n*m
2 楼
就称这位小男生,E吧。
刚开始听说E,是在询问小牛有没有听课,小牛说教堂里谁谁被罚了,干什么事了。E似
乎常常捣乱,被time out.
有一天,小牛突然告诉我,"E很棒"
"为什么呢?"
"因为E做job做得很好。"
"E是不是常常被MS.A批评吗?"
"是,可是他的作业也做的很好。老师问的问题,他都知道。"
过了一两周,老师开始发ticket了。
"妈妈,E有很多blue tickets。(最好)"
"老师还批评E吗?"
"他有时乖,有时不乖。"
再过一周,我提前去接小牛,终于遇到了E。E过来给小牛一个Hug。小牛也hugE。他们
笑得很开心。
E对我说,"She is cute."
最近小牛不开心。
"妈妈,E不来学校了。E去别的学校了。"
"以前,E和我玩,A,K和E玩也和我玩。以后A,K不会和我玩了。(A是男生)"
"还有小L,小T和小S和你玩。"
"嗯,E总带着我玩"
小牛是班上最小的学生,是K才进校的,英语也不好。其他学生很多是从preschool就开
始认识了。
我可以想象小牛安静地在一旁看着別人聚在一起玩的情景。E一定也是注意到。
"妈妈,E下周要回来visit。他会忘了我们的名字吗?"
E不一定有超高的EQ。人若没有最基本的empathy, 怎能培养出所谓的leadership. 而所
谓教养,我引用一句别人的话,when you act out of consideration and kindness,
you are always be of good manner.
,
刚开始听说E,是在询问小牛有没有听课,小牛说教堂里谁谁被罚了,干什么事了。E似
乎常常捣乱,被time out.
有一天,小牛突然告诉我,"E很棒"
"为什么呢?"
"因为E做job做得很好。"
"E是不是常常被MS.A批评吗?"
"是,可是他的作业也做的很好。老师问的问题,他都知道。"
过了一两周,老师开始发ticket了。
"妈妈,E有很多blue tickets。(最好)"
"老师还批评E吗?"
"他有时乖,有时不乖。"
再过一周,我提前去接小牛,终于遇到了E。E过来给小牛一个Hug。小牛也hugE。他们
笑得很开心。
E对我说,"She is cute."
最近小牛不开心。
"妈妈,E不来学校了。E去别的学校了。"
"以前,E和我玩,A,K和E玩也和我玩。以后A,K不会和我玩了。(A是男生)"
"还有小L,小T和小S和你玩。"
"嗯,E总带着我玩"
小牛是班上最小的学生,是K才进校的,英语也不好。其他学生很多是从preschool就开
始认识了。
我可以想象小牛安静地在一旁看着別人聚在一起玩的情景。E一定也是注意到。
"妈妈,E下周要回来visit。他会忘了我们的名字吗?"
E不一定有超高的EQ。人若没有最基本的empathy, 怎能培养出所谓的leadership. 而所
谓教养,我引用一句别人的话,when you act out of consideration and kindness,
you are always be of good manner.
,
n*m
8 楼
Thanks. I am touched by such a little kid. The recent ice cream post did
prompt me to write something.
They are little. They have so many to learn, which one is more important?
which one should have higher priority?
This is another one's story. I posted it in other thread originally. I post
it here.
Again, I am not judging others. It is just to provide a reference to us.
"There is a big girl in my daughter's school, who is 2 years older than mine.
Her mother bragged about how excellent her daughter is, how advance her
daughter is in reading, math, piano, and the teacher moved her to next
grade
.. The girl seems very polite when you talk to her.
It is the same girl that took my daughter's birthday party gifts without
asking.
It is a birthday gift from my daughter's classmate. They are lovely
stickers
. My daughter was hilarious, but had to leave the basket in the K classroom
when she went to an extracurricular class. Upon my daughter's return, this
big girl took all the stickers leaving only 3 tiny pieces to my daughter.
My daughter promised her classmates to share the stickers.
This girl never apologized to my daughter despite the teachers had
intervened.
I ran into this mother several times afterwards. She never mentioned a word
regarding
this matter. All I heard is her talking the school's academic, activities.
I am not saying the girl is born a bad girl. She probably did not even know
the
hurt she did upon others. It is just too bad that the girl's parents fail
to
teach her the basic common sense.
I agree with you that there are more important things that a kid should
learn besides those so called good manners on the surface."
【在 t**i 的大作中提到】
: 写得挺好,特别是这句
: 人若没有最基本的empathy, 怎能培养出所谓的leadership.
prompt me to write something.
They are little. They have so many to learn, which one is more important?
which one should have higher priority?
This is another one's story. I posted it in other thread originally. I post
it here.
Again, I am not judging others. It is just to provide a reference to us.
"There is a big girl in my daughter's school, who is 2 years older than mine.
Her mother bragged about how excellent her daughter is, how advance her
daughter is in reading, math, piano, and the teacher moved her to next
grade
.. The girl seems very polite when you talk to her.
It is the same girl that took my daughter's birthday party gifts without
asking.
It is a birthday gift from my daughter's classmate. They are lovely
stickers
. My daughter was hilarious, but had to leave the basket in the K classroom
when she went to an extracurricular class. Upon my daughter's return, this
big girl took all the stickers leaving only 3 tiny pieces to my daughter.
My daughter promised her classmates to share the stickers.
This girl never apologized to my daughter despite the teachers had
intervened.
I ran into this mother several times afterwards. She never mentioned a word
regarding
this matter. All I heard is her talking the school's academic, activities.
