你有没有注意月月和别的孩子的互动情况?他和别的孩子玩吗?玩的时候如何交流?他 和某个老师单独相处的时候说话吗?在小一点的group呢? 我家孩子升了班也突然不说话了,后来和老师单独相处或者小的group说话,但是大的 group不说。我观察了以后觉得一方面是英文不好,另外一方面是和别的孩子不熟悉。 后来老师就鼓励他说话,比如中午吃饭的时候,会问他要不要pasta,他点头,就说那 你说please give me some pasta。现在进步了,还在继续work on这个。我觉得我家孩 子在孩子太多的group也会overwhelmed。 月月在学校有要好的小朋友吗?他也不和他们说话吗?周末经常一起玩的小孩他和别人 说话吗?
不知道你是怀疑,还是ped确诊了。 给你个我们女儿的例子,做个参考吧。she is not 5.5. She started daycare at 14months, before 4, she did not talk to the teacher at all. No problem with kids. She did not answer their questions, no "goodmorning", no "hi", no potty requests. She is extremely shy with other adults too. 但是我们儿医很淡定,从没跟我提过selective mutism. 我也一直忍着没提出这个怀疑 ,只是问是否正常。四岁左右是个转机,她开始回答老师问题,当然不是主动举手,现 在k,老师叫到她,她会回答,虽然很轻。要上台背诵,也会照做了。 所以有时候,只有等。
d*i
15 楼
pat, pat。 这算是确诊了?不过,好在这个更多算是心理问题,不是生理性的。应该 可以out grow的。就是你们全家要多费心了,要多和老师沟通沟通。不知道这么大的孩 子看心理医生合适吗?
【在 az 的大作中提到】 : 能讲讲你们接受什么Service了吗?或者就是等自己out grow了呢?有没有有经验的爹 : 妈给讲一下 : 我家这个娃大概就是这个问题了
My son is almost 4. He has been to the school since he was 2.5. He does not interact with classmates and never talks to classmates. He looks very quiet and shy. But he is very active and talkative at home. We had the concern and took him to see the specialist. Based on his past and current behaviors, the diagnosis is selective mutism or social anxiety disorder. It is not sure the reason for this kind of symptom.Maybe, the kids will be better when he/she grows up. But as parents, we need provide with the social opportunities to interact with children of similar age. We need encourage them to speak aloud and more. We know it is very hard. We have tried to change him in the last 6 monthes. We invited his classmates to our home,took him outside and played with the other kids...... But we did not see any improvement. We hope he would open his mind in the future.
az
46 楼
医生,专家没给任何治疗方案吗? 你是妈妈还是爸爸啊,是妈妈的话,我抱着哭会把,呜呜呜呜
not quiet and social .
【在 z**l 的大作中提到】 : My son is almost 4. He has been to the school since he was 2.5. He does not : interact with classmates and never talks to classmates. He looks very quiet : and shy. But he is very active and talkative at home. We had the concern and : took him to see the specialist. Based on his past and current behaviors, : the diagnosis is selective mutism or social anxiety disorder. : It is not sure the reason for this kind of symptom.Maybe, the kids will be : better when he/she grows up. But as parents, we need provide with the social : opportunities to interact with children of similar age. We need encourage : them to speak aloud and more. : We know it is very hard. We have tried to change him in the last 6 monthes.
【在 z**l 的大作中提到】 : My son is almost 4. He has been to the school since he was 2.5. He does not : interact with classmates and never talks to classmates. He looks very quiet : and shy. But he is very active and talkative at home. We had the concern and : took him to see the specialist. Based on his past and current behaviors, : the diagnosis is selective mutism or social anxiety disorder. : It is not sure the reason for this kind of symptom.Maybe, the kids will be : better when he/she grows up. But as parents, we need provide with the social : opportunities to interact with children of similar age. We need encourage : them to speak aloud and more. : We know it is very hard. We have tried to change him in the last 6 monthes.