
【在 c*******u 的大作中提到】
: 真的?这得找老师找校长。不开玩笑。
m*s
132 楼
我们给老师的信,贴过来
Dear Mrs. XXXXX,
We are sorry to bother you by email, but recently LY(我儿子) talked with us
about a few things at school that we would like you to know about.
1. One day MJ(who bullies my son) told LY that he did not want LY to be in
his class because
he is Chinese. We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say,
however that truly made LY very sad.
2. One day MJ repeatedly kicked away the blocks that LY was cleaning up.
At the fourth time, LY could not help crying.
3. MJ kicked LY so he fell to the ground before the carpet time.
4. We told LY to talk to Mrs. XXXXX when these things happen, however he
said: "I am afraid MJ will punch me after the time-out." LY told us MJ
has been mean to him repeatedly. It sounds to us that LY is not comfortable
with MJ..
We are concerned at what MJ said and did to LY. We do not think LY or any
kid should be treated differently because of his/her ethnicity. We
appreciate what you have done to make the class a discrimination-free
environment and hopefully we can work together on this issue in the future.
If there is anything we can do to make the things change, please let us know.
Best regards,
【在 a****g 的大作中提到】
: 理所当然找老师。先写email非常严肃指出问题,留个底,看回信,然后再决定去不去
: 谈,或者要谈到哪一步。
: 我们小孩子在学校里,另外有一个中国小孩子很aggresive,有次早上拍儿子的头(儿子
: 目前算是熊蛋一枚)弄哭了,正好被妈妈听见,妈妈就email义正言辞地告诉老师,老
: 师都说是bully,绝不容许。后来我去学校drop儿子的时候,和aid宣扬宣扬,那个小孩
: 成了重点关注。学校也是有规则的不想惹麻烦的(现在学校连两个小孩玩时,有时高兴
: ,aid都说 no touch.。。这个,俺觉得小心过分了)
: 很多事情,大人是小孩子的榜样,不要指望一次就影响小孩子,但是长远的风格影响很
: 大。
: 除非碰到了极其操蛋的老师和校长,斗了很久你自己都屈服了,不要轻易换学校。你能
Dear Mrs. XXXXX,
We are sorry to bother you by email, but recently LY(我儿子) talked with us
about a few things at school that we would like you to know about.
1. One day MJ(who bullies my son) told LY that he did not want LY to be in
his class because
he is Chinese. We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say,
however that truly made LY very sad.
2. One day MJ repeatedly kicked away the blocks that LY was cleaning up.
At the fourth time, LY could not help crying.
3. MJ kicked LY so he fell to the ground before the carpet time.
4. We told LY to talk to Mrs. XXXXX when these things happen, however he
said: "I am afraid MJ will punch me after the time-out." LY told us MJ
has been mean to him repeatedly. It sounds to us that LY is not comfortable
with MJ..
We are concerned at what MJ said and did to LY. We do not think LY or any
kid should be treated differently because of his/her ethnicity. We
appreciate what you have done to make the class a discrimination-free
environment and hopefully we can work together on this issue in the future.
If there is anything we can do to make the things change, please let us know.
Best regards,
【在 a****g 的大作中提到】
: 理所当然找老师。先写email非常严肃指出问题,留个底,看回信,然后再决定去不去
: 谈,或者要谈到哪一步。
: 我们小孩子在学校里,另外有一个中国小孩子很aggresive,有次早上拍儿子的头(儿子
: 目前算是熊蛋一枚)弄哭了,正好被妈妈听见,妈妈就email义正言辞地告诉老师,老
: 师都说是bully,绝不容许。后来我去学校drop儿子的时候,和aid宣扬宣扬,那个小孩
: 成了重点关注。学校也是有规则的不想惹麻烦的(现在学校连两个小孩玩时,有时高兴
: ,aid都说 no touch.。。这个,俺觉得小心过分了)
: 很多事情,大人是小孩子的榜样,不要指望一次就影响小孩子,但是长远的风格影响很
: 大。
: 除非碰到了极其操蛋的老师和校长,斗了很久你自己都屈服了,不要轻易换学校。你能
D*R
134 楼
换学校,这样的孩子,留给其他的中国孩子和家长来收拾,自己保持了绅士风度又保证
了安全,不是挺好么?
了安全,不是挺好么?
r*f
136 楼
他们老师是当摆设用的么?
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
a*g
137 楼
个人意见太温柔了。If I were you, I would write
Dear Miss xxx:
We would like to bring up a few things that LY told us on him
at school. Hope you can help address them:
1. On xxx Mojoe told LY that he did not want LY to be in his class because
he is CHINESE. This really hurt LY, and made him very sad.
2. On xxx, Mojoe kept kicking the blocks that LY was cleaning up
CONSECUTIVELY four time. This drove LY crazy, and he could not help crying
and feeling helpless.
