What do you think? My story of my nanny.# NextGeneration - 我爱宝宝
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It is so weired that my nanny can drive me crazy. I 've read so many posts
about mom in law story, but me and my mom in law can get along so good.
There let me share my story of my nanny.
I have hired a nanny for about two years from now. She is a nice lady
taking good care of my baby and my baby loves her a lot, and she never touch
or moved anything valuable in our house. These are the reasons why we are
still hire her. However, my husband and my parents in law insist that my
daughter should learn new thing at her age, so we put my baby to a daycare
in a part time base and keep my nanny to clean the house and cook meals when
baby is in the daycare.
Everything works fine with my nanny beside she talks too much and loves to
change the way we live or giving opinions/comment of our lives. Sometime
what she said really upset me, she always compared me to her ex- master, her
ex master (I called her XX) is from the same Chinese city as we from. XX is
a very lucky women married a rich American man, stay at home and hired two
nannies to do take care of her kids, do housework and XX also never cook
anymeal for the family. However, in my nanny's mind XX is the best woman
ever,My nanny will say i am not as organize and smart as XX. I do agree i am
not a very organized person at home, and i told her since XX had nothing to
do of course she can be very organized. Here are the normal conversation
my nanny said to me 100 times already, by a daily base.
This conversation repeats almost everyday, she will say the same thing
everytime she open my freezer and says "XX (her ex master) is very organized
, she never have so many stuff in the freezer... XX know where she place her
stuff"
"Ever XX never cook, and never did any housework, but she is way organized
than you." (But XX never go to work, she has 24 hours to organize her
freezer!!)
There is the best one:
"You manner of walking and eating look kinder bad, XX's way of eating and
walking seems she is from a high class family"
"I can tell XX 's family must be well better than yours" (I never told my
nanny my family, but it seems XX's parents always told my nanny how high
class they are in China....
"XX never allow her daughter to play the cleaning games, since for her it is lower class people's job, are you ok for your daughter to help for cleaning?"
It is kind of drive me crazy, evertime she said this, i try to ignore her
and not response, but she will keep go on and on. due to finding a good nanny for my daugher is not easy.
What do you do in my shoes, do you tell her directly it is upsetting me for
what she says? Or, i should just ignore it, never care about it?
P.S. I have a full time job, sometime even need to do over time work, and i
cook meal in weekend, since my LG loves my style of cooking, he can't eat my
nanny's meal for the whole week
about mom in law story, but me and my mom in law can get along so good.
There let me share my story of my nanny.
I have hired a nanny for about two years from now. She is a nice lady
taking good care of my baby and my baby loves her a lot, and she never touch
or moved anything valuable in our house. These are the reasons why we are
still hire her. However, my husband and my parents in law insist that my
daughter should learn new thing at her age, so we put my baby to a daycare
in a part time base and keep my nanny to clean the house and cook meals when
baby is in the daycare.
Everything works fine with my nanny beside she talks too much and loves to
change the way we live or giving opinions/comment of our lives. Sometime
what she said really upset me, she always compared me to her ex- master, her
ex master (I called her XX) is from the same Chinese city as we from. XX is
a very lucky women married a rich American man, stay at home and hired two
nannies to do take care of her kids, do housework and XX also never cook
anymeal for the family. However, in my nanny's mind XX is the best woman
ever,My nanny will say i am not as organize and smart as XX. I do agree i am
not a very organized person at home, and i told her since XX had nothing to
do of course she can be very organized. Here are the normal conversation
my nanny said to me 100 times already, by a daily base.
This conversation repeats almost everyday, she will say the same thing
everytime she open my freezer and says "XX (her ex master) is very organized
, she never have so many stuff in the freezer... XX know where she place her
stuff"
"Ever XX never cook, and never did any housework, but she is way organized
than you." (But XX never go to work, she has 24 hours to organize her
freezer!!)
There is the best one:
"You manner of walking and eating look kinder bad, XX's way of eating and
walking seems she is from a high class family"
"I can tell XX 's family must be well better than yours" (I never told my
nanny my family, but it seems XX's parents always told my nanny how high
class they are in China....
"XX never allow her daughter to play the cleaning games, since for her it is lower class people's job, are you ok for your daughter to help for cleaning?"
It is kind of drive me crazy, evertime she said this, i try to ignore her
and not response, but she will keep go on and on. due to finding a good nanny for my daugher is not easy.
What do you do in my shoes, do you tell her directly it is upsetting me for
what she says? Or, i should just ignore it, never care about it?
P.S. I have a full time job, sometime even need to do over time work, and i
cook meal in weekend, since my LG loves my style of cooking, he can't eat my
nanny's meal for the whole week
