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y*i2012-03-11 08:03

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you work so hard for what? for your kids,right?
now they have to compete with the whole world to get back to usa to enter
into ivy league, even when they are 5 years old, they will feel the pressure.
on the other hand, chinese kids here have much higher chance to enter ivy
league, plus they have fluent english, friends from kindergarden and primary
schools, these are network key persons guranteering their future success.
think about your kids before returning for your own life purpose.

c*32012-03-11 08:03

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您的阴文需要加强。

pressure.
primary

【在 y****i 的大作中提到】

: you work so hard for what? for your kids,right?
: now they have to compete with the whole world to get back to usa to enter
: into ivy league, even when they are 5 years old, they will feel the pressure.
: on the other hand, chinese kids here have much higher chance to enter ivy
: league, plus they have fluent english, friends from kindergarden and primary
: schools, these are network key persons guranteering their future success.
: think about your kids before returning for your own life purpose.

y*i2012-03-11 08:03

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thanks for pointing out. your chinese too.

【在 c****3 的大作中提到】

: 您的阴文需要加强。
:
: pressure.
: primary

w*g2012-03-11 08:03

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为了孩子，绝对不能留在美国。孩子在美国作三等公民，会心智不健全。

m*a2012-03-11 08:03

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out这个介词后面一定要加东西的
你可以说，POINTING THIS OUT，但是单独用，就不对了

【在 y****i 的大作中提到】

: thanks for pointing out. your chinese too.

y*i2012-03-11 08:03

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grammar is not that important, buddy. i heard a lot of rednecks using "i is
a boy", very confidently, hehe.

【在 m********a 的大作中提到】

: out这个介词后面一定要加东西的
: 你可以说，POINTING THIS OUT，但是单独用，就不对了

y*i2012-03-11 08:03

7 楼

not in california.

【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】

: 为了孩子，绝对不能留在美国。孩子在美国作三等公民，会心智不健全。

l*g2012-03-11 08:03

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有些人对成功的定义就是去藤校，跟电脑似的，人生就只有0和1，去藤校就是成功，去
不了就是LOSER，自己去了藤校做破四刀，那就是温拿，孩子能去，也是温拿，去不了
，通通都是LOSER。这样也挺好，在他们人生观里，自己比世界上剩的那六十多亿人都
牛B，这感觉真好
说着说着感觉跟果版那些果粉似的
if you use apple
niu B!!
Otherwise
===loser

p*82012-03-11 08:03

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第一句话就错了,我工作是为了我自己.

pressure.
primary

【在 y****i 的大作中提到】

: you work so hard for what? for your kids,right?
: now they have to compete with the whole world to get back to usa to enter
: into ivy league, even when they are 5 years old, they will feel the pressure.
: on the other hand, chinese kids here have much higher chance to enter ivy
: league, plus they have fluent english, friends from kindergarden and primary
: schools, these are network key persons guranteering their future success.
: think about your kids before returning for your own life purpose.

l*a2012-03-11 08:03

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哎呀，中式英文，差点把我误导了！
第一句应该是What's the reasion of your hard work?
或者，Why do you work so hard?
语法很重要的。特别是你真的为了孩子，那么对待学习的态度还是谦虚点好。
对于普通百姓，其实回国也是差不多是三等公民。

h*e2012-03-11 08:03

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我不知道我最近为什么老喜欢回复不正常的帖子。。。

No. I work for myself...
have you asked your kids if this is the life they want?
pressure.
It sounds better w/ this format: Even a 5 year old will feel the pressure.
primary
这几句就没法改了，太烂了。。。

【在 y****i 的大作中提到】

: you work so hard for what? for your kids,right?
: now they have to compete with the whole world to get back to usa to enter
: into ivy league, even when they are 5 years old, they will feel the pressure.
: on the other hand, chinese kids here have much higher chance to enter ivy
: league, plus they have fluent english, friends from kindergarden and primary
: schools, these are network key persons guranteering their future success.
: think about your kids before returning for your own life purpose.

l*s2012-03-11 08:03

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我怎么觉得他的英文挺好的

【在 l********a 的大作中提到】

: 哎呀，中式英文，差点把我误导了！
: 第一句应该是What's the reasion of your hard work?
: 或者，Why do you work so hard?
: 语法很重要的。特别是你真的为了孩子，那么对待学习的态度还是谦虚点好。
: 对于普通百姓，其实回国也是差不多是三等公民。

t*32012-03-11 08:03

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zan cute boys in pic!

【在 l********a 的大作中提到】

: 哎呀，中式英文，差点把我误导了！
: 第一句应该是What's the reasion of your hard work?
: 或者，Why do you work so hard?
: 语法很重要的。特别是你真的为了孩子，那么对待学习的态度还是谦虚点好。
: 对于普通百姓，其实回国也是差不多是三等公民。

s*a2012-03-11 08:03

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第一句话就说错了。后面不用看了。
Is getting your kid into ivy league your whole life about?
Feel so sad for you.

pressure.
primary

【在 y****i 的大作中提到】

: you work so hard for what? for your kids,right?
: now they have to compete with the whole world to get back to usa to enter
: into ivy league, even when they are 5 years old, they will feel the pressure.
: on the other hand, chinese kids here have much higher chance to enter ivy
: league, plus they have fluent english, friends from kindergarden and primary
: schools, these are network key persons guranteering their future success.
: think about your kids before returning for your own life purpose.

j*o2012-03-11 08:03

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LOL，有才

【在 y****i 的大作中提到】

: thanks for pointing out. your chinese too.

a*e2012-03-11 08:03

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乏味的人生才会这么早把希望寄托在下一代身上

pressure.
primary

【在 y****i 的大作中提到】

: you work so hard for what? for your kids,right?
: now they have to compete with the whole world to get back to usa to enter
: into ivy league, even when they are 5 years old, they will feel the pressure.
: on the other hand, chinese kids here have much higher chance to enter ivy
: league, plus they have fluent english, friends from kindergarden and primary
: schools, these are network key persons guranteering their future success.
: think about your kids before returning for your own life purpose.

h*i2012-03-11 08:03

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你要为你自己活着。只有绝望的人才会年纪轻轻就把希望寄托在下一代身上，那是因为
他觉得他自己已经没有希望了。

pressure.
primary

【在 y****i 的大作中提到】

: you work so hard for what? for your kids,right?
: now they have to compete with the whole world to get back to usa to enter
: into ivy league, even when they are 5 years old, they will feel the pressure.
: on the other hand, chinese kids here have much higher chance to enter ivy
: league, plus they have fluent english, friends from kindergarden and primary
: schools, these are network key persons guranteering their future success.
: think about your kids before returning for your own life purpose.

T*g2012-03-11 08:03

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I think my kid will be much happier to live in China.
I know happy people and I know how to make people happy.
It has nothing to do with getting into a good university or any similar
criteria.
I know a lot of happy people who graduated from poor schools in China. Some
of them became best friends of me and I learnt a lot from them. Of course,
there are many more unhappy people too. So my efforts should be made on
teaching my kids to become the happy ones instead of the unhappy "successful
" ones.

dn2012-03-11 08:03

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Bring your kids back to China for several summers. Send them to Elementary
school for several weeks. Then ask for their options for moving back and
living in China.

h*e2012-03-11 08:03

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觉得此女是生活不如意，然后把所有的不顺都赖在因为自己在中国长大，所以进不了名
校，所以英语不好，所以没有社交圈，所以现在一塌糊涂。。。于是就非要逼着自己的
孩子留在美国，进名校，变美国人，哎，挺可悲的！