3. On xxx, Mojoe kicked LY so hard that he lost control, and fell to the
ground, just before the carpet time.
We were shocked to find out those. We told LY we would let teacher know, and
we were even shocked with his reply "I am afraid Mojoe will punch me after
the time-out." This obviously indicates to me that LY even feel scared
when with Mojoe at school out of his past actions against LY. Based LY,
Mojoe has been like this for a long time and looks means to him.
We want to work together with you in preventing similar behaviors in the
school,especially just because Mojoe knows LY is Chinese. Please kindly let
me know when it is a good time to have short talk about it. Hopefully this
is is an individual case, and can be solved within the class level.
Appreciate your prompt response and needed action. We hope a better
environment can be provided to other students as well, whether Chinese or
not.
==============================================================
us
because
,
.
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我们给老师的信,贴过来
: Dear Mrs. XXXXX,
: We are sorry to bother you by email, but recently LY(我儿子) talked with us
: about a few things at school that we would like you to know about.
: 1. One day MJ(who bullies my son) told LY that he did not want LY to be in
: his class because
: he is Chinese. We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say,
: however that truly made LY very sad.
: 2. One day MJ repeatedly kicked away the blocks that LY was cleaning up.
: At the fourth time, LY could not help crying.
Dear Miss xxx:
We would like to bring up a few things that LY told us on him
at school. Hope you can help address them:
1. On xxx Mojoe told LY that he did not want LY to be in his class because
he is CHINESE. This really hurt LY, and made him very sad.
2. On xxx, Mojoe kept kicking the blocks that LY was cleaning up
CONSECUTIVELY four time. This drove LY crazy, and he could not help crying
and feeling helpless.
3. On xxx, Mojoe kicked LY so hard that he lost control, and fell to the
ground, just before the carpet time.
We were shocked to find out those. We told LY we would let teacher know, and
we were even shocked with his reply "I am afraid Mojoe will punch me after
the time-out." This obviously indicates to me that LY even feel scared
when with Mojoe at school out of his past actions against LY. Based LY,
Mojoe has been like this for a long time and looks means to him.
We want to work together with you in preventing similar behaviors in the
school,especially just because Mojoe knows LY is Chinese. Please kindly let
me know when it is a good time to have short talk about it. Hopefully this
is is an individual case, and can be solved within the class level.
Appreciate your prompt response and needed action. We hope a better
environment can be provided to other students as well, whether Chinese or
not.
==============================================================
us
because
,
.
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我们给老师的信,贴过来
: Dear Mrs. XXXXX,
: We are sorry to bother you by email, but recently LY(我儿子) talked with us
: about a few things at school that we would like you to know about.
: 1. One day MJ(who bullies my son) told LY that he did not want LY to be in
: his class because
: he is Chinese. We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say,
: however that truly made LY very sad.
: 2. One day MJ repeatedly kicked away the blocks that LY was cleaning up.
: At the fourth time, LY could not help crying.
r*f
139 楼
嗯,确实口气太weak了,都这样了还不拍狠点。
【在 a****g 的大作中提到】
: 个人意见太温柔了。If I were you, I would write
: Dear Miss xxx:
: We would like to bring up a few things that LY told us on him
: at school. Hope you can help address them:
: 1. On xxx Mojoe told LY that he did not want LY to be in his class because
: he is CHINESE. This really hurt LY, and made him very sad.
: 2. On xxx, Mojoe kept kicking the blocks that LY was cleaning up
: CONSECUTIVELY four time. This drove LY crazy, and he could not help crying
: and feeling helpless.
: 3. On xxx, Mojoe kicked LY so hard that he lost control, and fell to the
【在 a****g 的大作中提到】
: 个人意见太温柔了。If I were you, I would write
: Dear Miss xxx:
: We would like to bring up a few things that LY told us on him
: at school. Hope you can help address them:
: 1. On xxx Mojoe told LY that he did not want LY to be in his class because
: he is CHINESE. This really hurt LY, and made him very sad.
: 2. On xxx, Mojoe kept kicking the blocks that LY was cleaning up
: CONSECUTIVELY four time. This drove LY crazy, and he could not help crying
: and feeling helpless.
: 3. On xxx, Mojoe kicked LY so hard that he lost control, and fell to the
m*s
143 楼
老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
Dear XX,
I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
bringing it to my attention.
What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
stand for in the classroom. It is the first I've heard of LY being picked
on for being Chinese, and that is something I have zero tolerance for, and
will not allow to happen in my class. I will talk with both boys tomorrow.
I'm sure you've already told LY, but please reiterate to him that all the
teachers want to know when he is being picked on-for any reason, and we will
help keep him safe. I've already changed our lesson plans for tomorrow to
include some activities that focus on community building, respect, and
embracing things that make us special/unique.
