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c*g2010-07-25 07:07

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因为有点RS的GC要处理掉，最近关心了一下RS的deal，都是clearance的。
还有些电动玩具在clearance，比如小飞机，小汽车等等。
以下两个YMMV，有空路过看看，没时间别专门跑。
http://forums.slickdeals.net/showthread.php?sduid=0&t=1370535&highlight=radioshack
New Logitech Harmony 520 @ Radio Shack B&M $38 YMMV
Saw the Logitech Harmony 520 on clearance at Radio Shack today for $38.xx.
It was in Naperville, IL and they had a few left. Not sure if this is
nationwide so YMMV. The Radio Shack SKU was 150-0114.
http://forums.slickdeals.net/showthread.php?sduid=0&t=1368391&highl

C*t2010-07-25 07:07

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（知道是坑，就请轻拍了。）
十星男人：德才兼备型。由于这种男人具备的是大智慧，不是小聪明，有时甚至会显得
迂腐。幸运的会取得与才能匹配的成就，举世瞩目。不幸的因为不屑与环境同流合污，
混的未必如意。外表通常比较谦虚和善，但内心其实是很有主见甚至固执的人。最适合
的伴侣不一定是要和他一样高水平的，但一定要懂得欣赏他。切忌找个市侩的女子，整
天数落他没用，要他转行挣钱。
九星：勤劳顾家型。有能力的会让家人过上很舒适的生活，没有能力的也不怕吃苦，反
正不会亏了家里人。通常很喜欢孩子，也不在乎做下家务什么的。这种男人合适的伴侣
范围相当广。既能辅佐女强人，又能养家庭主妇；女人一同持家也好，把钱拿来乱花他
好像也不太在乎。
八星：咸鱼翻身型。具有极强的意志力，很多白手起家成为富翁的都是这种类型。他们
和十星很大的区别是，虽然尽量守法，但道德不是压倒一切的，在关键地方如果必须干
一点儿不太体面的事才会成功，也会干。这种男人因为很符合传统文化对男子汉的定义
，合适的伴侣范围也相当广，但最适合小鸟依人类。
七星：健谈幽默型。知识面广博，也总有很多意见要表达，很多笑话可讲。和十星一样
，找个也健谈，或者能欣赏他的伴侣，会很快乐。但市侩的女人会觉得他不务正业，整
天数落他，结果是搞得他更不着家。
六星：豪爽义气型。去到哪儿都能立马扎堆，即使跟其他国家的人都能建立友谊。朋友
对他们很重要，结了婚也不能少了应酬，朋友要帮忙更是不在话下，出钱出力。有时会
干一些诸如老婆还没出月子就在别人家吃喝太晚忘了回家做饭被数落的事。适合的伴侣
是贤良淑惠通情达理的，不能斤斤计较。
五星：自强自尊型。这种男人有些在逆境中是比较能吃苦的，天性也不坏，就是别人的
无心之言很容易当真。若是受了歧视更是几十年都不忘的，一定要证明给人看自己行。
适合的伴侣是无论才情和经济能力都不如他的女子，对他崇拜的五体投地，才能一起过
的开心。否则的话和他在一起会觉得累。
四星：粗口难改型。自己也知道不好听，但改不了说话带脏字。有时甚至不是生气，而
是用来加强语气。适合的伴侣是两个极端：要不就脾气好极怎么都温柔不生气的，要不
就母老虎一个能反过来把他骂个底儿朝天的。
三星：四处留情型。恋爱本是有苦有乐的，这种人只能享受最初的激动和喜悦。一旦浪
漫期过了，马上变得事事都无兴趣，到了寻找新刺激的时候了。适合的伴侣吗，应该说
没有适合的，最好谈一辈子恋爱。非要选一种出来，那就是不很在乎他，即使结婚了也
让他觉得摸不着吃不准的，才有可能一直吊着他胃口。最不适合的就是死心眼苦恋的，
给甩的最快又给伤的最深。
二星：狠占便宜型。吝啬节省只是个人习惯而已，如果为了自己利益根本不在乎别人损
失了多少就不好了。人家教会组织国际学生摘樱桃，不用给钱。你进去摘点儿意思意思
就行了。结果不单疯狂采摘，连树枝都给掰断了扔地下。最适合的伴侣是和他一样人生
观的女子。
一星：倒插豪门型。这类人外貌不错，而且也知道自己的优势。他们通常较有风度，绝
对不会说脏话，说也只是在心里说。有女人在场时，即使囊中羞涩出手也不会吝啬，但
又不是死缠烂打献殷勤，进退把握的很好。注意，很多男生都会在美女面前扮阔绰，虚
荣心而已。但这类人对丑女也不会忽视，因为他们深知丑女自己或背后可能更有资源。
他们本质上是不好色的，或者说好色的那面绝对可以被功利的那面战胜。这类人最理想
的伴侣就是大官或富商的女儿。如果岳父能保证一辈子不失势的话，他们会是很好的女
婿和老公。既浪漫体贴，又不会花心（因为为了女色失去辛苦得来的一切，不值）。

