I'd suggest that everybody stops here, for whatever reasons. Frankly, I do
not know her personally. I did graduate school and postdoc training in
roughly the same time frame with her. While I am still struggling to be
independent, she got her tenure-track faculty position.
Am I jealous? I was, but not any more.
I shared my frustration with a senior person, who was a successful scientist
, now a very successful businessman. He asked me, can you sleep peacefully
every night? I did not even know what to answer.
If you can sleep peacefully every night and you have good intention/
conscience, you have nothing to worry about. He said this firmly while
staring at my eyes.
Probably at my level, I could not understand the philosophy of a successful
man. At the end of day, everybody will stand before his/her own justice.
I am waiting peacefully, and patiently. I believe that my justice will come
someday.