For the past couple weeks we've been reading books by Rosanne Thong- an
author who writes books that feature Chinese characters and culture. We've
had LY and another child-who also reads and speaks Chinese-help us read the
Chinese characters in the story and share cultural references. LY seems
very proud of his Chinese heritage and I love that we have diversity in the
classroom, because we can learn so much from one another. I never want to
make him feel ashamed or upset that he is "different" from others.
I also wanted to let you know that I've forwarded your email to our
principal Mrs. XXXX. I will meet with her to collaborate for further ideas
on how to handle the situation.
Thank you for sharing your concerns,
XXXXX
【在 a****g 的大作中提到】
: 个人意见太温柔了。If I were you, I would write
: Dear Miss xxx:
: We would like to bring up a few things that LY told us on him
: at school. Hope you can help address them:
: 1. On xxx Mojoe told LY that he did not want LY to be in his class because
: he is CHINESE. This really hurt LY, and made him very sad.
: 2. On xxx, Mojoe kept kicking the blocks that LY was cleaning up
: CONSECUTIVELY four time. This drove LY crazy, and he could not help crying
: and feeling helpless.
: 3. On xxx, Mojoe kicked LY so hard that he lost control, and fell to the
Dear XX,
I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
bringing it to my attention.
What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
stand for in the classroom. It is the first I've heard of LY being picked
on for being Chinese, and that is something I have zero tolerance for, and
will not allow to happen in my class. I will talk with both boys tomorrow.
I'm sure you've already told LY, but please reiterate to him that all the
teachers want to know when he is being picked on-for any reason, and we will
help keep him safe. I've already changed our lesson plans for tomorrow to
include some activities that focus on community building, respect, and
embracing things that make us special/unique.
For the past couple weeks we've been reading books by Rosanne Thong- an
author who writes books that feature Chinese characters and culture. We've
had LY and another child-who also reads and speaks Chinese-help us read the
Chinese characters in the story and share cultural references. LY seems
very proud of his Chinese heritage and I love that we have diversity in the
classroom, because we can learn so much from one another. I never want to
make him feel ashamed or upset that he is "different" from others.
I also wanted to let you know that I've forwarded your email to our
principal Mrs. XXXX. I will meet with her to collaborate for further ideas
on how to handle the situation.
Thank you for sharing your concerns,
XXXXX
【在 a****g 的大作中提到】
: 个人意见太温柔了。If I were you, I would write
: Dear Miss xxx:
: We would like to bring up a few things that LY told us on him
: at school. Hope you can help address them:
: 1. On xxx Mojoe told LY that he did not want LY to be in his class because
: he is CHINESE. This really hurt LY, and made him very sad.
: 2. On xxx, Mojoe kept kicking the blocks that LY was cleaning up
: CONSECUTIVELY four time. This drove LY crazy, and he could not help crying
: and feeling helpless.
: 3. On xxx, Mojoe kicked LY so hard that he lost control, and fell to the
l*u
144 楼
感觉老师回应的挺不错的。
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
D*R
145 楼
嗯,老师态度蛮不错的。
m*m
146 楼
别忘了再和老follow up
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
I*e
149 楼
老师不错
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
o*3
150 楼
这件事beida过了,没什么骨气。我们小区也发生过类似的事情。中国家长也是一忍再
忍之后,才和校长说的。回复是,家长应该第一时间将此事通知学校,学校对这样的事
情是没有容忍的。如果小朋友再说这种种族歧视的话,他将被离开这所学校。不一定是
开除,但是绝对不能再上这个学校了。
忍之后,才和校长说的。回复是,家长应该第一时间将此事通知学校,学校对这样的事
情是没有容忍的。如果小朋友再说这种种族歧视的话,他将被离开这所学校。不一定是
开除,但是绝对不能再上这个学校了。
s*d
151 楼
这个应该马上告诉学校吧,把事情闹大,要求对方道歉
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
s*l
153 楼
这老师水平可以啊,看得我都有点感动了。
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
y*n
156 楼