a*d2010-07-25 07:07

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喜欢一个房子，要$27万，等到close，总花费估计要超过这个数目.
我只有1万存款，贷款可以贷16万，工资四倍。父母愿意帮我偿付首付3万，原来我计划
买15万的房子。还有8万，有其他可以贷款的地方吗？比如华人的钱庄，那个利息贵吗
？我住华人比较多的村子.
父母也可以帮我把剩余的钱出了，但是不想花他们的钱，如果父母出了8万，这个8万可
以refinance吗？谢谢

t*a2010-07-25 07:07

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我是十星男人中没发达的

b*d2010-07-25 07:07

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华人的钱庄可以贷到6-7%,关键是现在的工资可以付Mortgage payment吗?

【在 a******d 的大作中提到】

: 喜欢一个房子，要$27万，等到close，总花费估计要超过这个数目.
: 我只有1万存款，贷款可以贷16万，工资四倍。父母愿意帮我偿付首付3万，原来我计划
: 买15万的房子。还有8万，有其他可以贷款的地方吗？比如华人的钱庄，那个利息贵吗
: ？我住华人比较多的村子.
: 父母也可以帮我把剩余的钱出了，但是不想花他们的钱，如果父母出了8万，这个8万可
: 以refinance吗？谢谢

b*12010-07-25 07:07

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嗯，俺属于九星中的鲁塞，即能当男人用，比如刷马桶推垃圾桶修理后院，又能当女人
用比如做饭洗碗熨衣服。就是干不了大事业挣不来钱，幸好老婆也不看重这一点。所以
老婆每个礼拜买彩票一元，梦想有一天中大奖，给俺凑个5个米，然后俺就不用写房顶
了，好好做饭不糊弄。
土鳖碰到了没追求的老婆，淅沥呼噜过日子。

【在 C***t 的大作中提到】

: （知道是坑，就请轻拍了。）
: 十星男人：德才兼备型。由于这种男人具备的是大智慧，不是小聪明，有时甚至会显得
: 迂腐。幸运的会取得与才能匹配的成就，举世瞩目。不幸的因为不屑与环境同流合污，
: 混的未必如意。外表通常比较谦虚和善，但内心其实是很有主见甚至固执的人。最适合
: 的伴侣不一定是要和他一样高水平的，但一定要懂得欣赏他。切忌找个市侩的女子，整
: 天数落他没用，要他转行挣钱。
: 九星：勤劳顾家型。有能力的会让家人过上很舒适的生活，没有能力的也不怕吃苦，反
: 正不会亏了家里人。通常很喜欢孩子，也不在乎做下家务什么的。这种男人合适的伴侣
: 范围相当广。既能辅佐女强人，又能养家庭主妇；女人一同持家也好，把钱拿来乱花他
: 好像也不太在乎。

a*d2010-07-25 07:07

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这个房子除了自己住，可以出租，租金1K/m肯定可以有，如果把basement finish了，
还能再借500/600，步行距离有大学，肯定能借掉. 谢谢

【在 b*d 的大作中提到】

: 华人的钱庄可以贷到6-7%,关键是现在的工资可以付Mortgage payment吗?

