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k*e2011-08-27 07:08

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最近，网络上不断出现富二代炫耀自己的泡妞史，爷笑而不语!你们这些富二代全是花
我们留下来的钱，有什么资本可炫耀的?不服的话，让你看看你们的鼻祖，富一代的日
常生活，学着点——富二代们!爷就是你们的鼻祖：富一代的代表——墨镜哥!
这是爷的随行车队，爷的奔驰SL500停哪了?
先过来，墨镜哥点下名!
MM们，坐好了!墨镜哥带你们潇洒去!
这才叫“秀色可餐”!
天桥上的欢迎群众，看到没?这才叫生活! 所以，孩子们呐!请不要乱炫富，等超越了我
“墨镜哥”再说吧

s*y2011-08-27 07:08

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There's no doubt about it-breakups suck. But in the first few hours or days
or weeks that follow, there's one important truth you need to recognize:
Some things can't and shouldn't be fixed, especially that loser who dumped
you or forced you to dump him. It's over for a reason, and deep down inside
you probably know what that reason is.
At the end of the day, it's about weather YOU like yourself enough to face
the reality that your romance wasn't working.. to recognize that it wasn't
giving you what you needed and deserved
Life's biggest rewards come from the biggest challenges.
Anyone who assesses you or your relationship as "disposable" is not worthy
of your time or tears.
Just remember, though, that any reasons you come up with are ultimately
irrelevant. The harsh reality is that even if you have EVERYTHING else in
common, the one thing you don't have in common is the belief that this
relationship can work. & that alone trumps your shared love of puppies, The
Dave Matthews Band, and Mexican food.
A lot of the pain you are experiencing right now is actually fear. Fear of
things being different then how you liked them, fear of never finding love
again, fear of being alone, fear of having to fill your time differently. We
're afraid of the unknown.
The person you loved took a good long look at the awesomeness that is you,
evaluated your relationship together, and said, "No, thanks. I'll try my
luck elsewhere." Or you said it to him. Either way, that alone should make
you realize that it wasn't a match made in heaven
"I don't know" means "NO!"
"I don't know" means "I'm too cowardly to tell you the truth because I can't
deal with confrontation."
"I don't know" means please do the dirty work for me because I don't want to
hurt your feelings even more then I already have.
Awesome thought: The annoying thing that your ex did will never bother you
again. I'm sure that your plan to get him back worked out in your head. I'm
even sure that it worked out in some movie you saw. But your ex does not
have the time to follow a movie script and you shouldn't either. Move on.
Every moment of pain, weakness, and discomfort puts you in a position to
choose how you will react and how you will alleviate your condition. Calling
him doesn't make it better.. it only pulls you back into the cycle of
heartbreak.
He is the past. You are the future.
Messing up his life isn't the best revenge. It's getting on with yours and
living it to the fullest.
One of the suckiest and most frustrating facts of life is that sometimes
rela tionships just end, often without reason. I truly believe that some
times both men and women simply run out of love, even when there was a lot
of it in the beginning.
Before you look for validation in others, try and find it in yourself.
As much as it sucks, you need to FORCE yourself to remember your very worst
times together, ..his most irritating habits and the hard truth that not
only can he live without you.. but he'd rather.
You're giving an okay guy who cheats on his girlfriend a hell of a lot more
credit then he deserves. He's a coward and a betrayer of not one but TWO
women. He clearly feels ambivalent about you at best.. otherwise, he would
have left this other woman a long time ago.
So many of us find ourselves saying "BUT HE WAS SO GREAT!" Yes, and the
people who got on the Titanic thought they were going on vacation. Things
changed and it's important to remember that they did.
Awesome thought: The right guy is out there right now, wondering when he's
going meet someone just like you.
His regrets or lack thereof are exactly that- his . and not even the best
little black cocktail dress can change that.
Every time you see him, you only make yourself vulnerable to further
heartache. Do you really need further proof that he's getting on with his
life without you?
The one who dumped you has had a huge head start on the healing. However
long he entertained ending the relationship is also how long he's been
emotionally extracting himself from you.
He was either partially or totally over it before you even knew it was going
down
You weren't in the same relationship. That should answer ALL your questions.
You can love your friends.. ..you can love your family ... you can even love
every stray dog or stray drummer that crosses your path. HOWEVER, you have
to learn how to love yourself, like yourself, and put yourself first before
you will ever find the healthy, loving, and lasting relationship that you've
been looking for.
http://holliesquotes.com/lovemisc/breakup.htm

o*l2011-08-27 07:08

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只想问一下，身上穿的是迷彩还是豹纹？

g*n2011-08-27 07:08

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打工妹的包工头?

o*l2011-08-27 07:08

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像是给军队生产被服的。
军队的钱，好弄啊