中学时候上课学到一个道理,叫做“看问题要抓住主要矛盾,要抓住矛盾的主要方面”
。可惜偏偏有人喜欢避重就轻。
不过开心看到这里大多数人都是按照这个原则支持楼主为自己的孩子发出声音,谴责歧
视和伤害行为。
。可惜偏偏有人喜欢避重就轻。
不过开心看到这里大多数人都是按照这个原则支持楼主为自己的孩子发出声音,谴责歧
视和伤害行为。
c*i
163 楼
你好缺乏同情心,人家特意找骂,你都不肯帮忙。
其实,换个角度,有人愿意充当反面教材,还是很难得的。比如绘画模特不光有美女,
还有不美的。。。
其实,换个角度,有人愿意充当反面教材,还是很难得的。比如绘画模特不光有美女,
还有不美的。。。
l*a
164 楼
。。。北大是激起了民愤,但是也不要人生攻击,这里毕竟不是8区,过了今晚所有攻
击的贴我都会删的。
击的贴我都会删的。
k*e
165 楼
嗯,我是近来学习的。
g*g
166 楼
一个孩子,如果
真碰上了一个坏 Chinese 或貌似坏的 Chinese,有可能造成上述小孩所说的话
~~啥样的坏Chinese可以给小孩幼小心灵造成这样的重大创伤,让他恨中国人。。。
你真是玷污了括号里的几个字。
【在 B******1 的大作中提到】
: 并不是所有的 Chinese 都是好人,并不是所有的 Chinese 都是坏人。一个孩子,如果
: 真碰上了一个坏 Chinese 或貌似坏的 Chinese,有可能造成上述小孩所说的话。跟小
: 孩讲理,大家都在家里都操练过。自己琢磨去吧。
: 你如果放心自己的孩子和一个已经表示不喜欢你孩子的人朝夕相处,自然可以不换班不
: 换校。如果这是你的 common sense 话。
真碰上了一个坏 Chinese 或貌似坏的 Chinese,有可能造成上述小孩所说的话
~~啥样的坏Chinese可以给小孩幼小心灵造成这样的重大创伤,让他恨中国人。。。
你真是玷污了括号里的几个字。
【在 B******1 的大作中提到】
: 并不是所有的 Chinese 都是好人,并不是所有的 Chinese 都是坏人。一个孩子,如果
: 真碰上了一个坏 Chinese 或貌似坏的 Chinese,有可能造成上述小孩所说的话。跟小
: 孩讲理,大家都在家里都操练过。自己琢磨去吧。
: 你如果放心自己的孩子和一个已经表示不喜欢你孩子的人朝夕相处,自然可以不换班不
: 换校。如果这是你的 common sense 话。
L*o
168 楼
老师态度不错。
老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
Dear XX,
I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
bringing it to my attention.
What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
stand for in the classroom. It is the first I've heard of LY being picked
on for being Chinese, and that is something I have zero tolerance for, and
will not allow to happen in my class. I will talk with both boys tomorrow.
I'm sure you've already told LY, but please reiterate to him that all the
teachers want to know when he is being picked on-for any reason, and we will
help keep him safe. I've already changed our lesson plans for tomorrow to
include some activities that focus on community building, respect, and
embracing things that make us special/unique.
For the past couple weeks we've been reading books by Rosanne Thong- an
author who writes books that feature Chinese characters and culture. We've
had LY and another child-who also reads and speaks Chinese-help us read the
Chinese characters in the story and share cultural references. LY seems
very proud of his Chinese heritage and I love that we have diversity in the
classroom, because we can learn so much from one another. I never want to
make him feel ashamed or upset that he is "different" from others.
I also wanted to let you know that I've forwarded your email to our
principal Mrs. XXXX. I will meet with her to collaborate for further ideas
on how to handle the situation.
Thank you for sharing your concerns,
XXXXX
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
Dear XX,
I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
bringing it to my attention.
What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
stand for in the classroom. It is the first I've heard of LY being picked
on for being Chinese, and that is something I have zero tolerance for, and
will not allow to happen in my class. I will talk with both boys tomorrow.
I'm sure you've already told LY, but please reiterate to him that all the
teachers want to know when he is being picked on-for any reason, and we will
help keep him safe. I've already changed our lesson plans for tomorrow to
include some activities that focus on community building, respect, and
embracing things that make us special/unique.
For the past couple weeks we've been reading books by Rosanne Thong- an
author who writes books that feature Chinese characters and culture. We've
had LY and another child-who also reads and speaks Chinese-help us read the
Chinese characters in the story and share cultural references. LY seems
very proud of his Chinese heritage and I love that we have diversity in the
classroom, because we can learn so much from one another. I never want to
make him feel ashamed or upset that he is "different" from others.
I also wanted to let you know that I've forwarded your email to our
principal Mrs. XXXX. I will meet with her to collaborate for further ideas
on how to handle the situation.