P*l2010-07-25 07:07

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应个景：
Advice for a Young Investigator
Santiago Ramon y Cajal.
Although many would disagree, we believe that the man of science should be
married and should face the pressures and responsibilities of family life
courageously.
He will not emulate the selashness of Epicurus, who did not marry in an
attempt to avoid cares and woes, nor the exaggerated reanement of Napoleon,
whose only use for a woman was a nurse in old age.3 For the man of science,
the aid of a wife is just as necessary in youth as in old age. A woman at
one’s side may be likened to a knapsack in battle: without the accessory
one aghts unencumbered, but after the battle, then what?
At this point we shall make only two suggestions: that the scholar bear in
mind his own psychology4 before selecting a partner, and above all that he
avoid at any cost letting others choose her for him. It doesn’t take much
to justify the marriage of a scholar. In a normal and vigorous young man,
bachelorhood is usually an invitation to permanent distrac- tion, if not
total abandon to libertinism. One might say that ideas are blossoms of
virtue that fail to open their petals and wilt quickly in the fumes of
boisterous partying. Moreover,
the bachelor lives in a state of complete social preoccupation, where the
intrigues of gallantry disrupt the progress of thought far too often. And,
as is well known, there is no surer way for a man to prevent a woman from
dominating his thoughts than to make her his own. It is common knowl- edge
that a happy home removes selashness from the soul, ennobles the social
instinct, stimulates lofty goals, and for- tiaes patriotism.
The selection of a partner! Now we touch on a delicate point. What qualities
should grace the young woman chosen by the man of science? This is an
extremely serious question because it is undoubtedly true that the moral
qualities of the wife are a decisive factor in the success of scientiac work
. Many are under the shadow of wives for whom they are unsuited—and at
times society and even humanity as a whole suffers because of the scholar’s
wife. So many impor- tant projects have been interrupted by the selashness
of the young wife! So many careers have been thwarted because of feminine
vanity or capriciousness! So many illustrious professors have bowed their
necks under the weight of the matrimonial yoke, becoming common seekers of
gold, hum- bling themselves and emasculating their gifts with an insa-
tiable desire to gather as many honors and awards as possible.
When excessive, even the most human and noble im- pulses of the wife become
formidable enemies of scientiac work. As is well known, women show an
inclination toward a family—a sound tendency for the physical preservation
of the race. What a lofty egotism, for it represents the supreme interest of
the species! Not without reason and depth, Renan has said: “God loves what
a woman loves.” She concentrates her love and self-denial on her offspring
. Less exclusive, a man can divide his affections between family and society
. A woman loves tradition, adores privilege, pays little attention to
justice, and is usually indifferent to all work related to change and
progress. In contrast, a man truly worthy of the title Homo socialis loathes
routine and privilege, reveres jus- tice, and in many cases places the
cause of humanity above the interests of his family. Because of this, the
mother is eager to live only in the memory of her children, whereas the
father aspires to survive in the annals of history as well.
Both tendencies—centripetal and centrifugal, contraction and expansion—are
legitimate and necessary. The prosper- ity of the race, and the advance of
civilization, depend on their harmony and use. When the altruistic tendency
of the man is excessive, offspring languish. In contrast, when the feminine
tendency predominates, the family prospers, but society and the state suffer
. A spirit of self-denial and sac- riace should reign in the home of the
scholar as well as the honored statesman. However, they should not reach the
point of creating a bad environment for the development and education of
the children. Even taking the collective interest into account, there is no
doubt that endless domestic preoccupations and quarrels embitter the life of
the thinker, making it difacult for him to carry out scientiac and social
work.
To sum things up: As a general rule, we advise the man inclined toward
science to seek in the one whom his heart has chosen a compatible
psychological proale rather than beauty and wealth. In other words, he
should seek feelings, tastes, and tendencies that are to a certain extent
comple- mentary to his own. He will not simply choose a woman, but a woman
who belongs to him, whose best dowry will be a sensitive compliance with his
wishes, and a warm and full-hearted acceptance of her husband’s view of
life.
Having come this far, the reader may want us to abandon the aeld of
generalities and deane the type of woman most suited for a man of science.
We see no reason not to discuss our views here, with all due reserve and
circumspection. And to those who may smile at our condescending to such a
task, let us merely point out that a factor such as love, which decides one
’s life, is not a frivolous matter. Nor should one forget that for the man
devoted to study, a woman may be the helium that propels him skyward—or the
ballast that forces him to land in the marshes of obscurity during the peak
of his oight.
The studious man is accustomed to seeking companion- ship among middle-class
women, where four main types stand out: the intellectual, the rich heiress,
the artist, and the professional woman.
Intellectual young women have either a scientiac or a literary career, or,
carried away by an irresistible talent for study, have managed to acquire a
sound and varied general education. Because they are such a very rare
species in Spain, there is little hope of anding such a pleasing life
partner. This is undoubtedly a sensible conclusion, although the small
number of women physicians (with a few excep- tions) we have known in
societies, laboratories, and salons appear determined to console us for the
inaccessibility of the type.
In contrast, this variety of woman is plentiful abroad, where genuine
prestige allows the female scholar to stand as a collaborator with her
husband, exempt insofar as pos- sible from the whims and frivolities of the
feminine tem- perament. A woman like this—intelligent and poised,
