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2岁娃突然不爱跟人打招呼咋教育？

2岁娃突然不爱跟人打招呼咋教育？# Parenting - 为人父母

m*o2013-01-07 08:01

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2岁多点，上daycare也三个多月了，去的时候说good morning虽然不够大声，回家的时
候会大声说bye bye，后来也学会了see u tomorrow，在外面玩碰上其他人也会say hi，
或者我们提醒say hi，都会跟着说
最近突然不爱打招呼了，先是娃爹说到了daycare，让跟老师说good morning，人家笑笑
就跑了，在家教育娃，早上到了daycare应该说什么，人家也回答“good morning”，但
是到时候就是不照做
昨天出门吃饭碰上一个警察叔叔特别喜欢我娃，让她say hi，她不说，警察叔叔说how
are you，让回答good，也不说，等警察叔叔走了，我问娃，刚才有礼貌吗？娃说“没有
”，再问“没有礼貌对吗？”，娃说“不对”，又问刚才应该跟警察叔叔说什么，娃说
“大声说hi”
人家一个门儿清，就是到时候不做，这是啥问题啊？我们应该咋教育，天天在家唐管用
么？

m*t2013-01-07 08:01

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don't force it, it's cyclical I tell you. My son (26 months) was like that a
couple of months ago, me and my husband tried very hard to let him know
that greeting people is good manner and he ignored us.
but now he goes around and bugs strangers on the streets, by saying hi and
bye (on the train, when there are many many people around you can imagine
how busy he would be), or popping up with random remarks to people like: see
, i have a doggy... this past weekend we dined out at a restaurant, he
yelled at the waiter: I want milk!!!! you can imagine how embarassing it was
. some friends told me that they may all of a sudden become withdrawal
and shy again, it's too early to really make them behave but we definitely
need to tell them what's the right thing to do and keep repeating it.

n*f2013-01-07 08:01

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强扭的瓜不甜，这都不是大事，顺其自然吧。我相信过一阵
就好了。

t*a2013-01-07 08:01

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小孩子应该都有这个过程。mmcat说的对，要多引导。千万不要硬让小孩做什么，他们
可能还会有逆反情绪

m*o2013-01-07 08:01

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谢谢，看来多唐还是必要的
我觉得daycare那些native speaker的小娃，看起来都挺有礼貌的，我娃这个我也不知道
是不是还是还有语言的问题，如果让她跟中国人说阿姨好叔叔好，她就打招呼，但是到
说英文的时候，就看起来有点shy，在daycare有时候也会跟阿姨说“谢谢”，让说than
k you有时候就反应不过来

a
see
withdrawal
definitely

【在 m***t 的大作中提到】

: don't force it, it's cyclical I tell you. My son (26 months) was like that a
: couple of months ago, me and my husband tried very hard to let him know
: that greeting people is good manner and he ignored us.
: but now he goes around and bugs strangers on the streets, by saying hi and
: bye (on the train, when there are many many people around you can imagine
: how busy he would be), or popping up with random remarks to people like: see
: , i have a doggy... this past weekend we dined out at a restaurant, he
: yelled at the waiter: I want milk!!!! you can imagine how embarassing it was
: . some friends told me that they may all of a sudden become withdrawal
: and shy again, it's too early to really make them behave but we definitely

m*t2013-01-07 08:01

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could be, if that's the case, give her some time to adjust to a new language
enviroment. I don't recall how it was the case for my son when it comes to
greeting people, but before he was in day care, he was very withdrawal
especially in front of people who don't speak chinese, I
guess it's because he could not understand what they say so natually he
chose to seek "protection" from parents. but now, I don't notice any
difference any more (he is in day care for 6 months already)

知道
than

【在 m****o 的大作中提到】

: 谢谢，看来多唐还是必要的
: 我觉得daycare那些native speaker的小娃，看起来都挺有礼貌的，我娃这个我也不知道
: 是不是还是还有语言的问题，如果让她跟中国人说阿姨好叔叔好，她就打招呼，但是到
: 说英文的时候，就看起来有点shy，在daycare有时候也会跟阿姨说“谢谢”，让说than
: k you有时候就反应不过来
:
: a
: see
: withdrawal
: definitely