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paper thanks2# Biology - 生物学

z*s2016-08-19 07:08

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sorry for typing English.
As a fresh Master EE student with EIT license, do you guys think how much
possibility that I can get offer of a position whose min requirement
includes BS degree+ 2 years Experience+ have to have EIT license.
They have already provided me onsite along with other candidates on the same
day. Since they did not provide travel expense and it is located in a place
far away from my local place, I am still think about if I should go there.
Looks like this is a second level engineer position and they did have 1st
level electrical position before but not available right now. The 1st level
electrical position's min requirement is BS degree+ 0-1year experience+ EIT
preferred.
what do you guys think.

j*a2016-08-19 07:08

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建议重温经典电影 The 34th Street。40年代拍的那个最经典，对白及其精彩。如
果受不了黑白电影和低分辨率，90年代那个也可以。
里面客观理性的妈妈跟孩子说Santa不存在，后来才发现自己错过了很多。

g*d2016-08-19 07:08

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paper thanks!
Nat Immunol. 2002 Dec;3(12):1156-62. Epub 2002 Nov 11.
Indirect activation of naïve CD4+ T cells by dendritic cell-derived
exosomes.
Théry C1, Duban L, Segura E, Véron P, Lantz O, Amigorena S.
Author information
Abstract
Dendritic cells (DCs) secrete vesicles of endosomal origin, called exosomes,
that bear major histocompatibility complex (MHC) and T cell costimulatory
molecules. Here, we found that injection of antigen- or peptide-bearing
exosomes induced antigen-specific naïve CD4+ T cell activation in vivo.
In vitro, exosomes did not induce antigen-dependent T cell stimulation
unless mature CD8alpha- DCs were also present in the cultures. These mature
DCs could be MHC class II-negative, but had to bear CD80 and CD86. Therefore
, in addition to carrying antigen, exosomes promote the exchange of
functional peptide-MHC complexes between DCs. Such a mechanism may increase
the number of DCs bearing a particular peptide, thus amplifying the
initiation of primary adaptive immune responses.
please send the papers to email: [email protected]/* */
thanks a lot!

w*02016-08-19 07:08

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其实什么都不用说吧，娃到时候自己会FIGURE OUT的，何必费脑筋

s*y2016-08-19 07:08

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我觉得只要还给孩子讲童话故事，就没必要纠结这个问题。

【在 j*******a 的大作中提到】

: 建议重温经典电影 The 34th Street。40年代拍的那个最经典，对白及其精彩。如
: 果受不了黑白电影和低分辨率，90年代那个也可以。
: 里面客观理性的妈妈跟孩子说Santa不存在，后来才发现自己错过了很多。

s*x2016-08-19 07:08

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Re, 前两天看一篇专业文章说顺其自然是最好的

其实什么都不用说吧，娃到时候自己会FIGURE OUT的，何必费脑筋

【在 w********0 的大作中提到】

: 其实什么都不用说吧，娃到时候自己会FIGURE OUT的，何必费脑筋

j*a2016-08-19 07:08

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冒充Santa准备礼物在你看来是顺其自然，在版上很多问问题的父母看来是反自然的。
所以我才发那个贴。

【在 s****x 的大作中提到】

: Re, 前两天看一篇专业文章说顺其自然是最好的
:
: 其实什么都不用说吧，娃到时候自己会FIGURE OUT的，何必费脑筋

h*y2016-08-19 07:08

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RE.我觉得就是跟童话一个道理.

【在 j*******a 的大作中提到】

X*r2016-08-19 07:08

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相信电影里讲得道理的大人，是不是就是相信圣诞老人的孩子长大的啊，哈哈。

【在 j*******a 的大作中提到】

t*r2016-08-19 07:08

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精辟就两个字！！

【在 X****r 的大作中提到】

: 相信电影里讲得道理的大人，是不是就是相信圣诞老人的孩子长大的啊，哈哈。

j*a2016-08-19 07:08

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相信电影里讲得道理的大人，就是相信圣诞老人的孩子长大的--而且长大了也没有因此
后悔或失落的。