overflowing with optimism and courage -- is the idea partner for an
investigator. She triumphs in the home and in the heart of the scholar,
wearing the triple crown of loving wife, intimate conadante, and industrious
collaborator. They, let us repeat, are not uncommon in the venturesome
nations to the North.
We have observed with great admiration (and more than a little envy) those
happy couples in select laboratories that are eagerly dedicated to the same
work, each of them pour- ing into it the very anest of their mental
abilities and tech- nical skills. We shall not dwell on the moving example
of the Curies, discoverers of radium. Instead, we shall focus on the rather
small circle of our own friends and scientiac associates. The images of
three admirable couples come to mind. Joseph Dejerine and Augusta Dejerine-
Klumpke of Paris are dedicated to studying the normal and pathological
anatomy of the cerebrum; Jean and Mme. Nageotte, also of Paris, are involved
in histological and neurological research; and anally, the wedded pair
Oskar and Cécile Vogt of the Berlin Neurobiological Institute are involved
in the vast undertaking of mapping out the architecture of the cerebral
cortex, like astronomers who pass their lives absorbed in photographing and
cataloging stars and nebulae.
But we must repeat, this ave fenix—the serious and dis- creet woman doctor
who assiduously collaborates with her husband—has not yet seen at to appear
on our social hori- zon, where oddly enough the greatest feminine talents
are self-taught and entirely absent from regular university stud- ies. The
Spanish scientist must therefore choose from among the other types of woman.
Will he direct his course toward the wealthy woman? This seems very
dangerous to us. Accustomed to a life of leisure, luxury, and show, it would
be miraculous if these tastes were not communicated to her husband. This
happened to the illustrious English physicist Davy, who essentially gave up
his brilliant career after tying himself to a wife of noble descent. The
best part of his life was consumed in the social world of parties and
receptions.
It would be incredibly lucky to run across a rich and famous heiress willing
to give up the caprices and vanities of her sex by consecrating her gold to
the advancement of science. This type of admirable woman abounds in France
and England, although in our own country we have never known a professor
devoted to the laboratory for whom his wife’s riches were not fatal to his
work. If our lips were not sealed by discretion, we could illustrate these
pages with vivid examples of how frivolously ostentatious tastes of the wife
, or the overweening egotism of the family’s mother, have interrupted
brilliant careers, forcing the young inves- tigator to exchange study for
politics, the microscope for the automobile, and redeeming evenings in the
laboratory for useless hours spent at parties or the theater.
But let us not censure these rich women too harshly. They have wonderful
hearts, but are victims of their own lack of culture. In the end, the
interminable reproaches they use to paralyze the noteworthy initiative of
their husbands (“Why work when you have the means to enjoy a life of luxury
?” and so on) are excusable because they are inspired by con- jugal love.
The arrogant heiresses who immediately draw attention to the parasitic state
and anancial inadequacy of their unhappy husbands are far more disagreeable
. Embar- rassing daily harangues force him to work like a beast of burden,
trying to defray the entire cost of a luxurious life- style as alled with
vanity as with empty ideals. This hap- pens, of course, because the wife has
frittered away her dowry on clothes, jewels, luxurious furniture, and excur
- sions to fashionable spas and beaches!Will the scholar prefer the woman
artist or professional litterateur? With a few noteworthy exceptions, such
women create a never-ending stream of difaculties for the man of science. It
is sad to admit that as soon as she enjoys the talent and culture usually
associated with men, her modest charm is lost, she acquires dominating airs,
and she lives in a constant state of exhibiting her cleverness and ability.
Women are inclined to be somewhat theatrical, but the lit- terateur or
artist is always on stage. And then their tastes are so masculine and
involved. At least the wealthy woman is accustomed to indulging her whims at
her own expense. She is not a good friend of books and journals, and is
drawn instead to jewelry shops and fashionable stores. But the litterateur
glances with equal desire over the show windows of jewels and hats and the
samples of booksellers.
So, the professional young woman endowed with physi- cal and mental health
remains the only likely and desirable partner in fame and in hardship for
our young investigator. She is graced with optimism and good character, her
edu- cation is adequate enough so that she can understand and encourage her
husband, and she has the passion necessary to believe in him and dream of
his hour of triumph, which she is convinced will happen. Inclined toward
simple pleas- ures and an enemy of notoriety and exhibitionism, she will
center her hopes and pride on the health and happiness of her husband, who
will and in his home a pleasant atmo- sphere favoring the germination and
growth of ideas instead of reproaches and resistance. And if fame should
smile, its brilliance will surround the two foreheads with a single halo.
Fame! The modest wife deserves it also. In the end, she made it possible to
execute the great undertaking thanks to her self-denial. By sacriacing ane
clothes and jewels, book and journals were available, and she consoles the
scholar in his hours of doubt.
Fortunately, this delightful type of woman is not rare in our middle class.
The young man who is searching for her in earnest, but either doesn’t and
her or doesn’t know how to unite her to his destiny with all his heart, is
most unfor- tunate. The test lies in winning her for the common good, in
appointing himself her spiritual guide, and in molding her character to
appreciate the requirements of a serious life of intense work and severely
unassuming modesty. In short, as mentioned before, she becomes a
complementary mental organ, absorbed in the small things (if running a home
and educating children can be regarded as small) so that the husband, free
of anxiety, may occupy himself in the great things—in germinating and
feeding his beloved discoveries and scientiac hypotheses.

