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小学该上私立还是公立# Parenting - 为人父母
e*e
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Pre-K的老师说我家小朋友有的时候在学校会daydreaming,按照她的说法应该不是ADHD
,只是课堂上的东西不够challenge, 小朋友会grow out of it。她建议我们继续在这
个私立的学校念上两三年,因为这里的师生比是2:15 (公立学校1:25),所以小朋友
会得到更多的attention,有助于改掉这个注意力不集中的毛病。
但是如果让他上私立,我们经济上会比较紧张,也没有余力上其他的兴趣班。另外我认
为初中和高中更重要一些,需要上私立。可是LD说小学更重要,因为如果小学6年养成
了上课注意力不集中的习惯,以后就很难该过来了。
我现在很犹豫,请有经验的xdjm指点一下。
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B*1
2
His teacher is a really good salesperson.
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a*w
3
你小时候注意力集中吗?你上私立还是公立小学?

ADHD

【在 e******e 的大作中提到】
: Pre-K的老师说我家小朋友有的时候在学校会daydreaming,按照她的说法应该不是ADHD
: ,只是课堂上的东西不够challenge, 小朋友会grow out of it。她建议我们继续在这
: 个私立的学校念上两三年,因为这里的师生比是2:15 (公立学校1:25),所以小朋友
: 会得到更多的attention,有助于改掉这个注意力不集中的毛病。
: 但是如果让他上私立,我们经济上会比较紧张,也没有余力上其他的兴趣班。另外我认
: 为初中和高中更重要一些,需要上私立。可是LD说小学更重要,因为如果小学6年养成
: 了上课注意力不集中的习惯,以后就很难该过来了。
: 我现在很犹豫,请有经验的xdjm指点一下。

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e*e
4
我家小朋友的确有注意力不集中的毛病。我想在家里督促一下应该就可以了,但是真的
害怕他在学校一直都是这样。

【在 B******1 的大作中提到】
: His teacher is a really good salesperson.
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e*e
5
我小时候注意力很集中 :)

【在 a*w 的大作中提到】
: 你小时候注意力集中吗?你上私立还是公立小学?
:
: ADHD

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a*w
6
那你就可以松口气了,因为小孩注意力不集中的毛病可能是从你LD那里
遗传来的。

【在 e******e 的大作中提到】
: 我小时候注意力很集中 :)
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B*1
7
It is a valid concern. However, to cure such a habit does not require
attending a private school. You need to have a specialist to give your son
an evaluation. One of my friend's son has this problem. They did not take it
seriously at first and they did not seek any medical help, either. Now the kid just
daydreams all the time, even during meals. His mind is constantly somewhere
else and it would take an hour and a half to finish a plateful of meals. Even
with therapy, there is not much improvement. He stayed in K for two years.
Of course, the above is the worst-case scenario. My point is that if your
son has similar symptoms, seeking a specialist's help is MUCH BETTER than
enrolling him in a private school.
Therefore, in that regards, private school or public school does not matter.

【在 e******e 的大作中提到】
: 我家小朋友的确有注意力不集中的毛病。我想在家里督促一下应该就可以了,但是真的
: 害怕他在学校一直都是这样。

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T*e
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不知道你们那儿的学区是什么机制。 如果学区很jw的话,当老师提出学生的问题,公
立学校是可以强制要求学生通过检测,如果真的有问题的话,学生的学区记录上会有一
笔, 而这个恰恰是很多亚裔学生家长很在乎的一点。如果小朋友的问题不是很大的话
, 那么先上私立的一两年, 等她grow out of it了之后, 在转到公立学校。 理论上
,公立学校不可以拒绝学生。公立学校师生比例大, 老师不会太pay attention to
specific student。
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a*w
9
这个学区记录会影响他以后上大学吗?

