这个完全取决于soul mate的定义。See below for definition from wiki. 但凡soulmate包含sexual attraction的部分,不管男女都不能免俗,长相是一定会看 的啊,怎么可能抛开长相啊。 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soulmate A soulmate ( or soul mate) is a person with whom one has a feeling of deep or natural affinity, similarity, love, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality, or compatibility. A related concept is that of the twin flame or twin soul, which is thought to be the ultimate soulmate. In New Age spirituality, the ultimate soulmate is the one and only other half of one's soul. However, not everyone who uses these terms intends them to carry such mystical connotations.