最新update，给校长的email回复了，说的比较中肯，我也明白，小孩子跟谁玩，是不
能强迫的。
Mr. XXXX,
Thank you for your email message. My apologies for the delay in offering my
response.
The upside to being delayed is that I have spoken with Mrs. XXXX and she
informed me that a discussion has already taken place to further inquire
about the specifics of this arrangement. I am satisfied that the situation
has been addressed and Mrs. XXXX will continue to monitor for follow through
on the part of the students.
In our teaching of good and positive choices, being respectful of others,
and making sure not to bully we do let the students know that having friends
is a great part of life, that as they grow older friends change, and that
even though we would appreciate everyone liking us and wanting to be our
friend that may not always be the case. If so, we respect their decision
and focus on other people who are our friends and want to be our friends.
We do this in an effort to assist kids in not feeling left out of groups,
that groups do exist, and that if they are not a part of one group there are
other groups that they will be a part of and those too may change over time.
Is the “cool club” respectful, no. Does it exist everywhere, yes (card
groups, fraternities, ladies clubs). Can we as adults continue to model
positive examples and empower the kids to know it is not necessarily
exclusionary, yes.
So I appreciate you bringing this to our attention as it allows us to
provide additional learning opportunities to students with the goal of both
an increased awareness of these types of situations and resolving them for
the benefit of your son and other kids.
XXX XXXX
Principal