Thank you for sharing your concerns,
XXXXX
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
w*k
169 楼
板上大妈们都不觉得这个是个事,响应程度都不如朱玲那个事情高
大妈们不急,挺好。
ABC这事情,已经暗示着你们的孩子今后生存空间越来越狭小。等以后说杀光中国人的
那个白人小孩长大,就到了水到渠成下手的时候了。到时候第一批给做成人油肥皂的,
就是你们的小孩。
党卫军把犹太人扔进毒气室的时候,犹太人各个都拿着德国护照。屁用没有,你就是有
八本德国护照不也是犹太人不是吗。鉴别中国人那就更容易了,就那张脸,你就浑身都
汶上美国国旗,又有神马用处涅。
大妈们就继续研究给小孩开party,是请黑小孩邻居,还是白小孩邻居好了。眼前就这
么点子事情,管20年后干神马呢。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
大妈们不急,挺好。
ABC这事情,已经暗示着你们的孩子今后生存空间越来越狭小。等以后说杀光中国人的
那个白人小孩长大,就到了水到渠成下手的时候了。到时候第一批给做成人油肥皂的,
就是你们的小孩。
党卫军把犹太人扔进毒气室的时候,犹太人各个都拿着德国护照。屁用没有,你就是有
八本德国护照不也是犹太人不是吗。鉴别中国人那就更容易了,就那张脸,你就浑身都
汶上美国国旗,又有神马用处涅。
大妈们就继续研究给小孩开party,是请黑小孩邻居,还是白小孩邻居好了。眼前就这
么点子事情,管20年后干神马呢。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
D*R
171 楼
您老人家倒是给个link啊,唉
这里是指南
https://sites.google.com/site/boycottjimmykimmelandabc/step-by-step-fcc-
complaints
【在 n*********e 的大作中提到】
: 想到Lord of Rings中的一句台词
: so it begins.
: 上班工作久了,都知道埋头苦干,一味退让,不敢斗争的结局。
: 请到FCC网站file complaint against ABC的节目
这里是指南
https://sites.google.com/site/boycottjimmykimmelandabc/step-by-step-fcc-
complaints
【在 n*********e 的大作中提到】
: 想到Lord of Rings中的一句台词
: so it begins.
: 上班工作久了,都知道埋头苦干,一味退让,不敢斗争的结局。
: 请到FCC网站file complaint against ABC的节目
b*1
172 楼
这算很不好的了,他就是欺负你家孩子,你孩子应该告诉老师原话,老师会给那个孩子
家长留纸条,写上Bully原因。
我们家孩子就收到过,是因为他们几个小伙伴之一做了恶作具给一个男孩,他们几个就
参与的偷笑而已,结果告诉老师了,证据也在,几个孩子都给纸条了,在学校就逼着孩
子门给那孩子道歉,写道歉信,老师做的也很过分,我孩子说他没有做也让写,给家长
也是说事情的经过,说不允许Bully存在,我回家仔细问了孩子经过,也反驳老师说的
,说孩子没有参与,唯一错误就是知道了没有告诉老师。后来还听我孩子说我们狡辩的
不对,管他呢。是什么就是什么。
你也应该告诉老师,说严重点,影响孩子情绪什么的,老师会重视的。
让孩子多交几个好朋友,这样根本没有孩子欺负一说。小学我感觉孩子还是很容易交朋
友的。以前有的人说中学以后白人,黑人,黄人的就不在一起了,我也没有经验,但是
小学感觉没有这个问题,孩子的好朋友因为搬家也变化,什么人种都有,现在因为这里
中国人少,也没有黑人,他的好朋友就全是白人和混血。几个孩子铁的很,家长也算很
友好的。但愿初中也这样。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
家长留纸条,写上Bully原因。
我们家孩子就收到过,是因为他们几个小伙伴之一做了恶作具给一个男孩,他们几个就
参与的偷笑而已,结果告诉老师了,证据也在,几个孩子都给纸条了,在学校就逼着孩
子门给那孩子道歉,写道歉信,老师做的也很过分,我孩子说他没有做也让写,给家长
也是说事情的经过,说不允许Bully存在,我回家仔细问了孩子经过,也反驳老师说的
,说孩子没有参与,唯一错误就是知道了没有告诉老师。后来还听我孩子说我们狡辩的
不对,管他呢。是什么就是什么。
你也应该告诉老师,说严重点,影响孩子情绪什么的,老师会重视的。
让孩子多交几个好朋友,这样根本没有孩子欺负一说。小学我感觉孩子还是很容易交朋
友的。以前有的人说中学以后白人,黑人,黄人的就不在一起了,我也没有经验,但是
小学感觉没有这个问题,孩子的好朋友因为搬家也变化,什么人种都有,现在因为这里
中国人少,也没有黑人,他的好朋友就全是白人和混血。几个孩子铁的很,家长也算很
友好的。但愿初中也这样。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
t*o
173 楼
这种事情不是简单bully,有关种族歧视
零容忍!
要求学校严肃处理,不能简单说说算了。
否则保持追究家长和学校法律责任的权利!
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
零容忍!
要求学校严肃处理,不能简单说说算了。
否则保持追究家长和学校法律责任的权利!