【在 C***t 的大作中提到】

: （知道是坑，就请轻拍了。）
: 十星男人：德才兼备型。由于这种男人具备的是大智慧，不是小聪明，有时甚至会显得
: 迂腐。幸运的会取得与才能匹配的成就，举世瞩目。不幸的因为不屑与环境同流合污，
: 混的未必如意。外表通常比较谦虚和善，但内心其实是很有主见甚至固执的人。最适合
: 的伴侣不一定是要和他一样高水平的，但一定要懂得欣赏他。切忌找个市侩的女子，整
: 天数落他没用，要他转行挣钱。
: 九星：勤劳顾家型。有能力的会让家人过上很舒适的生活，没有能力的也不怕吃苦，反
: 正不会亏了家里人。通常很喜欢孩子，也不在乎做下家务什么的。这种男人合适的伴侣
: 范围相当广。既能辅佐女强人，又能养家庭主妇；女人一同持家也好，把钱拿来乱花他
: 好像也不太在乎。

e*y2010-07-25 07:07

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好多华人钱庄阿

l*r2010-07-25 07:07

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都不适合我

【在 C***t 的大作中提到】

: （知道是坑，就请轻拍了。）
: 十星男人：德才兼备型。由于这种男人具备的是大智慧，不是小聪明，有时甚至会显得
: 迂腐。幸运的会取得与才能匹配的成就，举世瞩目。不幸的因为不屑与环境同流合污，
: 混的未必如意。外表通常比较谦虚和善，但内心其实是很有主见甚至固执的人。最适合
: 的伴侣不一定是要和他一样高水平的，但一定要懂得欣赏他。切忌找个市侩的女子，整
: 天数落他没用，要他转行挣钱。
: 九星：勤劳顾家型。有能力的会让家人过上很舒适的生活，没有能力的也不怕吃苦，反
: 正不会亏了家里人。通常很喜欢孩子，也不在乎做下家务什么的。这种男人合适的伴侣
: 范围相当广。既能辅佐女强人，又能养家庭主妇；女人一同持家也好，把钱拿来乱花他
: 好像也不太在乎。

a*d2010-07-25 07:07

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在纽约，有靠铺点的推荐吗？就怕最后变成高利贷，汗

【在 e***y 的大作中提到】

: 好多华人钱庄阿

m*t2010-07-25 07:07

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我竟然是十星

【在 C***t 的大作中提到】

: （知道是坑，就请轻拍了。）
: 十星男人：德才兼备型。由于这种男人具备的是大智慧，不是小聪明，有时甚至会显得
: 迂腐。幸运的会取得与才能匹配的成就，举世瞩目。不幸的因为不屑与环境同流合污，
: 混的未必如意。外表通常比较谦虚和善，但内心其实是很有主见甚至固执的人。最适合
: 的伴侣不一定是要和他一样高水平的，但一定要懂得欣赏他。切忌找个市侩的女子，整
: 天数落他没用，要他转行挣钱。
: 九星：勤劳顾家型。有能力的会让家人过上很舒适的生活，没有能力的也不怕吃苦，反
: 正不会亏了家里人。通常很喜欢孩子，也不在乎做下家务什么的。这种男人合适的伴侣
: 范围相当广。既能辅佐女强人，又能养家庭主妇；女人一同持家也好，把钱拿来乱花他
: 好像也不太在乎。