【在 X****r 的大作中提到】

: 相信电影里讲得道理的大人，是不是就是相信圣诞老人的孩子长大的啊，哈哈。

w*22016-08-19 07:08

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不让孩子知道/相信Santa的家长，其实本身都挺缺乏想象力的。本来也不是什么大事，
但干什么非要搞出一种优越感来。

r*f2016-08-19 07:08

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各人想法不同，咱也不知道别人的具体情况，没准就是经济上或者心情上
还没有到放松的阶段，没必要搞得这么上纲上线地讽刺挖苦吧，绝大部分
同胞在这边都不容易，说小孩子mean之前，先看看自己？

【在 w**********2 的大作中提到】

: 不让孩子知道/相信Santa的家长，其实本身都挺缺乏想象力的。本来也不是什么大事，
: 但干什么非要搞出一种优越感来。

j*a2016-08-19 07:08

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所以才佩服Life is beautiful这种电影里的父亲（尽管是故事），能在这样的高压下
给孩子营造一片充满想象力的天地。
经济上真不是什么事。我女儿收到的第一份Santa的礼物是一本一块钱的sticker book
，把她高兴得什么一样。（主要因为是Santa送的。）

【在 r*f 的大作中提到】

: 各人想法不同，咱也不知道别人的具体情况，没准就是经济上或者心情上
: 还没有到放松的阶段，没必要搞得这么上纲上线地讽刺挖苦吧，绝大部分
: 同胞在这边都不容易，说小孩子mean之前，先看看自己？

r*f2016-08-19 07:08

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嗯，嗯，还在集中营放好听的音乐（还是歌剧？）给老婆听，表示他安好。。。

book

【在 j*******a 的大作中提到】

: 所以才佩服Life is beautiful这种电影里的父亲（尽管是故事），能在这样的高压下
: 给孩子营造一片充满想象力的天地。
: 经济上真不是什么事。我女儿收到的第一份Santa的礼物是一本一块钱的sticker book
: ，把她高兴得什么一样。（主要因为是Santa送的。）

s*j2016-08-19 07:08

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喜欢 life is beautiful 这种有史第一做作片, 怪不的这点P事扯那么多.
You don't need to believe in Santa to enjoy Christmas.
I don't give a shit about Mickey mouse, but I still enjoy Disneyworld.

book

【在 j*******a 的大作中提到】

y*p2016-08-19 07:08

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我娃才3岁就不信santa啊,也不跟santa照相,他每去一个mall就发现不同样子的santa,
也不知道怎么观察出来的.

a*k2016-08-19 07:08

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自己从来没信过，直接告诉他礼物是爸爸妈妈送的，没有Santa.

★ 发自iPhone App: ChineseWeb 7.7

【在 j*******a 的大作中提到】

t*r2016-08-19 07:08

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知道 === 相信？
是不是装灯的时候装错了，直接把两根线给短路了？// super fast run

【在 w**********2 的大作中提到】

: 不让孩子知道/相信Santa的家长，其实本身都挺缺乏想象力的。本来也不是什么大事，
: 但干什么非要搞出一种优越感来。

m*r2016-08-19 07:08

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不要说破吧。小朋友相信童话的年纪有几年啊，还是让他们多一点童年有趣的回忆吧。

t*r2016-08-19 07:08

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看具体小朋友了。世界发展了，现代信息社会也不一定要拘泥从前。开心不一定
建立在童话上，喜欢童话也不一定需要相信童话。

【在 m**********r 的大作中提到】

: 不要说破吧。小朋友相信童话的年纪有几年啊，还是让他们多一点童年有趣的回忆吧。

j*a2016-08-19 07:08

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昨晚临睡洗漱时，两个孩子再说“明天Santa is coming to town，一定不要把cookie
忘了。”他们眼睛里那种兴奋的光彩，也就只有孩子才有。
我承认我家两个孩子比较傻乎乎的，有的小朋友比较冷静客观。这个贴只是对父母们说
的，如果孩子喜欢Santa的世界，没必要冷静客观地跟他们讲事实摆道理，就像电影里
那个妈妈一样。

【在 t*******r 的大作中提到】

: 看具体小朋友了。世界发展了，现代信息社会也不一定要拘泥从前。开心不一定
: 建立在童话上，喜欢童话也不一定需要相信童话。

y*i2016-08-19 07:08

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由着小孩子，无须讨论。

w*22016-08-19 07:08

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实话实说，还是对大人，也算挖苦？缺乏想象力的人多了，我就算一个，不过那些家
长比我想象力还差一点儿。