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
b*1
174 楼
是的,好的学校管的很严的。
不能搬家换学校的,软骨头样,你这样忍,还不是纵容,那孩子以后长大更欺负中国人
,就应该好好的教育这样的人,让他知道痛,长大就不敢了。
其实私下从K我就给孩子灌输强势的理念,告诉他碰到欺负你的,若打你有机会还击就
狠狠的打回去,不行就告老师。小时候他说老师不让打人,我说别人打你,你打回去,
有问题老师找我们。你别害怕。
我们家孩子对中国印象还是很好,都是兴奋的给老师,学生讲他回中国的趣事,拿照片
炫耀,羡慕的小朋友都说中国好,老师还给我们说孩子喜欢中国,老师也专门讲中国的
风景,长城,大熊猫等,小朋友很喜欢的。努力感染同化你周围的人就是贡献。我孩子
都许偌给邻居孩子下次回中国送他个中国旅游纪念牌。我们现在的邻居经常带我孩子与
他们孩子一起出去。一次他们去一个教堂车展,碰到一名人设计跑车的,邻居给名人说
了话,名人带我家孩子和邻居孩子一起做他的跑车跑了一会,回来高兴的给我说那跑车
很舒服很好。
这里小孩子在这里学的很美国化,很会说话,有时候也很虚伪。我们嘴都很笨,英语也
说不好。小孩子没有这问题。美国学校重视阅读,阅读好了,会说话。
【在 o****3 的大作中提到】
: 这件事beida过了,没什么骨气。我们小区也发生过类似的事情。中国家长也是一忍再
: 忍之后,才和校长说的。回复是,家长应该第一时间将此事通知学校,学校对这样的事
: 情是没有容忍的。如果小朋友再说这种种族歧视的话,他将被离开这所学校。不一定是
: 开除,但是绝对不能再上这个学校了。
不能搬家换学校的,软骨头样,你这样忍,还不是纵容,那孩子以后长大更欺负中国人
,就应该好好的教育这样的人,让他知道痛,长大就不敢了。
其实私下从K我就给孩子灌输强势的理念,告诉他碰到欺负你的,若打你有机会还击就
狠狠的打回去,不行就告老师。小时候他说老师不让打人,我说别人打你,你打回去,
有问题老师找我们。你别害怕。
我们家孩子对中国印象还是很好,都是兴奋的给老师,学生讲他回中国的趣事,拿照片
炫耀,羡慕的小朋友都说中国好,老师还给我们说孩子喜欢中国,老师也专门讲中国的
风景,长城,大熊猫等,小朋友很喜欢的。努力感染同化你周围的人就是贡献。我孩子
都许偌给邻居孩子下次回中国送他个中国旅游纪念牌。我们现在的邻居经常带我孩子与
他们孩子一起出去。一次他们去一个教堂车展,碰到一名人设计跑车的,邻居给名人说
了话,名人带我家孩子和邻居孩子一起做他的跑车跑了一会,回来高兴的给我说那跑车
很舒服很好。
这里小孩子在这里学的很美国化,很会说话,有时候也很虚伪。我们嘴都很笨,英语也
说不好。小孩子没有这问题。美国学校重视阅读,阅读好了,会说话。
【在 o****3 的大作中提到】
: 这件事beida过了,没什么骨气。我们小区也发生过类似的事情。中国家长也是一忍再
: 忍之后,才和校长说的。回复是,家长应该第一时间将此事通知学校,学校对这样的事
: 情是没有容忍的。如果小朋友再说这种种族歧视的话,他将被离开这所学校。不一定是
: 开除,但是绝对不能再上这个学校了。
p*f
176 楼
根本是媒体的问题,媒体对华人充满敌意,会影响一般的不思考的老百姓。
就这个个案来说,我觉得如果我是家长,除了反映给老师以外,让学校处理这种行为以
外,我会试图了解事情真正的起源,因为这个矛盾可能是1,确实只是种族歧视,2,
其他矛盾冲突导致恶言相向。 如果是2,可能还需要对自己的孩子做些其他的教育,
不能因为为歧视问题把事情简单化。
另外,在父母版上或者在bbs,看到别人跟你想得不一样,就恶言相向,这难道比种族
歧视更好吗?
这个bbs最早创立的时候是为了在中国人当中有个自由言论的地方,现在因为商业化,
为了挣点击,完全堕落成鼓励挑起各种争端,鼓励互相谩骂的堕落的地方。 站方,看
看你们置顶的那些文章,shame on you。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
就这个个案来说,我觉得如果我是家长,除了反映给老师以外,让学校处理这种行为以
外,我会试图了解事情真正的起源,因为这个矛盾可能是1,确实只是种族歧视,2,
其他矛盾冲突导致恶言相向。 如果是2,可能还需要对自己的孩子做些其他的教育,
不能因为为歧视问题把事情简单化。
另外,在父母版上或者在bbs,看到别人跟你想得不一样,就恶言相向,这难道比种族
歧视更好吗?