e*y2010-07-25 07:07

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扭腰不知道啊多问问人

S*J2010-07-25 07:07

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关键是幸运的十星还是不幸运的十星：）
我感觉高老师说的这个十星是个陷阱啊，如果有人敢承认，那要么是老爱级别（举世瞩
目嘛）的大师，要么就是运气不好郁郁寡欢的卢瑟……

【在 m********t 的大作中提到】

: 我竟然是十星

f*i2010-07-25 07:07

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401k

【在 a******d 的大作中提到】

: 喜欢一个房子，要$27万，等到close，总花费估计要超过这个数目.
: 我只有1万存款，贷款可以贷16万，工资四倍。父母愿意帮我偿付首付3万，原来我计划
: 买15万的房子。还有8万，有其他可以贷款的地方吗？比如华人的钱庄，那个利息贵吗
: ？我住华人比较多的村子.
: 父母也可以帮我把剩余的钱出了，但是不想花他们的钱，如果父母出了8万，这个8万可
: 以refinance吗？谢谢

H*y2010-07-25 07:07

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陷阱？都说是坑了（砰~~~） ^_^
十星的特点是对integrity看的很重。我见过几个在自己领域内被所有人都称赞的，真
是配得上德高望重这个词。但这些人也不是没有坎坷，也被小人狠狠踩过利用过。
也见过和他们性情一样的学者，天资很好，做事也很认真，但没有怎么出名。不过即使
这样，他们还是挺开心的，因为他们看中的是“value”，你只要让他们继续做他们喜
欢做的事，in the way they have chosen for themselves，他们就很满足。所以才说
他们是外表懦弱内心却十分固执的一类人。真心希望他们的伴侣也都懂得欣赏他们。

【在 S***J 的大作中提到】

: 关键是幸运的十星还是不幸运的十星：）
: 我感觉高老师说的这个十星是个陷阱啊，如果有人敢承认，那要么是老爱级别（举世瞩
: 目嘛）的大师，要么就是运气不好郁郁寡欢的卢瑟……

a*s2010-07-25 07:07

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其实贷款可以多些的，只要你信用好，收入稳定。

H*y2010-07-25 07:07

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多谢分享。

,
,

【在 P**********l 的大作中提到】

: 应个景：
: Advice for a Young Investigator
: Santiago Ramon y Cajal.
: Although many would disagree, we believe that the man of science should be
: married and should face the pressures and responsibilities of family life
: courageously.
: He will not emulate the selashness of Epicurus, who did not marry in an
: attempt to avoid cares and woes, nor the exaggerated reanement of Napoleon,
: whose only use for a woman was a nurse in old age.3 For the man of science,
: the aid of a wife is just as necessary in youth as in old age. A woman at

a*d2010-07-25 07:07

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just star work, no 401k.....lei beng........T_T

L*s2010-07-25 07:07

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谁没被狗咬过啊...但是第一你不能去咬狗，因为那会把你拉低到狗的层次。第二要更加
努力。因为狗之所以敢咬你，其实只是欺负你穷而已。

【在 H****y 的大作中提到】

: 陷阱？都说是坑了（砰~~~） ^_^
: 十星的特点是对integrity看的很重。我见过几个在自己领域内被所有人都称赞的，真
: 是配得上德高望重这个词。但这些人也不是没有坎坷，也被小人狠狠踩过利用过。
: 也见过和他们性情一样的学者，天资很好，做事也很认真，但没有怎么出名。不过即使
: 这样，他们还是挺开心的，因为他们看中的是“value”，你只要让他们继续做他们喜
: 欢做的事，in the way they have chosen for themselves，他们就很满足。所以才说
: 他们是外表懦弱内心却十分固执的一类人。真心希望他们的伴侣也都懂得欣赏他们。

s*n2010-07-25 07:07

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还是找你父母借吧，到时把利息也还给他们

【在 a******d 的大作中提到】

: just star work, no 401k.....lei beng........T_T

h*w2010-07-25 07:07

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看到最后也没有找到我的位置,路色又有点尊严,应该放哪里?