【在 T****e 的大作中提到】
: 不知道你们那儿的学区是什么机制。 如果学区很jw的话,当老师提出学生的问题,公
: 立学校是可以强制要求学生通过检测,如果真的有问题的话,学生的学区记录上会有一
: 笔, 而这个恰恰是很多亚裔学生家长很在乎的一点。如果小朋友的问题不是很大的话
: , 那么先上私立的一两年, 等她grow out of it了之后, 在转到公立学校。 理论上
: ,公立学校不可以拒绝学生。公立学校师生比例大, 老师不会太pay attention to
: specific student。

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e*e
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多谢,很有帮助。你朋友的孩子是ADHD吗?说实话,我曾经怀疑我家孩子是Asperger,
也到儿医那里检查过。但儿医说现在年纪太小,即使去专家那里评估,评估结果也不一
定正确。而且专家只是做个评估,并没有therapy。不知道你你朋友的孩子是怎样找到
therapy的。

it
kid just
somewhere
Even

【在 B******1 的大作中提到】
: It is a valid concern. However, to cure such a habit does not require
: attending a private school. You need to have a specialist to give your son
: an evaluation. One of my friend's son has this problem. They did not take it
: seriously at first and they did not seek any medical help, either. Now the kid just
: daydreams all the time, even during meals. His mind is constantly somewhere
: else and it would take an hour and a half to finish a plateful of meals. Even
: with therapy, there is not much improvement. He stayed in K for two years.
: Of course, the above is the worst-case scenario. My point is that if your
: son has similar symptoms, seeking a specialist's help is MUCH BETTER than
: enrolling him in a private school.

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T*e
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不知道,但是很多家长很在意。 北大说的那个evaluation机制, 如果是公立学校的话
,一定是学校通知学区,然后安排evaluation, 然后根据情况提供个别therapy。 这
些个service都是free的, 但是会在学区留下纪录。 所以有的家长就自己出钱
evaluation, 然后seek for help。 同时把小孩暂时送进private school。 整个过程
很长很复杂。

【在 a*w 的大作中提到】
: 这个学区记录会影响他以后上大学吗?
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B*1
12
Do not know.
But on the other hand, this would be a great subject for the PS essay when applying for college: How to deal with adversity. Assuming the kid grows out of it.

【在 a*w 的大作中提到】
: 这个学区记录会影响他以后上大学吗?
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T*e
13


applying for college: How to deal with adversity. Assuming the kid grows
out of it.

【在 B******1 的大作中提到】
: Do not know.
: But on the other hand, this would be a great subject for the PS essay when applying for college: How to deal with adversity. Assuming the kid grows out of it.

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x*g
14
No. It won't affect. The people seeks to pay out of their own pocket "有的
家长就自己出钱 evaluation" , most likely is because the school refused to do
it, or the school evaluation result is not the one parents want. In order
to qualify the free therapy services, you need an evaluation saying your
kids need help. Due the budget, the school tends to keep the kids' special
need as minimim as possible. But the parents , on the other hands, eager to
get all the help for their kids. It is extrememly important that the extra
help is provided at the early age.
Unless your insurance covers it, it is very expensive to pay the therapy out
of your own pockets, I remember is something like $85/hour, and it could
need 5 speech therapy , and one two PT, one or two OT depending on the kids
every week. So every week, for a light case, can run to $500-600 per week
easily.
Don't worry about if the record will impact him down the road, focus more on
what you can help him to get out of it.
Good luck.

【在 T****e 的大作中提到】
: 不知道,但是很多家长很在意。 北大说的那个evaluation机制, 如果是公立学校的话
: ,一定是学校通知学区,然后安排evaluation, 然后根据情况提供个别therapy。 这
: 些个service都是free的, 但是会在学区留下纪录。 所以有的家长就自己出钱
: evaluation, 然后seek for help。 同时把小孩暂时送进private school。 整个过程
: 很长很复杂。

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e*e
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很有帮助,多谢。我家孩子应该是会被学区忽略的那种,因为他只是daydreaming,没
有影响课堂的行为。去年夏天,他去过公立学校的preschool,老师也提到过
daydreaming(phasing out)的事情,但是也说他会grow out of it。因为他能够soak
up老师讲的东西,和小朋友也玩的来。
这种情况,是不是还是上私立学校会更好一点?

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to
extra
out

【在 x*******g 的大作中提到】
: No. It won't affect. The people seeks to pay out of their own pocket "有的
: 家长就自己出钱 evaluation" , most likely is because the school refused to do
: it, or the school evaluation result is not the one parents want. In order
: to qualify the free therapy services, you need an evaluation saying your
: kids need help. Due the budget, the school tends to keep the kids' special
: need as minimim as possible. But the parents , on the other hands, eager to
: get all the help for their kids. It is extrememly important that the extra
: help is provided at the early age.
: Unless your insurance covers it, it is very expensive to pay the therapy out
: of your own pockets, I remember is something like $85/hour, and it could

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s*2
16
Personal attention at private school is good...
At the same time, not all private schools are better than public schools.
There are some church schools with very easy curriculum, which might make
kids very bored.