【在 r*f 的大作中提到】

t*r2016-08-19 07:08

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说得不错，这世界上缺乏想象力的人多了去了。比如在现代社会还拘泥在
那些八百年前的古典乐谱框架里教/学古典钢琴的，其实都没啥想象力。
// 坐等某 id 跳坑。。。

【在 w**********2 的大作中提到】

: 实话实说，还是对大人，也算挖苦？缺乏想象力的人多了，我就算一个，不过那些家
: 长比我想象力还差一点儿。

h*u2016-08-19 07:08

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话说我给孩子们早早的准备好了礼物，就等晚上打包。圣诞前夜我家老大7岁问我，圣
诞老人会不会给礼物，我告诉他会。然后他说，那妈妈爸爸呢。我就傻了。深更半夜翻
箱倒柜的又凑出两个礼物包来。
谁能告诉我，小孩子如果真的信了，那么除了圣诞老人，妈妈是不是也要送礼物。
我亏死了。

【在 t*******r 的大作中提到】

: 说得不错，这世界上缺乏想象力的人多了去了。比如在现代社会还拘泥在
: 那些八百年前的古典乐谱框架里教/学古典钢琴的，其实都没啥想象力。
: // 坐等某 id 跳坑。。。

P*m2016-08-19 07:08

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Most kids would rather believe in Santa than not.
I know a 15 year old claim she believe in Santa. I asked her, "Why some of
your friends think Santa does not exists?" She said, "That's because they
are on the naughty list, they got a lump of coal and they don't want to
admit it". ~~ wink, wink, wink.......
When it come to Xmas presents, it's better believe in Santa.
But most parent won't receive gifts from Santa. Santa is only for kids (ends
when the person graduate from college or get married).
My son's school hosts "Holiday Bazaar" during holiday season. The parents
help buy little things from dollar store. Some volunteer to set up the
school gym as a "shopping center". On that special day, the kids dress in "
Christmas" clothes and bring a shopping bag from home. They have a shopping
list that they talked to the parents about who they want to buy gifts for.
With assistance from teacher and volunteer parents, they shop for a gift for
each person on their list and wrap them up. When they come home, they put
them under the tree.
For a 5 year old, that is a lot to learn. They are given real money (1
dollar for each gift) to complete each transaction. The process of wrapping
presents and setting up the tree make them feel they are part of the holiday.
That's the spirit of giving and receiving. Not all presents come from Santa.
We need to give and receive from each other too.

s*j2016-08-19 07:08

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"But most parent won't receive gifts from Santa. Santa is only for kids (
ends
when the person graduate from college or get married)."
it ends when the kid reaches the age of reasoning.

ends

【在 P*******m 的大作中提到】

: Most kids would rather believe in Santa than not.
: I know a 15 year old claim she believe in Santa. I asked her, "Why some of
: your friends think Santa does not exists?" She said, "That's because they
: are on the naughty list, they got a lump of coal and they don't want to
: admit it". ~~ wink, wink, wink.......
: When it come to Xmas presents, it's better believe in Santa.
: But most parent won't receive gifts from Santa. Santa is only for kids (ends
: when the person graduate from college or get married).
: My son's school hosts "Holiday Bazaar" during holiday season. The parents
: help buy little things from dollar store. Some volunteer to set up the

P*m2016-08-19 07:08

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Most kids will question the existence of Santa between 4 to 7 years old. But
they are smart. They know talk and act differently in different environment
. The will go to school say there is no Santa. If all members in the family
kept quiet about Santa, they mostly likely will get even smarter and play
along with the Christmas fantasy.
It's not a practical thing. Just like Chinese Spring Festival, Christmas in
large part is a social event.
You get to meet the person that you didn't meet all year. Even if long
distance, you try to find out where their life is at. Creating a wish list
is a revealing action that kinda tell others what you want (I always have
clean house and good kid on top of my list, call it fantasy item.) Buying
from other's wish list is also a communication process. Which size clothing
your kids wear? How tall is he? If the kid write their own wish list, how
much improvement they have over vocabulary and hand write over the year.
After gift is all exchanged, how is the big scarf I give you this year? Do
you like it? Why do you put vacuum cleaner on your list? I bought one for
you last year! Does it not work!! I am not going to give you another one!!!
Send that one back and I will have it replaced!!!!

s*j2016-08-19 07:08

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你是在说其实大人都被小孩给涮了?

