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w*r2011-06-27 07:06

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我去年刚毕业。读phd的时候一大牛在我的committee里。
我的一篇文章否定了他以前的一个方法。现在该文章发表了。前几天该大牛跟我的朋友
放狠话，说:“他很生气，后果很严重。”
该大牛现在已退休。我不想跟他闹僵，但从以前的过招来看，此人是不会听我解释的。
我该怎么办？

S*C2011-06-27 07:06

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Increased to $18,000. IRA contribution limit remains the same at $5,500.

o*t2011-06-27 07:06

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从来没想到我在高铁上还能有这样的艳遇，大概是最近这段时间做好事做多了，上天要
犒劳我一下吧。
说实话，我平时出行都不太坐高铁，高铁实在是太乌泱泱的了，还是飞机又快又舒服。
但是吧，这次主要是出差的地儿太近了，就隔壁城市，所以，只能选高铁了。
要说，中国这高铁其实还真是挺不错的，特别是复兴号开始运行之后，有幸做过几次，
无论是车速还是服务都绝对是世界一流水平。
好像扯远了，该说说这个美女了，我真是随便选的座儿。刚坐下没多久，这美女就来了
，她坐里面靠窗的位置，她从我身边经过的时候，就感觉一阵迷人的女人香从鼻尖划过
，而且，她入座的时候，我没来得及站起来，那窄窄的通道，她都进去了，真是太瘦了。
这样的美女，谁都会想和她多聊几句吧，聊来聊去，就加上了微信。她朋友圈经常发照
片，好身材一览无余。
这身材不当模特都可惜了，这颜值不混娱乐圈也是浪费了。

r*n2011-06-27 07:06

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From "Love Wins" by Rob Bell,
Have you ever been in an argument and you knew exactly what not to say?
You knew exactly what would most wound the person, what would unnecessarily
drag the past up, what would get right to the person's heart in the quickest
, most hurtful way - and yet you said that very thing anyway?
...
Once you are awaken, you will put yourself at alert and refuse to say such
things, to him, to her, to anyone. Thereby you will be able to keep a loving mind, always smile and never speak with malice again.
Inner peace 其实并不难, just a matter of practicing your mind.

l*g2011-06-27 07:06

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你该高兴啊
在大牛心目中的分量这么重

【在 w*********r 的大作中提到】

: 我去年刚毕业。读phd的时候一大牛在我的committee里。
: 我的一篇文章否定了他以前的一个方法。现在该文章发表了。前几天该大牛跟我的朋友
: 放狠话，说:“他很生气，后果很严重。”
: 该大牛现在已退休。我不想跟他闹僵，但从以前的过招来看，此人是不会听我解释的。
: 我该怎么办？

j*p2011-06-27 07:06

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有401就不能有IRA是吗？

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【在 S**C 的大作中提到】

: Increased to $18,000. IRA contribution limit remains the same at $5,500.

b*i2011-06-27 07:06

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可以可以

m*o2011-06-27 07:06

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谢谢分享

a*92011-06-27 07:06

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人家不就是发个牢骚,还没怎么着你嘛. 啥事都还没发生, 你咋"预防".

j*p2011-06-27 07:06

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pre tax 401和Roth 401加一块18000，具体怎样操作？第一次考虑要投一些Roth。

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【在 S**C 的大作中提到】

: Increased to $18,000. IRA contribution limit remains the same at $5,500.

k*t2011-06-27 07:06

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roaringlion,
Where are you?

unnecessarily
quickest
loving mind, always smile and never speak with malice again.

【在 r*********n 的大作中提到】

: From "Love Wins" by Rob Bell,
: Have you ever been in an argument and you knew exactly what not to say?
: You knew exactly what would most wound the person, what would unnecessarily
: drag the past up, what would get right to the person's heart in the quickest
: , most hurtful way - and yet you said that very thing anyway?
: ...
: Once you are awaken, you will put yourself at alert and refuse to say such
: things, to him, to her, to anyone. Thereby you will be able to keep a loving mind, always smile and never speak with malice again.
: Inner peace 其实并不难, just a matter of practicing your mind.

h*t2011-06-27 07:06

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。。。胆子太小了吧。人家还啥都没干呢，你也没法预防啊。
虽然你的文章发表了，没人理不是一样没影响。你现在担心这个太早了。

【在 w*********r 的大作中提到】

: 我去年刚毕业。读phd的时候一大牛在我的committee里。
: 我的一篇文章否定了他以前的一个方法。现在该文章发表了。前几天该大牛跟我的朋友
: 放狠话，说:“他很生气，后果很严重。”
: 该大牛现在已退休。我不想跟他闹僵，但从以前的过招来看，此人是不会听我解释的。
: 我该怎么办？

r*m2011-06-27 07:06

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50/50 just to diversify, although most people say future tax rate will
increase, it's not a sure thing.

t*f2011-06-27 07:06

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【在 k*t 的大作中提到】

: roaringlion,
: Where are you?
:
: unnecessarily
: quickest
: loving mind, always smile and never speak with malice again.