M*o2010-07-25 07:07

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看了一圈，只有十星勉强符合我啊，哈哈。

【在 C***t 的大作中提到】

: （知道是坑，就请轻拍了。）
: 十星男人：德才兼备型。由于这种男人具备的是大智慧，不是小聪明，有时甚至会显得
: 迂腐。幸运的会取得与才能匹配的成就，举世瞩目。不幸的因为不屑与环境同流合污，
: 混的未必如意。外表通常比较谦虚和善，但内心其实是很有主见甚至固执的人。最适合
: 的伴侣不一定是要和他一样高水平的，但一定要懂得欣赏他。切忌找个市侩的女子，整
: 天数落他没用，要他转行挣钱。
: 九星：勤劳顾家型。有能力的会让家人过上很舒适的生活，没有能力的也不怕吃苦，反
: 正不会亏了家里人。通常很喜欢孩子，也不在乎做下家务什么的。这种男人合适的伴侣
: 范围相当广。既能辅佐女强人，又能养家庭主妇；女人一同持家也好，把钱拿来乱花他
: 好像也不太在乎。

m*t2010-07-25 07:07

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云老师是十一颗星男人

【在 h*****w 的大作中提到】

: 看到最后也没有找到我的位置,路色又有点尊严,应该放哪里?

n*o2010-07-25 07:07

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闲得卵疼

O*t2010-07-25 07:07

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家有自以为10星的9星人，不是faculty圈内人。但是有几个合作者是10星人。不过好奇
这个排名是怎么来的？为什么10星最好？
[在 Cadet (新兵) 的大作中提到：]
：（知道是坑，就请轻拍了。）
：
：...........

b*12010-07-25 07:07

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九星好啊，可以做任何家务，给你伺候好了，多舒服。俺就是没追求的9星。今天一边
写本子，一边琢磨怎样才能让卤牛腱子更好吃。你要是女强人，就更需要九星老公了，
没看见高妹说嘛，俺们九星男人即能服务女强人，也能照顾家庭主妇。所以当女强人需
要九星老公，有一天不想做女强人了，回家歇着，老公照样伺候，多好。

【在 O*****t 的大作中提到】

: 家有自以为10星的9星人，不是faculty圈内人。但是有几个合作者是10星人。不过好奇
: 这个排名是怎么来的？为什么10星最好？
: [在 Cadet (新兵) 的大作中提到：]
: ：（知道是坑，就请轻拍了。）
: ：
: ：...........

l*y2010-07-25 07:07

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居然没有活儿好型handyman型浪漫型带娃型。。。

【在 C***t 的大作中提到】

: （知道是坑，就请轻拍了。）
: 十星男人：德才兼备型。由于这种男人具备的是大智慧，不是小聪明，有时甚至会显得
: 迂腐。幸运的会取得与才能匹配的成就，举世瞩目。不幸的因为不屑与环境同流合污，
: 混的未必如意。外表通常比较谦虚和善，但内心其实是很有主见甚至固执的人。最适合
: 的伴侣不一定是要和他一样高水平的，但一定要懂得欣赏他。切忌找个市侩的女子，整
: 天数落他没用，要他转行挣钱。
: 九星：勤劳顾家型。有能力的会让家人过上很舒适的生活，没有能力的也不怕吃苦，反
: 正不会亏了家里人。通常很喜欢孩子，也不在乎做下家务什么的。这种男人合适的伴侣
: 范围相当广。既能辅佐女强人，又能养家庭主妇；女人一同持家也好，把钱拿来乱花他
: 好像也不太在乎。

O*t2010-07-25 07:07

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握手，我家宅男确实是上得厅堂下得厨房，不过我可不是什么女强人，但也不想做主妇
，哈哈。

【在 b*********1 的大作中提到】

: 九星好啊，可以做任何家务，给你伺候好了，多舒服。俺就是没追求的9星。今天一边
: 写本子，一边琢磨怎样才能让卤牛腱子更好吃。你要是女强人，就更需要九星老公了，
: 没看见高妹说嘛，俺们九星男人即能服务女强人，也能照顾家庭主妇。所以当女强人需
: 要九星老公，有一天不想做女强人了，回家歇着，老公照样伺候，多好。

H*N2010-07-25 07:07

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LZ须把女人也星一下，并且告诉大家自己男人是几星，此坑才算完整。