这个bbs最早创立的时候是为了在中国人当中有个自由言论的地方,现在因为商业化,
为了挣点击,完全堕落成鼓励挑起各种争端,鼓励互相谩骂的堕落的地方。 站方,看
看你们置顶的那些文章,shame on you。
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我家孩子(上K班)前两天告诉我他班上有个小朋友对他说 “I do not want you to
: be in my class because you are a Chinese.” ,而且那个小朋友针对他做了一系列
: 不友好的举动,甚至有一次把我家孩子弄哭了。我家孩子性格并不软弱,发生这样的事
: 情我很担忧,尤其最近在ABC电视台的Jimmy Kimmel' show里面,有孩子在大人引导下
: 说出了 "Kill all Chinese"的话,堂而皇之的被播出,我觉得我们如果不做些什么,
: 我们的孩子处境会比我们想象的更糟糕。
c*u
178 楼
老师处理得还不错。
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
y*i
179 楼
老师不错。
作为家长,也可以经常去学校,介绍一些中国文化里面有趣的东西。这样会让孩子觉得
BEING CHINESE IS NICE,IS COOL。接下来譬如新年之类的民族节日,可以好好利用起
来。
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
作为家长,也可以经常去学校,介绍一些中国文化里面有趣的东西。这样会让孩子觉得
BEING CHINESE IS NICE,IS COOL。接下来譬如新年之类的民族节日,可以好好利用起
来。
with
not
is
for
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 老师当晚就回信了,我也贴过来
: Dear XX,
: I'm so sorry to hear that LY is feeling picked on at school. I will say
: that both boys have strong personalities and I have seen them get upset with
: one another before, but this is the first I am hearing that LY is feeling
: scared or unsafe around Mojoe. LY acts very tough at school, and he is not
: hesitant to speak his mind, so I think it can be easy to overlook that he is
: still very sensitive to hurtful words and touches. I thank you so much for
: bringing it to my attention.
: What LY has told you IS very concerning, and it is not something we will
v*1
182 楼
这信写的一点都不够强硬。为了孩子要强大起来。不然孩子更被欺负。
us
,
★ 发自iPhone App: ChineseWeb 8.1
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我们给老师的信,贴过来
: Dear Mrs. XXXXX,
: We are sorry to bother you by email, but recently LY(我儿子) talked with us
: about a few things at school that we would like you to know about.
: 1. One day MJ(who bullies my son) told LY that he did not want LY to be in
: his class because
: he is Chinese. We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say,
: however that truly made LY very sad.
: 2. One day MJ repeatedly kicked away the blocks that LY was cleaning up.
: At the fourth time, LY could not help crying.
us
,
★ 发自iPhone App: ChineseWeb 8.1
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我们给老师的信,贴过来
: Dear Mrs. XXXXX,
: We are sorry to bother you by email, but recently LY(我儿子) talked with us
: about a few things at school that we would like you to know about.
: 1. One day MJ(who bullies my son) told LY that he did not want LY to be in
: his class because
: he is Chinese. We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say,
: however that truly made LY very sad.
: 2. One day MJ repeatedly kicked away the blocks that LY was cleaning up.
: At the fourth time, LY could not help crying.
c*7
183 楼
学习
but
into
【在 l******2 的大作中提到】
: It's the adults behind this. If I were you I would also confront the
: paretens face to face.
: Well, just remind, I know you might not be happy to see Chinese around, but
: in a country
: based on imigrants from all over world, you are better to show your kids a
: possitive attidtudes to immigratns like Chinese; otherwise he might get into
: trouble because of you.
but
into
【在 l******2 的大作中提到】
: It's the adults behind this. If I were you I would also confront the
: paretens face to face.
: Well, just remind, I know you might not be happy to see Chinese around, but
: in a country
: based on imigrants from all over world, you are better to show your kids a
: possitive attidtudes to immigratns like Chinese; otherwise he might get into
: trouble because of you.