a*i2011-06-27 07:06

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这个是bso否定了学霸还成功从其手下毕业么？

【在 w*********r 的大作中提到】

: 我去年刚毕业。读phd的时候一大牛在我的committee里。
: 我的一篇文章否定了他以前的一个方法。现在该文章发表了。前几天该大牛跟我的朋友
: 放狠话，说:“他很生气，后果很严重。”
: 该大牛现在已退休。我不想跟他闹僵，但从以前的过招来看，此人是不会听我解释的。
: 我该怎么办？

p*82011-06-27 07:06

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建议是pre, post tax 各9000 USD？
然后开IRA？这个IRA里面的钱是从pre or post 401 转进去的？

s*m2011-06-27 07:06

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Have you been in an argument and your goal is to get through? You heard the
other say the words that drag out the past and wound the most, intentionally
or not. To Compete with the quick transmission of hurt, You promptly cut
off the crucial path for any harm to enter, the emotional association. And
yet, you didn't say what would hurt the other one and you got through.
Mission accomplished.

unnecessarily
quickest
loving mind, always smile and never speak with malice again.

【在 r*********n 的大作中提到】

: From "Love Wins" by Rob Bell,
: Have you ever been in an argument and you knew exactly what not to say?
: You knew exactly what would most wound the person, what would unnecessarily
: drag the past up, what would get right to the person's heart in the quickest
: , most hurtful way - and yet you said that very thing anyway?
: ...
: Once you are awaken, you will put yourself at alert and refuse to say such
: things, to him, to her, to anyone. Thereby you will be able to keep a loving mind, always smile and never speak with malice again.
: Inner peace 其实并不难, just a matter of practicing your mind.

h*n2011-06-27 07:06

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An old Chinese saying is ... people gone, tea cooled down ... (my poor trans
lation). His influence will die away over time
You got a job, which suggests that he does not have a darn close friend in y
our dept. So you will be basically fine.
Hopefully his students/friends are not big fans of his method

【在 w*********r 的大作中提到】

: 我去年刚毕业。读phd的时候一大牛在我的committee里。
: 我的一篇文章否定了他以前的一个方法。现在该文章发表了。前几天该大牛跟我的朋友
: 放狠话，说:“他很生气，后果很严重。”
: 该大牛现在已退休。我不想跟他闹僵，但从以前的过招来看，此人是不会听我解释的。
: 我该怎么办？

j*p2011-06-27 07:06

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税前加税后不超过18000？这两加一块算，有点怪。

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【在 r****m 的大作中提到】

: 50/50 just to diversify, although most people say future tax rate will
: increase, it's not a sure thing.

z*h2011-06-27 07:06

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Big bull cannot do anything against you. He has retired so that he will be
nothing.

j*p2011-06-27 07:06

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存401就不能有IRA特别是工资大于一个数。这是我的理解需要专家确认。

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【在 p********8 的大作中提到】

: 建议是pre, post tax 各9000 USD？
: 然后开IRA？这个IRA里面的钱是从pre or post 401 转进去的？

d*r2011-06-27 07:06

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他没有多少影响力了，乘这个机会臭骂牛人一顿。

【在 w*********r 的大作中提到】

: 我去年刚毕业。读phd的时候一大牛在我的committee里。
: 我的一篇文章否定了他以前的一个方法。现在该文章发表了。前几天该大牛跟我的朋友
: 放狠话，说:“他很生气，后果很严重。”
: 该大牛现在已退休。我不想跟他闹僵，但从以前的过招来看，此人是不会听我解释的。
: 我该怎么办？

r*m2011-06-27 07:06

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I meant 50/50 Regular 401K and Roth 401K (if your employer offers Roth 401K)
.

o*y2011-06-27 07:06

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A giant bull is emerging ...

S*C2011-06-27 07:06

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ROTH 401(k) does not make much sense to many people in this forum. Think
about this, to pay tax now, every dollar you put in ROTH 401(k), you pay 32.
5% or 35% federal tax (since you are in AMT exemption phase out range, you
think your marginal fed tax rate is "only" 25% or 28%? Too bad!), plus 6%-8%
local tax. If you ever get laid off for a short period of time, you may
drop to 15-25% federal tax rate and whatever state tax for a year, in which
year you can do some ROTH conversion cheaply. Or if you never get laid off
in your career, you can retire earlier. Before RMD, you have plenty of time
to convert part of 401k to ROTH at lower rate.
And remember, the first several thousand dollars or more distributed from
401(k) will not be taxed at your marginal tax rate.

r*m2011-06-27 07:06

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Generally I agree with your assessment, but I think one should not take for
granted the tax rate at future retirement time will be lower, for high
savers like Chinese, it pays to do some calculation and hedge the
potentially higher tax rates.

S*C2011-06-27 07:06

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I have nothing to against what you said, but for folks who pay 32.5% or 35%
marginal federal tax thanks for AMT exemption phase out, they need to take a
really hard look.
I still remembered that day when I did some estimation on how much tax we
needed to pay if we rolled some money from old 401(k) over to IRA then
converted it to ROTH, then I found out it may not be a good idea for us.

i*o2011-06-27 07:06

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可以有

【在 j*p 的大作中提到】

: 有401就不能有IRA是吗？
:
: ★ 发自iPhone App: ChineseWeb 8.2.2