【在 e******e 的大作中提到】
: 很有帮助,多谢。我家孩子应该是会被学区忽略的那种,因为他只是daydreaming,没
: 有影响课堂的行为。去年夏天,他去过公立学校的preschool,老师也提到过
: daydreaming(phasing out)的事情,但是也说他会grow out of it。因为他能够soak
: up老师讲的东西,和小朋友也玩的来。
: 这种情况,是不是还是上私立学校会更好一点?
:
: do
: order
: to
: extra

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n*h
17
你说得好吓人啊, 我家孩子就喜欢day dreaming.

it
kid just
somewhere
Even

【在 B******1 的大作中提到】
: It is a valid concern. However, to cure such a habit does not require
: attending a private school. You need to have a specialist to give your son
: an evaluation. One of my friend's son has this problem. They did not take it
: seriously at first and they did not seek any medical help, either. Now the kid just
: daydreams all the time, even during meals. His mind is constantly somewhere
: else and it would take an hour and a half to finish a plateful of meals. Even
: with therapy, there is not much improvement. He stayed in K for two years.
: Of course, the above is the worst-case scenario. My point is that if your
: son has similar symptoms, seeking a specialist's help is MUCH BETTER than
: enrolling him in a private school.

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x*g
18
You can always get a better attention in private school, but the question is
if you can afford it, or how long you can afford it.
It is hard to decide it without seeing your kid. I think the G-k always have
a teacher and assisant teacher?
I hold my kid in private for one year (1:7 ratio), and repeat the G-K but he
felt so bored, and lost more concerntration at the end :-)
Maybe you should register in school and talk to the special education
department. Don't tell them you have option to go to Private, just by
listening to them to see if you feel comfortable.
If at the end, you still can't make up your mind, here is the rule
:-)
1. Nothing can be seriously wrong with either way.(since your kid is just day dreaming, nothig else is wrong)
2. Listen to your husband. So if it didn't work out, you don't have to work
hard correcting it while still bearing your husband's 'what if' complaints.
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e*e
19
多谢。不好意思,什么是 G-k? 你是说在私立上了一年K,然后又到公立上了一年K吗?

is
have
he

【在 x*******g 的大作中提到】
: You can always get a better attention in private school, but the question is
: if you can afford it, or how long you can afford it.
: It is hard to decide it without seeing your kid. I think the G-k always have
: a teacher and assisant teacher?
: I hold my kid in private for one year (1:7 ratio), and repeat the G-K but he
: felt so bored, and lost more concerntration at the end :-)
: Maybe you should register in school and talk to the special education
: department. Don't tell them you have option to go to Private, just by
: listening to them to see if you feel comfortable.
: If at the end, you still can't make up your mind, here is the rule

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x*g
20
G-k, grade -kindergarten. Yes. He was in Private K. The private school
teacher told me that he can go to G-1, but I decided to pull him back one
year (he was Nov birthday). Then in the whole G-K public school, teacher
called me frequently telling me my son is daydreaming, had a short term
memory , and felt bored in the class all the time, blahblah... Then we met
with the principal, since there are no enhancement program for G-K, they
pull him out for enhancement of G-1 and tried to pursuade me to let him jump
to G-2. But I didn't listen.
So keeping him in the private, it may also cause problem since typicall
private has a more advanced curricumlum, so the kid will feel bored when
they switch back to the public. that is what happened on me :-)

【在 e******e 的大作中提到】
: 多谢。不好意思,什么是 G-k? 你是说在私立上了一年K,然后又到公立上了一年K吗?
:
: is
: have
: he

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e*e
21
Many thanks. That is my concern too.

jump

【在 x*******g 的大作中提到】
: G-k, grade -kindergarten. Yes. He was in Private K. The private school
: teacher told me that he can go to G-1, but I decided to pull him back one
: year (he was Nov birthday). Then in the whole G-K public school, teacher
: called me frequently telling me my son is daydreaming, had a short term
: memory , and felt bored in the class all the time, blahblah... Then we met
: with the principal, since there are no enhancement program for G-K, they
: pull him out for enhancement of G-1 and tried to pursuade me to let him jump
: to G-2. But I didn't listen.
: So keeping him in the private, it may also cause problem since typicall
: private has a more advanced curricumlum, so the kid will feel bored when

