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g*m2010-09-09 07:09

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丈夫总是不满
"
主持人：再回到《成长》这本书。这本书写了两代女性面对婚姻，面对职场的问题，简
单跟大家介绍一下，婆婆那一辈的海云是高级知识分子，以前很想当外交官，但是因为
突然怀孕了，她又是嫁了军人，孩子父亲长时间连队驻扎不能陪着她，她放弃事业做家
庭妇女辛苦把孩子养大了。到了媳妇这一辈安叶，是一个记者，希望成为中国的法拉奇
，生了孩子之后坚持工作，好像婆婆对她有点意见。第一次还流产了，以前曾想回到职
场的婆婆觉得媳妇不顾家。我们也想请教王老师，他们这种选择不同是性格造就的，还
是时代造就的？
王海鸰：更主要还是丈夫对妻子的态度，彭飞最大的问题，他认为安叶为他做的一
切都是天经地义的，你是女的，他老动不动说我的工作多特殊，部队机动性强，紧急性
强，遇到事情突发性比较多，你就应该怎么样。但是如果是个女的，你这样对待她，她
是绝对不会接受的。你得认为从根上我为你做这么多事，你得理解我做了什么。女的有
一个特点，只要你说句话让我干什么吧，但是你这句话就是说不到，这个女的就不平衡
，怎么都不干。这是彭飞的问题，到最后彭飞终于向父亲求教，他们俩都是一样的学历
，一样的经历，为什么妈妈能做得好，媳妇做不好，父亲回答，"心里有她，一切皆有"
，人家跟你同样经过淘汰淘汰再淘汰走到了今天。而且和平年代，经济建设非常重要，
没有强大的经济建设军备怎么来搞？所以这里面没有一个职业的高低，没有什么理所当
然的事情。彼此理解和沟通，而且女人最重感情，如果你感情到了，她真的能赴汤蹈火
，感情不到，她宁可分道扬镳，像这种条件好的女的尤其容易决绝。职业女性，尤其素
质比较高的，这是特别容易犯的一个特点。在这里面关键是彭飞没有做好。
"

a*g2010-09-09 07:09

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Pearson reports PARCC cheating in 6 states
http://www.baltimoresun.com/news/maryland/education/bs-md-test-
In the latest twist on high school cheating, two Maryland 10th-graders
taking a statewide English assessment posted test questions this month on
Twitter.
Where students once passed notes or looked over their shoulder, today they
can use Twitter, Instagram or Facebook to send a test question to a friend.
And as the means of cheating have evolved, so have the efforts to stop them.
The Twitter posters were caught by a testing company trolling social media
with advanced software that works continuously to find key words or phrases.
Maryland first in nation in Advanced Placement
Maryland first in nation in Advanced Placement
Social media have been a factor in cheating on high-stake tests like the SAT
and ACT for years. But the problem is now cropping up with younger students
taking standardized tests, especially with the rollout of an assessment
tied to more rigorous standards known as the Common Core.
"What is new here is that this is happening in K-12," said Bob Schaeffer,
public education director of the National Center for Fair and Open Testing,
or FairTest, an organization that works to eliminate the misuses and flaws
of standardized tests.
In Maryland, students used to be tested on their progress in math and
reading with the Maryland School Assessment, a paper-and-pencil test, over
the course of a week or two each spring.
This year, students in Maryland, the District of Columbia and 10 other
states that have adopted the Common Core are taking the new test. A paper
version is available, but many school systems are giving the test online
over the course of a month. Schools with a limited numbers of computers can
give the test when they have the space, rather than at a set time.
With so many variables, the possibility of breaches of test security grows.
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Educational publisher Pearson, which is administering the test known as the
Partnership for Assessment of Readiness for College and Careers, or PARCC,
has found more than 70 instances in six states of students posting testing
materials on a public social media site, according to spokesman Jesse Comart.
Pearson has subcontracted the work to a test security firm that is using
software to search all public social media sites such as Twitter, Instagram,
Facebook and other web pages.
The company caught the two 10th-graders, who are from the same school system
, according to the Maryland State Department of Education. Spokesman Bill
Reinhard declined to identify the school system but said it was not in the
Baltimore area.
The posts of questions were taken down within an hour of being discovered,
Reinhard said. Any disciplinary actions against the students would be
decided by the schools, he said.
Baltimore schools paying millions in additional income
Baltimore schools paying millions in additional income
In one case, a student posted a picture of an essay question, which included
a passage from a piece of literature that was named in the tweet. According
to Reinhard, that tweet was re-tweeted once and twice marked as a favorite
tweet by other users — which increases the chances for others to view the
post on the social media site.
In another case, a student posted a question on a passage that included the
title of the piece of literature it had been taken from. It was re-tweeted
once and marked as a favorite three times, according to Reinhard.
Steven Priester, a senior in Carroll County who is the student member of the
state board of education, said many students put a lot of effort into their
schoolwork and exams. "It is upsetting that we commit earnestly to a test,"
while others apparently don't, he said.
"A student really puts a bad label on students as a whole when they cheat,"
he said.
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Certainly we should have no expectation that Pearson would care a whit about
what the rest of us might think one way or the other about their use of
legally available tools to find instances of where their items are shared on
social media. For me, privacy is a separate, but important, issue for...
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Schools can give the new reading and math test aligned to the Common Core
standards any time during the testing window in March. Millions of students
have already taken the test. A second portion of the test will be given
later in the spring.
The test is being given for the first time to students in grades three
through eight. High-schoolers are taking a 10th-grade English test and
Algebra I, and some are taking an Algebra II test that isn't required.
Revelations that a company was searching student social media accounts
sparked controversy recently in New Jersey, where some parents raised
privacy concerns and worried the company was looking at private information
on students.
PARCC Consortium spokesman David Connerty-Marin said "that is not the case,"
and testing officials defend their actions as needed to maintain the
integrity of the test.
The material in the tests is copyrighted so sharing the information on
social media is a violation of the copyright.
"We are not delving into people's profiles. We are looking for inappropriate
sharing of the intellectual property," said Steve Addicott, vice president
of Caveon, the test security subcontractor.
When a social media post is discovered by the software, the firm tries to
determine where the student lives and notifies state officials. In most
cases, Connerty-Marin said, the student takes down the offending post. In
cases where the person who posted the information cannot be identified,
Connerty-Marin said, the company can ask sites such as Twitter to take down
the post.
Of the testing breaches around the country, some posts have been by adults,
including a teacher who re-tweeted a test item. The teacher is from a state
that isn't using PARCC.
Adam Mendelson, a spokesman for the Maryland State Education Association,
the union representing most of the state's teachers, said that while Pearson
has a right to be concerned about test security, teachers are worried about
being targeted.
"There should be full transparency about what Pearson is monitoring, how
they're monitoring it, and how any data collected is being used," Mendelson
said. "We are also concerned about Pearson collecting and using any data to
encourage disciplinary action against educators."
Ray Leone, the Maryland PTA president, said he doesn't fault Pearson for
monitoring social media, given the potential loss of proprietary information
. He noted that teachers, who monitor testing, can't put every student
through a metal detector to ensure they don't have a cellphone.
"Pearson has every right to be concerned that proctoring isn't done right
and cell phones are in the [room]," Leone said. "I can't imagine having to
kill a test item because your question has been tweeted out."
Creating just one English question can cost as much as $15,000 because of
the levels of research and review required, according to Connerty-Marin.
When the testing company believes the information has been too widely
disseminated, it can invalidate a test question.
Schaeffer, from FairTest, said Pearson may only be finding some instances of
cheating because students also can use closed Facebook pages, email groups
or texts to give their friends advance notice of test questions.
"I think we have only seen the tip of the iceberg," Schaeffer said.
PARCC results, which won't be released until next fall, will not be used in
Maryland to hold elementary and middle school students back a grade, but
passing the 10th-grade English test will be required for graduation in the
coming years.
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Also in several years, scores on the test may be used as a portion of a
teacher's job evaluation.

