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Re: 想去处多愁善感的习惯(毛病)

Re: 想去处多愁善感的习惯(毛病)# PsychoAnalysis - 心理分析

o*s2004-10-02 07:10

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i think this is due to your childhoos experience. u identify with your mum more than
your father.
the best way is to find a model person of rationality, then u imitate him in ever yaspect

o*s2004-10-02 07:10

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identification is predominant in shaping your personality.but this kind of identification
is partly. so u r still a male .the fact that u identify with your mum
partly can explain why u have no open-mindedness typical of your mum

h*r2004-10-02 07:10

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It's ok if you are under 25.
If you are older, then you should know a man got to do what a man got to do.
For example, if your brother treated your parents bad, you should not cry to
your brother. You should ask yourself what can I do in this situation? Why
it's my brother's responsibility and not mine. It's ok if you were in high
school or in college in China, but if you have been working or in the United
States, then you really should do something more than crying.
If you are working, why can

w*y2004-10-02 07:10

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每个人都有自己的个性，从婴孩就可以看出。有的人天生比较多愁善感，有的人天生的乐
天派。或许有些人不喜欢自己的个性，但要改变是很困难的，甚至是不可能的。一个人的
感情丰富与否，只要不太影响到他人，一般旁人是不会care的。我觉得这是很personal的
问题，自己的想法更重要，应该尝试和自己对话，学会控制情绪。我觉得很多东西都是这
样的，浅尝怡情，少少的伤感一把，落几滴清泪，于人于己都并无大碍，但是多了，别人
嫌弃，对自己的身体也有伤害。你这样的情况，还是属於很正常的。人非草木，熟能无情
？一方面要学会接受自己，爱惜自己，另外多注意提高自我控制的意识，多做些自己喜欢
的事情。慢慢地就会好起来的。

do.
to
United
your
，
算

w*y2004-10-02 07:10

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你妈的豁达应该是来自岁月的积累，知道自己的脾气性格，所以该哭还是哭了，但也很清
楚哭了也一样，事情该怎么着还怎么著。豁达，是无奈也是觉悟。但你由於还年青，容易
执著于自己的想法，坚持自己的态度。所以就不那么豁达...先天后天的因素都有。

人
人
就
in

o*s2004-10-02 07:10

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sigh, the tragedy of life is , on most occassions , the tragedy of character