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T*e
22
家长们还有一个concern是学区evaluate了之后, 会把孩子放到special program里面
,这个就是跟别的有问题的学生一起, 如果自己的孩子问题不是那么严重,那么家长
们都会抗拒,但是如果你要继续使用公立教育系统,那么只能听他们的。这个之前版上
有家长提到过。
那个关于curriculum的concern也是事实。 我曾经听到过day school的校长说private
school的学生在学业方面可能比public school的要behind一点, 当时我很想不通,
一般我们都认为私立学校的学生基本上学业方面会比公立学校的学生厉害。 上面
xingxiang就给解惑了。 lz可以多了解一些学区内公立学校私立学校的信息资料进行比
较, 同时报名, 现在距九月还有一段时间, 也许到时候小朋友的问题不是问题了。
孩子们每天的变化都会出乎大人的意料。 到时候再决定小朋友该去私立还是公立吧!
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D*R
23
你不去联系学区,就不会知道会有什么结果。

【在 e******e 的大作中提到】
: 很有帮助,多谢。我家孩子应该是会被学区忽略的那种,因为他只是daydreaming,没
: 有影响课堂的行为。去年夏天,他去过公立学校的preschool,老师也提到过
: daydreaming(phasing out)的事情,但是也说他会grow out of it。因为他能够soak
: up老师讲的东西,和小朋友也玩的来。
: 这种情况,是不是还是上私立学校会更好一点?
:
: do
: order
: to
: extra

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D*R
24
你可以问一下那个家长是哪个州的,学区这么热情大方的。
学区对你娃进行评估,是要你们家长同意的,结果也是保密不和第三方share的,除非
你们同意。
如果符合特校的要求,会建议你上特校,或者建议你不去,但是去不去随你。
我只听说过学区hold服务,家长使劲fight的,没听过学区非要塞服务,家长躲也躲不
开的。

private


【在 T****e 的大作中提到】
: 家长们还有一个concern是学区evaluate了之后, 会把孩子放到special program里面
: ,这个就是跟别的有问题的学生一起, 如果自己的孩子问题不是那么严重,那么家长
: 们都会抗拒,但是如果你要继续使用公立教育系统,那么只能听他们的。这个之前版上
: 有家长提到过。
: 那个关于curriculum的concern也是事实。 我曾经听到过day school的校长说private
: school的学生在学业方面可能比public school的要behind一点, 当时我很想不通,
: 一般我们都认为私立学校的学生基本上学业方面会比公立学校的学生厉害。 上面
: xingxiang就给解惑了。 lz可以多了解一些学区内公立学校私立学校的信息资料进行比
: 较, 同时报名, 现在距九月还有一段时间, 也许到时候小朋友的问题不是问题了。
: 孩子们每天的变化都会出乎大人的意料。 到时候再决定小朋友该去私立还是公立吧!

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T*e
25
我是说学区的评估, 就是说学区觉得你孩子需要评估的话。 不是说评估之后的
service。
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n*h
26
这要看具体的学区. 比如我有一个老美同事, 孩子在SPECIAL PROGRAM里面. 这个PR
OGRAM在一个很好的小学. 孩子平时在正常班上课, 然后别的孩子放学了,
他们再开小灶. 同事本来住的地方学校不好, 这下到进了好学校. 而且因为他家
远,有校车专门接送,AFTERSCHOOL地钱也省了. 看得我们一堆累进裤腰
带在好区租房子的直羡慕.

private


【在 T****e 的大作中提到】
: 家长们还有一个concern是学区evaluate了之后, 会把孩子放到special program里面
: ,这个就是跟别的有问题的学生一起, 如果自己的孩子问题不是那么严重,那么家长
: 们都会抗拒,但是如果你要继续使用公立教育系统,那么只能听他们的。这个之前版上
: 有家长提到过。
: 那个关于curriculum的concern也是事实。 我曾经听到过day school的校长说private
: school的学生在学业方面可能比public school的要behind一点, 当时我很想不通,
: 一般我们都认为私立学校的学生基本上学业方面会比公立学校的学生厉害。 上面
: xingxiang就给解惑了。 lz可以多了解一些学区内公立学校私立学校的信息资料进行比
: 较, 同时报名, 现在距九月还有一段时间, 也许到时候小朋友的问题不是问题了。
: 孩子们每天的变化都会出乎大人的意料。 到时候再决定小朋友该去私立还是公立吧!

