A Friend in Need is a Friend Indeed

Wrote on October 1, 2009:

"She Passed Away”

My mother passed away on Monday afternoon at 1:30PM in Guangzhou time (when it was 12:30AM Monday, 9-28-09 in locat time). I learned it at 10:30AM on Monday after my 8AM class. I took 2 days off and spent Tuesday fasting and meditating, wishing her a smooth journey to join my father who passed away 3 years ago, and wishing for her to forgive me as I could not say goodbye to her and see her off.

She passed away with my two sisters by her side in the hospital, peacefully.

I grew up with her love. How I wish I could have held her hands in my own and let her know that I love her...

Friends reply:

~I am so very sorry to hear about your mom. Your written tribute to her is moving. Even though I never met your mom, I know she was proud of you.

I have been thinking of you and wanting to call. Will talk to you soon.

Love,

KP

~My deep condolence, O.

One thing to keep in mind is that she had good years of living with the children she loved, and I am sure she knew she was loved by her children.

If you want someone to talk to, I'll call you tonight. Let me know the best time to call.

Y

~I'm sorry to hear of your loss, O. Although you were not there when she passed, I'm sure she knows your love and devotion to her.

LM

I'm sorry for your loss. This is a difficult time, so try to treat yourself well, and rejoice that your mom enjoyed a long life.

MN

~Dear O,
I am so very, very sorry for your loss. The loss of a parent is so hard, and I think losing your mother -- if you are a daughter -- is a particular kind of agony that can only be fully understood by those of us who have lost our mothers. I can only imagine how difficult it must have been for you to be so far away, and my heart goes out to you. Take care, O.

MM

Thank you for sharing this tender moment in your life. Your mother must have been a wonderful person to have raised such a kind and talented daughter. I will keep your family in my prayers.

Best of blessings,

TD