c*i2010-09-09 07:09

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(A) au naturel (adj; French): "1: cooked or served plainly
2a : being in natural style or condition b : NUDE"
"2a" is the most common usage in US, and the meaning in my title.
All definitions are from www.m-w.com
(B) Rachel Dodes, We Don't Mind the Gap: The Fashionable Flash a New Smile.
Wall Street Journal, Sept. 9, 2010.
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748703720004575478213601248720.html
Note:
(1) David Delfin
http://www.davidelfin.com/
The online edition of this report displays mor

r*z2010-09-09 07:09

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大多数人都差不多

【在 g*****m 的大作中提到】

: 丈夫总是不满
: "
: 主持人：再回到《成长》这本书。这本书写了两代女性面对婚姻，面对职场的问题，简
: 单跟大家介绍一下，婆婆那一辈的海云是高级知识分子，以前很想当外交官，但是因为
: 突然怀孕了，她又是嫁了军人，孩子父亲长时间连队驻扎不能陪着她，她放弃事业做家
: 庭妇女辛苦把孩子养大了。到了媳妇这一辈安叶，是一个记者，希望成为中国的法拉奇
: ，生了孩子之后坚持工作，好像婆婆对她有点意见。第一次还流产了，以前曾想回到职
: 场的婆婆觉得媳妇不顾家。我们也想请教王老师，他们这种选择不同是性格造就的，还
: 是时代造就的？
: 王海鸰：更主要还是丈夫对妻子的态度，彭飞最大的问题，他认为安叶为他做的一

c*12010-09-09 07:09

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说得挺深刻。
很多女人只要觉得丈夫把自己放在心里的重要位置上，爱自己，那是会赴汤蹈火再所不
惜。
如果她觉得自己丈夫不把自己放在心上，不尊重自己，那就彻底得跟他同床异梦。
再能干再强悍的女人都一样。

【在 g*****m 的大作中提到】

G*d2010-09-09 07:09

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说点与这个话题无关的。
个人非常讨厌王海鸰。原来听说《大校的女儿》很不错，就买了小说来看，还辛苦从国
内背回来。这小说据说具有自传的性质。结果把我恶心的要死，一个人可以自恋到这种
匪夷所思的程度，佩服。都是别人对不起她，世上唯一的好男人我看就只有她儿子了。
将来谁做她儿媳？let's pray for her.
电视剧改了很多，倒还挺不错的。
后来的《新结婚时代》对农村人的歧视就更是登峰造极了，什么偏方蛤蟆眼都出来了。
Kao, 她有什么资格歧视农村人，大家还不都是黄土地上刨出来的。下地干过活吗？我
小时下乡下地过两次，我一下理解了为什么毛主席要提上山下乡，那真锻炼人啊。我觉
得王海鸰就应该再上山下乡锻炼锻炼，去去她的骄奢劲儿

R*e2010-09-09 07:09

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王海鸰自己的经历挺坎坷的，16岁开始就在一个海岛上当兵，肯定是吃过苦的人，我并
没有觉得她对农村人有什么歧视，她描述的就是一种现实存在的社会现象而已，中国的
城乡差距就是这么大。以前湖南台有个节目叫变形记，就是城市里的不良少年跟农村孩
子互换生活几个星期，电视台全程实地跟踪拍摄，很多农村的贫困落后程度不是一般人
能想象的。