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b*r
27
我也面临跟楼主一样的问题。我孩子的毛病也是在幼儿园经常
daydreaming,不follow instructions。她今年秋天也上K,现在已经报了公校的K。也
有人建议我让她上私立小学。但我目前尚体会不到私校的好处。
孩子目前上的就是私立的蒙校,3-6岁混合班。已经上了半年,但我觉得她在阅读和数
学上进步非常小。据她的老师说,教她的时候她小动作多,东摸摸西摸摸,老师认为如
果她不能安静地坐着听讲,那么她就不ready,因此就不太教她。她以前上普通daycare
,老师都说她聪明。到了蒙校反而negative feedback多了。而且老师还振振有词,我
们崇尚的是个体化教学,不像别的学校一刀切,你坐不定,你就不ready,我们也不
push你。
所以目前我还是倾向于让她上公立。也想听听大家的意见和建议。
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w*9
28
我对私立不是很清楚。但是,由于小孩运动的原因,我带过3个读私立的小孩(都是9岁
左右)20次左右(每次大概90分钟)。其中一个是注意力超级集中的模范,我每次表扬
小孩们都会提她。还有一个注意力偏上。还有一个是注意力在两个队里最差(an
understatement),肯定是有问题的,经常就自己独自跑到一边去了,我根本就没有时
间老盯着她(更不会当众叫她和大部队在一起)。她比赛的时候经常特别分心,好像在
想别的什么。有一个星期表现好,让她当了队长,后来只是好了一点。她的爸爸和我讲
,说是要找个clinic。那个小孩当时已经9岁过3个月了。如果有问题,私立可能也管不
好,还是应该早点想更多的办法去做、争取改变。
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w*t
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回帖的同学们,能不能NICE 一点啊,人家这个问题也不是错误啊
楼主可以考虑一些便宜一点的私立小学
我个人看法是,可以先上公立试试,好的公立还是不容易进去的
私立嘛,不适应公立的话,随时都可以交钱进私立的
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w*9
30

大家只是建议去测试一下吧?已经有两个父母提到daydreaming了。(我接触过不少注
意力不集中的小孩,但是那个字让我只想起上面提的那个小孩。)小孩没有根本的问题
当然最好,否则就要赶紧想办法帮助小孩尽快改善。家长也可以自己做些测试,弄些有
challenge的东西给小孩做,看小孩是否还是注意力集中了。
有个与我老婆很熟悉的人有个极其聪明的小孩。那个小孩在被判定有AD的问题后,被送
进了special program。医生甚至给小孩开了药(但是没有去吃)。那个小孩数学水平
是周围同学们没法比的(竞赛多次得奖)。有几年我都听到她们谈这方面的事,还有那
个小孩做过一些很不寻常的事,不得学校老师喜欢。后来基本上好了。

【在 w********t 的大作中提到】
: 回帖的同学们,能不能NICE 一点啊,人家这个问题也不是错误啊
: 楼主可以考虑一些便宜一点的私立小学
: 我个人看法是,可以先上公立试试,好的公立还是不容易进去的
: 私立嘛,不适应公立的话,随时都可以交钱进私立的

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w*t
31
不是说去私立就一定能把注意力给改善了,这个也要因学生因老师而异的
但一个事实是,我们这里好的私立是2:10-15
最好的那个公立是1:20加个part time 帮手
从理论上来说,如果你的孩子不是很跟着老师,那么公立里面很可能就属于无人管了
不过话说回来,我说的那家最好的公立,好象根本不允许真的差生混
每年的考试据说还刷人的,当然,你如果不是特别差,一般还是不会被刷

【在 w********9 的大作中提到】
: 我对私立不是很清楚。但是,由于小孩运动的原因,我带过3个读私立的小孩(都是9岁
: 左右)20次左右(每次大概90分钟)。其中一个是注意力超级集中的模范,我每次表扬
: 小孩们都会提她。还有一个注意力偏上。还有一个是注意力在两个队里最差(an
: understatement),肯定是有问题的,经常就自己独自跑到一边去了,我根本就没有时
: 间老盯着她(更不会当众叫她和大部队在一起)。她比赛的时候经常特别分心,好像在
: 想别的什么。有一个星期表现好,让她当了队长,后来只是好了一点。她的爸爸和我讲
: ,说是要找个clinic。那个小孩当时已经9岁过3个月了。如果有问题,私立可能也管不
: 好,还是应该早点想更多的办法去做、争取改变。

