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交卷贴-吟就吟吧# LeisureTime - 读书听歌看电影

x*a2013-12-07 08:12

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天天被五哥催交卷，唱歌不行且没心情，就吟首词，眼下的心情如此，不掩饰了。还是
负能量比较多。
http://vocaroo.com/i/s1eRBphXzNOc
碧云天，黄叶地，秋色连波，波上寒烟翠。山映斜阳天接水，芳草无情，更在斜阳外。
黯乡魂，追旅思，夜夜除非，好梦留人睡。明月楼高休独倚，酒入愁肠，化作相思泪。

O*o2013-12-07 08:12

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倒也，倒也

L*e2013-12-07 08:12

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pat pat
是不是我太push了？
希望节日里有一个好心情，——虽然外面冷，但光线总归不错
或者象wh说的：上帝关闭了一扇门，也会打开一扇门。放心吧！

【在 x*******a 的大作中提到】

: 天天被五哥催交卷，唱歌不行且没心情，就吟首词，眼下的心情如此，不掩饰了。还是
: 负能量比较多。
: http://vocaroo.com/i/s1eRBphXzNOc
: 碧云天，黄叶地，秋色连波，波上寒烟翠。山映斜阳天接水，芳草无情，更在斜阳外。
: 黯乡魂，追旅思，夜夜除非，好梦留人睡。明月楼高休独倚，酒入愁肠，化作相思泪。

b*n2013-12-07 08:12

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好温柔的声音哈～～

x*a2013-12-07 08:12

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没有，是我自己没时间。而且好久好久没有唱过歌了，唱一句声音都是颤的。其实按下
面说的，我现在已经经历了1，2，3，在4里徘徊。顺其自然吧。
7 Stages of Grief...
1. SHOCK & DENIAL-
You will probably react to learning of the loss with numbed disbelief. You
may deny the reality of the loss at some level, in order to avoid the pain.
Shock provides emotional protection from being overwhelmed all at once. This
may last for weeks.
2. PAIN & GUILT-
As the shock wears off, it is replaced with the suffering of unbelievable
pain. Although excruciating and almost unbearable, it is important that you
experience the pain fully, and not hide it, avoid it or escape from it with
alcohol or drugs.
You may have guilty feelings or remorse over things you did or didn't do
with your loved one. Life feels chaotic and scary during this phase.
3. ANGER & BARGAINING-
Frustration gives way to anger, and you may lash out and lay unwarranted
blame for the death on someone else. Please try to control this, as
permanent damage to your relationships may result. This is a time for the
release of bottled up emotion.
You may rail against fate, questioning "Why me?" You may also try to bargain
in vain with the powers that be for a way out of your despair ("I will
never drink again if you just bring him back")
4. "DEPRESSION", REFLECTION, LONELINESS-
Just when your friends may think you should be getting on with your life, a
long period of sad reflection will likely overtake you. This is a normal
stage of grief, so do not be "talked out of it" by well-meaning outsiders.
Encouragement from others is not helpful to you during this stage of
grieving.
During this time, you finally realize the true magnitude of your loss, and
it depresses you. You may isolate yourself on purpose, reflect on things you
did with your lost one, and focus on memories of the past. You may sense
feelings of emptiness or despair.
7 Stages of Grief...
5. THE UPWARD TURN-
As you start to adjust to life without your dear one, your life becomes a
little calmer and more organized. Your physical symptoms lessen, and your "
depression" begins to lift slightly.
6. RECONSTRUCTION & WORKING THROUGH-
As you become more functional, your mind starts working again, and you will
find yourself seeking realistic solutions to problems posed by life without
your loved one. You will start to work on practical and financial problems
and reconstructing yourself and your life without him or her.
7. ACCEPTANCE & HOPE-
During this, the last of the seven stages in this grief model, you learn to
accept and deal with the reality of your situation. Acceptance does not
necessarily mean instant happiness. Given the pain and turmoil you have
experienced, you can never return to the carefree, untroubled YOU that
existed before this tragedy. But you will find a way forward.

【在 L*****e 的大作中提到】

: pat pat
: 是不是我太push了？
: 希望节日里有一个好心情，——虽然外面冷，但光线总归不错
: 或者象wh说的：上帝关闭了一扇门，也会打开一扇门。放心吧！

c*g2013-12-07 08:12

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给你配个字幕

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O*o2013-12-07 08:12

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the caption is great

【在 c********g 的大作中提到】

: 给你配个字幕

N*f2013-12-07 08:12

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Ditto...醉人之音也。

【在 O*******o 的大作中提到】

: 倒也，倒也

N*f2013-12-07 08:12

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The upward turn right on the horizon...

.
This

【在 x*******a 的大作中提到】

: 没有，是我自己没时间。而且好久好久没有唱过歌了，唱一句声音都是颤的。其实按下
: 面说的，我现在已经经历了1，2，3，在4里徘徊。顺其自然吧。
: 7 Stages of Grief...
: 1. SHOCK & DENIAL-
: You will probably react to learning of the loss with numbed disbelief. You
: may deny the reality of the loss at some level, in order to avoid the pain.
: Shock provides emotional protection from being overwhelmed all at once. This
: may last for weeks.
: 2. PAIN & GUILT-
: As the shock wears off, it is replaced with the suffering of unbelievable

N*f2013-12-07 08:12

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好字！

【在 c********g 的大作中提到】

: 给你配个字幕

x*a2013-12-07 08:12

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拜谢！

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: 给你配个字幕