But
environment
family
in

【在 P*******m 的大作中提到】

: Most kids will question the existence of Santa between 4 to 7 years old. But
: they are smart. They know talk and act differently in different environment
: . The will go to school say there is no Santa. If all members in the family
: kept quiet about Santa, they mostly likely will get even smarter and play
: along with the Christmas fantasy.
: It's not a practical thing. Just like Chinese Spring Festival, Christmas in
: large part is a social event.
: You get to meet the person that you didn't meet all year. Even if long
: distance, you try to find out where their life is at. Creating a wish list
: is a revealing action that kinda tell others what you want (I always have

P*m2016-08-19 07:08

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Of course!!!
Just like most kids in China like Chinese new year, most kids here like
Christmas. I pledge all Chinese parents to bring on the Christmas spirit.
20 years from now you would want you son or daughter read your wish list and
buy you something for holiday too and you will be happy to chat with them
about you grandchildren. Keeping the Santa secret is fun to both the young
and old. Start the tradition now and keep it going! You can not take off on
Chinese new year, the kids had to be at school that time. So if you don't do
these on Christmas and spend some time to put some thought to each other,
when you will have the time to do it?
A lot of the school make Christmas crafts, mom's day presents and father's
day presents just so that the kids can bring something to home. It takes the
pressure off the parents on helping the kid to buy presents. Most American
family will do something in addition to what the school does. For example,
Dad will help pick mother's day presents, spend half a day research and
shopping with the kid. Wrap the present, put a "from" and "to" tags on it.
Write a card (plus if the kid write it himself), have a nice dinner and
present the gift to mommy. Same goes with father's day and Christmas. It
will not always go perfect. But it gets better and better every year.

S*s2016-08-19 07:08

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我们小时候压根就没有三塔的概念，错过什么了吗？我们做好事，知心姐姐和小虎子都
知道。

p*52016-08-19 07:08

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我们没有童年圣诞礼物，我们没有错过什么，只是少了一种快乐。当然，快乐可以有很
多种。眼下这种圣诞的快乐，我还是希望我娃可以有。

P*m2016-08-19 07:08

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Actually the kid does not miss anything. But the parents miss a lot. The joy
of parenting is more about living the moment. A lot of Chinese parent think
too much about the future. How about for the joy of Christmas time, forget
about college and talent education, forget about paying off the house,
forget about the work and study. And enjoy each others company.
You will understand when your kids turned parents as well. I have a ABC
husband and understand this culture difference first hand. If it concerns
you, you probably want to talk to a few ABC about it.

c*a2016-08-19 07:08

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孩子其实是明白的。
虽然我跟女儿说了很多次santa不存在，女儿还是问，我明白了，不是她不知道，而是
她希望santa存在或者希望有礼物，于是我改口说，santa存在，你想要什么礼物？
她说她想要一个练琴用的节拍器，我打电话给她爸，让他买一个，平安夜放在圣诞树下
。结果老爸接了女儿直接去乐器店挑了。
挑完还说，我一会给santa，让他今晚送来。
女儿就假装相信了。
平安夜的晚上，女儿还真给santa准备了牛奶和饼干。

j*a2016-08-19 07:08

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不一定是假装，还是心里希望有Santa的存在，就象信教的人希望有上帝主宰这世间的
一切。

【在 c**a 的大作中提到】

: 孩子其实是明白的。
: 虽然我跟女儿说了很多次santa不存在，女儿还是问，我明白了，不是她不知道，而是
: 她希望santa存在或者希望有礼物，于是我改口说，santa存在，你想要什么礼物？
: 她说她想要一个练琴用的节拍器，我打电话给她爸，让他买一个，平安夜放在圣诞树下
: 。结果老爸接了女儿直接去乐器店挑了。
: 挑完还说，我一会给santa，让他今晚送来。
: 女儿就假装相信了。
: 平安夜的晚上，女儿还真给santa准备了牛奶和饼干。

t*r2016-08-19 07:08

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这个真不一定是希望，而是某种自然的假装（pretend play）。
pretend play 既发生在娃身上，也发生在大人身上。只不过
以不同的形式出现而已。正常人都会这样，跟相信与否/希望与否
不一定有直接联系。

【在 j*******a 的大作中提到】

: 不一定是假装，还是心里希望有Santa的存在，就象信教的人希望有上帝主宰这世间的
: 一切。