First ask her how did the kid's 2 year check up go? Was everything going OK? Did the pediatrician say anything about the kid's development, or did she ask the parents to fill out checklists regarding developmental milestones? If you sense something strange, it is likely the doctor felt the same way. It is also possible that a developmental assessment or a specialist visit is already scheduled for the kid, and the family is just waiting for the result. So don't assume the parents did not take any measures.
【在 m*********7 的大作中提到】 : First ask her how did the kid's 2 year check up go? Was everything going OK? : Did the pediatrician say anything about the kid's development, or did she : ask the parents to fill out checklists regarding developmental milestones? : If you sense something strange, it is likely the doctor felt the same way. : It is also possible that a developmental assessment or a specialist visit is : already scheduled for the kid, and the family is just waiting for the : result. So don't assume the parents did not take any measures.
I met someone like this before. The kid is obviously different. He can't go to daycare full day because of his behavior problem. mom and dad were long distance. grandma has to watch the little kid most of time. But the mom is very focused on her career and did not really think it is a problem. They know the kid has issues but they just did not do anything.