I am not saying the girl is born a bad girl. She probably did not even know
the
hurt she did upon others. It is just too bad that the girl's parents fail
to
teach her the basic common sense.
I agree with you that there are more important things that a kid should
learn besides those so called good manners on the surface."
【在 t**i 的大作中提到】
: 写得挺好,特别是这句
: 人若没有最基本的empathy, 怎能培养出所谓的leadership.
s*t
24 楼
我没那个意思。。。算不上啥美女
不过我喜欢的不是他啊,搞得我自己乱说话,把自己给套入一个不pleasant的状态里去
了。
其实我很大胆的,在A结婚的时候,我打电话给A表白了。@@ 是不是很不厚道啊,在人
家大喜的日子之前,搞这个。。。他心里会起波澜,但是都是过去的浮云浮云,人不能
由着性子乱来的。
:)A其实一直都很不错,后来混的也不错。我挺祝福他和他lp,真心的。不想占有or
what,稍许有点得意自己眼光也还算没差。他人很单纯,现在还是非常单纯。
【在 c********d 的大作中提到】
: 由他们去吧,看来C也怪可怜的,估计现在混得不如意,所以只好惦记着当年那点事儿
: ,好歹上中学的时候还有个漂亮姑娘喜欢过俺,当初要是跟她好了俺现在怎地也是个美
: 女博士的老公了>: ,跟段延庆死活要相信自己跟观音菩萨有过一腿是一回事儿,你说你还能有人家观音冤
: 枉么。= =
不过我喜欢的不是他啊,搞得我自己乱说话,把自己给套入一个不pleasant的状态里去
了。
其实我很大胆的,在A结婚的时候,我打电话给A表白了。@@ 是不是很不厚道啊,在人
家大喜的日子之前,搞这个。。。他心里会起波澜,但是都是过去的浮云浮云,人不能
由着性子乱来的。
:)A其实一直都很不错,后来混的也不错。我挺祝福他和他lp,真心的。不想占有or
what,稍许有点得意自己眼光也还算没差。他人很单纯,现在还是非常单纯。
【在 c********d 的大作中提到】
: 由他们去吧,看来C也怪可怜的,估计现在混得不如意,所以只好惦记着当年那点事儿
: ,好歹上中学的时候还有个漂亮姑娘喜欢过俺,当初要是跟她好了俺现在怎地也是个美
: 女博士的老公了>: ,跟段延庆死活要相信自己跟观音菩萨有过一腿是一回事儿,你说你还能有人家观音冤
: 枉么。= =
s*t
25 楼
呃
话说是表白,但不是说什么我爱你,我要和你一起那种。呵呵
只是跟他说明白,当年那个B来问我我喜欢是谁的时候,我其实撒谎了,其实我不是喜
欢C。。。而那都是过去的事儿了,我也没其他意思。。。
or
【在 s******t 的大作中提到】
: 我没那个意思。。。算不上啥美女
: 不过我喜欢的不是他啊,搞得我自己乱说话,把自己给套入一个不pleasant的状态里去
: 了。
: 其实我很大胆的,在A结婚的时候,我打电话给A表白了。@@ 是不是很不厚道啊,在人
: 家大喜的日子之前,搞这个。。。他心里会起波澜,但是都是过去的浮云浮云,人不能
: 由着性子乱来的。
: :)A其实一直都很不错,后来混的也不错。我挺祝福他和他lp,真心的。不想占有or
: what,稍许有点得意自己眼光也还算没差。他人很单纯,现在还是非常单纯。
话说是表白,但不是说什么我爱你,我要和你一起那种。呵呵
只是跟他说明白,当年那个B来问我我喜欢是谁的时候,我其实撒谎了,其实我不是喜
欢C。。。而那都是过去的事儿了,我也没其他意思。。。
or
【在 s******t 的大作中提到】
: 我没那个意思。。。算不上啥美女
: 不过我喜欢的不是他啊,搞得我自己乱说话,把自己给套入一个不pleasant的状态里去
: 了。
: 其实我很大胆的,在A结婚的时候,我打电话给A表白了。@@ 是不是很不厚道啊,在人
: 家大喜的日子之前,搞这个。。。他心里会起波澜,但是都是过去的浮云浮云,人不能
: 由着性子乱来的。
: :)A其实一直都很不错,后来混的也不错。我挺祝福他和他lp,真心的。不想占有or
: what,稍许有点得意自己眼光也还算没差。他人很单纯,现在还是非常单纯。
m*n
26 楼
无语
什么得意之类的都是你想太多了
高中小孩子过家家的事大人还拿来当真,他条件差成这样啊
什么得意之类的都是你想太多了
高中小孩子过家家的事大人还拿来当真,他条件差成这样啊
k*0
29 楼
一个很二的胖子和更二的胖子他妈的故事。
n*1
31 楼
太无聊了吧?即便他真的这么想,你成全他一个美丽的幻想不好吗?反正现在年纪一大
把了,婚也结了,人家又不可能对你有什么企图。
把了,婚也结了,人家又不可能对你有什么企图。
W*F
36 楼
ft,mm你是够闲的.
N*t
44 楼
要是我也会长大后跟A表白的,重温一下当年的纯情和浪漫啊~
C的事,跟你妈妈说就好了吧,实在想说就跟C私下说说,他妈妈就别说了。
C的事,跟你妈妈说就好了吧,实在想说就跟C私下说说,他妈妈就别说了。
R*n
45 楼
太复杂了
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