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t*g
32
我儿子刚离开私立的时候也被吓唬过,说我儿子到公立可能会不适应,各种原因,我还
挺紧张的。是带了我孩子几年的老师的评估。但当时还是图省钱去了公立,结果到目前
好像没发现有什么问题。不过也不知道是确实没问题,还是公立老师压根没操心,所以
也发现不了问题。

ADHD

【在 e******e 的大作中提到】
: Pre-K的老师说我家小朋友有的时候在学校会daydreaming,按照她的说法应该不是ADHD
: ,只是课堂上的东西不够challenge, 小朋友会grow out of it。她建议我们继续在这
: 个私立的学校念上两三年,因为这里的师生比是2:15 (公立学校1:25),所以小朋友
: 会得到更多的attention,有助于改掉这个注意力不集中的毛病。
: 但是如果让他上私立,我们经济上会比较紧张,也没有余力上其他的兴趣班。另外我认
: 为初中和高中更重要一些,需要上私立。可是LD说小学更重要,因为如果小学6年养成
: 了上课注意力不集中的习惯,以后就很难该过来了。
: 我现在很犹豫,请有经验的xdjm指点一下。

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w*9
33

对课堂人数方面有明显差别这点,我还是知道,而我对私立学校的其它一些重要相关细
节不知道。(我去访过三家私立学校。)
公立学校被要求对有special needs的学生给予特别的关照。这些学生通常被称为
special education students。有的会被配有专门的老师,或者被安排专门的(课后)
班。比如,对盲孩,专门的老师会跟着小孩在普通班上课。我的小孩在上K的时候就有
这样一个盲人同学。在我们现在的学区,special students大概接近学生总数的14%。
他们的平均统考表现比整个county的至少10%以上的学校还好,说明里面还是有不少学
业不错的。

【在 w********t 的大作中提到】
: 不是说去私立就一定能把注意力给改善了,这个也要因学生因老师而异的
: 但一个事实是,我们这里好的私立是2:10-15
: 最好的那个公立是1:20加个part time 帮手
: 从理论上来说,如果你的孩子不是很跟着老师,那么公立里面很可能就属于无人管了
: 不过话说回来,我说的那家最好的公立,好象根本不允许真的差生混
: 每年的考试据说还刷人的,当然,你如果不是特别差,一般还是不会被刷

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r*e
34
I am a certified speech therapist, working with pre-school and school-aged
kids.
First of all, "daydreaming" could be something trivial that the kid will
simply outgrow it. BUT, it could also mean short attention span, impaired
short-term memory, or even worse, a learning disability, that will affect
the kid in the long run. Without a full evaluation, nobody can tell the
nature of the problem. Entering a private school doesn't solve the problem.
As a matter of fact, public schools have far more funding resource than
private ones in terms of special education programs.
Second, you can request a full evaluation from your public school district,
whether the kid is attending the school or not. Once a request is made, the
school district has to act within a certain period of time. Then you can
make a decision based on the results. But sometimes if the kid is too young
(younger than 4 or 5), the result of the evaluation may not be very reliable
.
Third, if it turns out that your kid needs and is eligible for free
intervention service, by all means you should go for it. At this time,
worrying about having the record of special intervention should not be a
concern that stops you from seeking professional help. The earlier the
intervention, the better the outcome. I highly doubt that intervention
record at such an young age would have any negative impact on his/her career
/college admission later on.
In addition to the free evaluation/service that you could get from your
school district you can also look into your insurance company and find out
if they are willing to reimburse portions private therapies.
Good luck with everything!

ADHD

【在 e******e 的大作中提到】
: Pre-K的老师说我家小朋友有的时候在学校会daydreaming,按照她的说法应该不是ADHD
: ,只是课堂上的东西不够challenge, 小朋友会grow out of it。她建议我们继续在这
: 个私立的学校念上两三年,因为这里的师生比是2:15 (公立学校1:25),所以小朋友
: 会得到更多的attention,有助于改掉这个注意力不集中的毛病。
: 但是如果让他上私立,我们经济上会比较紧张,也没有余力上其他的兴趣班。另外我认
: 为初中和高中更重要一些,需要上私立。可是LD说小学更重要,因为如果小学6年养成
: 了上课注意力不集中的习惯,以后就很难该过来了。
: 我现在很犹豫,请有经验的xdjm指点一下。

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B*1
35
Very good post. Thanks!