a*5
184 楼
lz的信口气太软了, 当然老师确实不错
s*6
185 楼
找律师发封信,我觉得不能只找小孩儿,家长要求要道歉。
a*j
186 楼
Mark
S*s
192 楼
《闻香识女人》里面好像说知情不报是正义的。
美国好像也没有包庇罪这一说,作伪证不行,可是沉默可以
【在 b*****1 的大作中提到】
: 这算很不好的了,他就是欺负你家孩子,你孩子应该告诉老师原话,老师会给那个孩子
: 家长留纸条,写上Bully原因。
: 我们家孩子就收到过,是因为他们几个小伙伴之一做了恶作具给一个男孩,他们几个就
: 参与的偷笑而已,结果告诉老师了,证据也在,几个孩子都给纸条了,在学校就逼着孩
: 子门给那孩子道歉,写道歉信,老师做的也很过分,我孩子说他没有做也让写,给家长
: 也是说事情的经过,说不允许Bully存在,我回家仔细问了孩子经过,也反驳老师说的
: ,说孩子没有参与,唯一错误就是知道了没有告诉老师。后来还听我孩子说我们狡辩的
: 不对,管他呢。是什么就是什么。
: 你也应该告诉老师,说严重点,影响孩子情绪什么的,老师会重视的。
: 让孩子多交几个好朋友,这样根本没有孩子欺负一说。小学我感觉孩子还是很容易交朋
美国好像也没有包庇罪这一说,作伪证不行,可是沉默可以
【在 b*****1 的大作中提到】
: 这算很不好的了,他就是欺负你家孩子,你孩子应该告诉老师原话,老师会给那个孩子
: 家长留纸条,写上Bully原因。
: 我们家孩子就收到过,是因为他们几个小伙伴之一做了恶作具给一个男孩,他们几个就
: 参与的偷笑而已,结果告诉老师了,证据也在,几个孩子都给纸条了,在学校就逼着孩
: 子门给那孩子道歉,写道歉信,老师做的也很过分,我孩子说他没有做也让写,给家长
: 也是说事情的经过,说不允许Bully存在,我回家仔细问了孩子经过,也反驳老师说的
: ,说孩子没有参与,唯一错误就是知道了没有告诉老师。后来还听我孩子说我们狡辩的
: 不对,管他呢。是什么就是什么。
: 你也应该告诉老师,说严重点,影响孩子情绪什么的,老师会重视的。
: 让孩子多交几个好朋友,这样根本没有孩子欺负一说。小学我感觉孩子还是很容易交朋
f*r
197 楼
Good
but
into
【在 l******2 的大作中提到】
: It's the adults behind this. If I were you I would also confront the
: paretens face to face.
: Well, just remind, I know you might not be happy to see Chinese around, but
: in a country
: based on imigrants from all over world, you are better to show your kids a
: possitive attidtudes to immigratns like Chinese; otherwise he might get into
: trouble because of you.
but
into
【在 l******2 的大作中提到】
: It's the adults behind this. If I were you I would also confront the
: paretens face to face.
: Well, just remind, I know you might not be happy to see Chinese around, but
: in a country
: based on imigrants from all over world, you are better to show your kids a
: possitive attidtudes to immigratns like Chinese; otherwise he might get into
: trouble because of you.
f*r
199 楼
Re
【在 a****g 的大作中提到】
: 个人意见太温柔了。If I were you, I would write
: Dear Miss xxx:
: We would like to bring up a few things that LY told us on him
: at school. Hope you can help address them:
: 1. On xxx Mojoe told LY that he did not want LY to be in his class because
: he is CHINESE. This really hurt LY, and made him very sad.
: 2. On xxx, Mojoe kept kicking the blocks that LY was cleaning up
: CONSECUTIVELY four time. This drove LY crazy, and he could not help crying
: and feeling helpless.
: 3. On xxx, Mojoe kicked LY so hard that he lost control, and fell to the
【在 a****g 的大作中提到】
: 个人意见太温柔了。If I were you, I would write
: Dear Miss xxx:
: We would like to bring up a few things that LY told us on him
: at school. Hope you can help address them:
: 1. On xxx Mojoe told LY that he did not want LY to be in his class because
: he is CHINESE. This really hurt LY, and made him very sad.
: 2. On xxx, Mojoe kept kicking the blocks that LY was cleaning up
: CONSECUTIVELY four time. This drove LY crazy, and he could not help crying
: and feeling helpless.
: 3. On xxx, Mojoe kicked LY so hard that he lost control, and fell to the
d*i
202 楼
这信写得太软弱了。 这种事情要的是 calm but assertive. 指出这种涉及种族的言
论,哪怕是小孩子说,也是不能接受的。 学校有义务制止教育孩子。有什么要求要直
说,不要说什么We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say。
你这种说一半又吞一半的的语气会让老美感觉怪怪的。
us
,
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我们给老师的信,贴过来
: Dear Mrs. XXXXX,
: We are sorry to bother you by email, but recently LY(我儿子) talked with us
: about a few things at school that we would like you to know about.
: 1. One day MJ(who bullies my son) told LY that he did not want LY to be in
: his class because
: he is Chinese. We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say,
: however that truly made LY very sad.
: 2. One day MJ repeatedly kicked away the blocks that LY was cleaning up.
: At the fourth time, LY could not help crying.
论,哪怕是小孩子说,也是不能接受的。 学校有义务制止教育孩子。有什么要求要直
说,不要说什么We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say。
你这种说一半又吞一半的的语气会让老美感觉怪怪的。
us
,
【在 m******s 的大作中提到】
: 我们给老师的信,贴过来
: Dear Mrs. XXXXX,
: We are sorry to bother you by email, but recently LY(我儿子) talked with us
: about a few things at school that we would like you to know about.
: 1. One day MJ(who bullies my son) told LY that he did not want LY to be in
: his class because
: he is Chinese. We understand that sometimes kids do not mean what they say,
: however that truly made LY very sad.
: 2. One day MJ repeatedly kicked away the blocks that LY was cleaning up.
: At the fourth time, LY could not help crying.
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