c*h
2 楼
SELF-DESTRUCTIVE, TIME TO CHANGE.
DON'T LABEL YOURSELF.
DON'T LABEL YOURSELF.
l*e
3 楼
I hope when you read back your free expression about your curent mental state
and your attitute toward your marriage, you are able to see the redflag
signalling your unhealthy mentality.
You should by all means actively seek for professional help. If you are
covered with health care, this can be easily done. Just go through the
psychologist list in your health plan and make calls for appointment. The
psychologists are trained to listen to you, dig out your uncosicousness,
comfort you, and suppo
and your attitute toward your marriage, you are able to see the redflag
signalling your unhealthy mentality.
You should by all means actively seek for professional help. If you are
covered with health care, this can be easily done. Just go through the
psychologist list in your health plan and make calls for appointment. The
psychologists are trained to listen to you, dig out your uncosicousness,
comfort you, and suppo
d*k
4 楼
Hi,
I don't know how depressed you are. But I can feel that you are so upset
about your marriage, otherwise, you could never say something like this. No,
please think about something again and again before you really want to do it.
I believe that you and your husband must love each other enough to get
married. Please recall those good and sweet memory! How can you kill someone
you really loved? and also, how can you break your parents hearts. We are
here,in this world, not just for our happine
I don't know how depressed you are. But I can feel that you are so upset
about your marriage, otherwise, you could never say something like this. No,
please think about something again and again before you really want to do it.
I believe that you and your husband must love each other enough to get
married. Please recall those good and sweet memory! How can you kill someone
you really loved? and also, how can you break your parents hearts. We are
here,in this world, not just for our happine
i*t
5 楼
别这样。人生还是可以找到值得你奋斗的东西的。
我也曾有过这样的想法。人有的时候容易钻牛角尖。怎么想也想不出解决办法。别人也劝
我看开,放弃一些不重要的东西。我还是想不通。觉得美国生活(尤其是婚姻)已经非常糟
糕,真不知还能放弃什么?最后我还是决定走自己的路,过自己想要的生活,虽然要付出
巨大的代价,而且不一定能达到我的预期。
我的感觉一是要彻底想清楚自己的目标。二是鼓足勇气去实现目标。三是在努力的过程中
坚持到底。另外也要懂得放松自己。克服困难的同时也需要有朋友,亲人的帮助(哪怕只
是打电话),不开心的时候想办法转移注意力,找点可以做的开心事,找机会把怨气发泄
出去。
希望对你有所帮助
我也曾有过这样的想法。人有的时候容易钻牛角尖。怎么想也想不出解决办法。别人也劝
我看开,放弃一些不重要的东西。我还是想不通。觉得美国生活(尤其是婚姻)已经非常糟
糕,真不知还能放弃什么?最后我还是决定走自己的路,过自己想要的生活,虽然要付出
巨大的代价,而且不一定能达到我的预期。
我的感觉一是要彻底想清楚自己的目标。二是鼓足勇气去实现目标。三是在努力的过程中
坚持到底。另外也要懂得放松自己。克服困难的同时也需要有朋友,亲人的帮助(哪怕只
是打电话),不开心的时候想办法转移注意力,找点可以做的开心事,找机会把怨气发泄
出去。
希望对你有所帮助
g*b
6 楼
我妈妈曾经不只一次跟我说过,当你觉得你的生活很不易时,想想这个世界上有许多人更
不幸,事实就是这样。我过去想,WELL,现在想差不多也是这样,在2~3年里我把一个女
人一生能遇上的倒霉事都经历了,可是现在去想那时的痛苦恍若隔世,其实也只有1、2年
的时间。坚持过去了就会好的,而且一定要相信自己可以坚持下去。好像上帝给不同的人
的生活安排了不同的内容,但他也会给没个人安排足够的能力去应对生活中的问题。
在 idiot (idiot) 的大作中提到: 】
劝
糟
出
中
只
泄
不幸,事实就是这样。我过去想,WELL,现在想差不多也是这样,在2~3年里我把一个女
人一生能遇上的倒霉事都经历了,可是现在去想那时的痛苦恍若隔世,其实也只有1、2年
的时间。坚持过去了就会好的,而且一定要相信自己可以坚持下去。好像上帝给不同的人
的生活安排了不同的内容,但他也会给没个人安排足够的能力去应对生活中的问题。
在 idiot (idiot) 的大作中提到: 】
劝
糟
出
中
只
泄
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