.
,

【在 r*******e 的大作中提到】
: I am a certified speech therapist, working with pre-school and school-aged
: kids.
: First of all, "daydreaming" could be something trivial that the kid will
: simply outgrow it. BUT, it could also mean short attention span, impaired
: short-term memory, or even worse, a learning disability, that will affect
: the kid in the long run. Without a full evaluation, nobody can tell the
: nature of the problem. Entering a private school doesn't solve the problem.
: As a matter of fact, public schools have far more funding resource than
: private ones in terms of special education programs.
: Second, you can request a full evaluation from your public school district,

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j*1
36
Got to say it, very concise and professional writing here. Highly
informative.
Beida101, you've got a match here : )

.
,

【在 r*******e 的大作中提到】
: I am a certified speech therapist, working with pre-school and school-aged
: kids.
: First of all, "daydreaming" could be something trivial that the kid will
: simply outgrow it. BUT, it could also mean short attention span, impaired
: short-term memory, or even worse, a learning disability, that will affect
: the kid in the long run. Without a full evaluation, nobody can tell the
: nature of the problem. Entering a private school doesn't solve the problem.
: As a matter of fact, public schools have far more funding resource than
: private ones in terms of special education programs.
: Second, you can request a full evaluation from your public school district,

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j*1
37
Don't worry about 兴趣班 if money is a concern for now. It doesn't matter
whether or not he can play piano or draw at age 4. He can always pick them
up a few years later.

ADHD

【在 e******e 的大作中提到】
: Pre-K的老师说我家小朋友有的时候在学校会daydreaming,按照她的说法应该不是ADHD
: ,只是课堂上的东西不够challenge, 小朋友会grow out of it。她建议我们继续在这
: 个私立的学校念上两三年,因为这里的师生比是2:15 (公立学校1:25),所以小朋友
: 会得到更多的attention,有助于改掉这个注意力不集中的毛病。
: 但是如果让他上私立,我们经济上会比较紧张,也没有余力上其他的兴趣班。另外我认
: 为初中和高中更重要一些,需要上私立。可是LD说小学更重要,因为如果小学6年养成
: 了上课注意力不集中的习惯,以后就很难该过来了。
: 我现在很犹豫,请有经验的xdjm指点一下。

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D*R
38
很多物美价廉的集体课也有这个作用。
我娃上的gym和舞蹈课,都是同时教孩子follow老师指令的,集体行动,个别指导相结
合,找个理想的老师很有帮助。
舞蹈课6次课才89,gym课一个月四次课91,稍微贵一点。

【在 j*****1 的大作中提到】
: Don't worry about 兴趣班 if money is a concern for now. It doesn't matter
: whether or not he can play piano or draw at age 4. He can always pick them
: up a few years later.
:
: ADHD

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e*e
39
受益非浅,万分感谢

.
,

【在 r*******e 的大作中提到】
: I am a certified speech therapist, working with pre-school and school-aged
: kids.
: First of all, "daydreaming" could be something trivial that the kid will
: simply outgrow it. BUT, it could also mean short attention span, impaired
: short-term memory, or even worse, a learning disability, that will affect
: the kid in the long run. Without a full evaluation, nobody can tell the
: nature of the problem. Entering a private school doesn't solve the problem.
: As a matter of fact, public schools have far more funding resource than
: private ones in terms of special education programs.
: Second, you can request a full evaluation from your public school district,

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H*H
40
这个注意力的问题我觉得很值得商榷。我小时候上兴趣班是家长陪着去的。我妈当时说
看我老在看桌子底下搞小动作,但是老师叫我回答问题什么的我又能答上来。其实我当
时根本就没开小差。只是听课靠的是听,不是非得盯着老师看的。反倒是上了中学,总
是一边盯着老师看一边走神。所以这个daydreaming有可能根本不是问题。还是请专家
评估一下算了。另外你也可以自己参与一下孩子的课堂或评估看看是不是我说的这种情
况。
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