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4 years old, frequent pee accident in preschool

4 years old, frequent pee accident in preschool# Parenting - 为人父母

r*L2014-11-15 08:11

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My four years old daughter, does well at home, can always tell us whenever
pee or poo, but doesn't talk in school to the teacher, has been in the new
school for more than 3 weeks, in another school for 3 months, but only half
day for the first two months, the same problem, and was worse there even,
since she didn't sleep at noon, and didn't tell teacher either. What I can
do to help her.
She also doesn't speak much in the class.Any suggestions?

x*t2014-11-15 08:11

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我女儿曾经有一段时间也是这样，老师认为她是ask for attention。后来也尽量多给
attention。过了一段时间好了。你要不听听老师的意见？

s*l2014-11-15 08:11

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娃会说英文吗？

half

【在 r*******L 的大作中提到】

: My four years old daughter, does well at home, can always tell us whenever
: pee or poo, but doesn't talk in school to the teacher, has been in the new
: school for more than 3 weeks, in another school for 3 months, but only half
: day for the first two months, the same problem, and was worse there even,
: since she didn't sleep at noon, and didn't tell teacher either. What I can
: do to help her.
: She also doesn't speak much in the class.Any suggestions?

B*y2014-11-15 08:11

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新环境，小女孩内向敏感些，觉得紧张，正常的。
穿pull up吧，适应一段时间。
可以和老师沟通一下，让她不用太刻意地提醒孩子定时上厕所。
小朋友英文怎么样，可以简单表达么？
我记得儿子班里的墙上挂的牌子，
不同举手标识示意，＂有问题、上厕所、喝水……＂
你的女儿老师是怎么鼓励他们表达自己的要求?

r*L2014-11-15 08:11

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I don't know if I should go to see the doctor or not, her issue is not talk
and not tell the teacher.
When we are there, she tell us, then we lead her back to the restroom in
their class. Don't know if I each time tell her to tell the teacher and go
to pee while when we are there, if that can help her get used to that?

s*l2014-11-15 08:11

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为啥不说？因为不自信，为啥不自信？这个原因就要你们做父母的
分析分析了。光给现象不要指望大家是神仙，能帮你解决问题。

talk

【在 r*******L 的大作中提到】

: I don't know if I should go to see the doctor or not, her issue is not talk
: and not tell the teacher.
: When we are there, she tell us, then we lead her back to the restroom in
: their class. Don't know if I each time tell her to tell the teacher and go
: to pee while when we are there, if that can help her get used to that?

a*g2014-11-15 08:11

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We kept vising and vising doctors for similar issues. Finally found a very
good register nurse and she really helped out.
The root cause is anxiety. She provided a few ways that really help.
Keep seeing a doctor until you can find a good one. My personal feeling is
about 10% of them are really good, another 10% are good. The rest do not
really make a difference.
Today we visited a second doctor of the same type. That makes a huge
difference at least in explaining what are root causes, and what solutions
are recommended and why. The previous doctor just said this maybe due to
allergy, not so confident, and the nothing she can do about it. The current
one could explain pretty well why and why not this is due to allergy, how to
check and what to do to mitigate, and what are the trial-on-error treatment
plan ....

talk

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r*L2014-11-15 08:11

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Really? I got to check too. We have been so frustrated for a long time, and
couldn't figure out a good way to encourage her better.

【在 a****g 的大作中提到】

: We kept vising and vising doctors for similar issues. Finally found a very
: good register nurse and she really helped out.
: The root cause is anxiety. She provided a few ways that really help.
: Keep seeing a doctor until you can find a good one. My personal feeling is
: about 10% of them are really good, another 10% are good. The rest do not
: really make a difference.
: Today we visited a second doctor of the same type. That makes a huge
: difference at least in explaining what are root causes, and what solutions
: are recommended and why. The previous doctor just said this maybe due to
: allergy, not so confident, and the nothing she can do about it. The current

a*g2014-11-15 08:11

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For the single similar issue, we had been spending over a year before
finally getting a real solution from a good nurse. She explained everything
well, and the solution worked.
To find a good specialist is an art here. Sometimes it really depends on
luck.The only thing we can do is to keep trying google word-over-mouth
recommendation etc

and

【在 r*******L 的大作中提到】

: Really? I got to check too. We have been so frustrated for a long time, and
: couldn't figure out a good way to encourage her better.

r*L2014-11-15 08:11

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What's her solution? Is that very complicated? Or depends on each child?

everything

【在 a****g 的大作中提到】

: For the single similar issue, we had been spending over a year before
: finally getting a real solution from a good nurse. She explained everything
: well, and the solution worked.
: To find a good specialist is an art here. Sometimes it really depends on
: luck.The only thing we can do is to keep trying google word-over-mouth
: recommendation etc
:
: and

v*d2014-11-15 08:11

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是娃不敢说而已。我们家4岁也这么干过，后来换个宽松环境的学校，就没事了

w*72014-11-15 08:11

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有一种可能性是娃不好意思说。你让她想pee了自己起身去potty，老师就会明白了（事
先跟老师沟通好）。另外让老师定时上午叫一次下午叫一次，变成routine了她胆子就
会大一些了。

r*L2014-11-15 08:11

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他们preschool上下午老师都会一起让他们上次厕所的，只是我女儿要是时间跟别人不
一样，她自己就不敢讲，厕所就在教室里，离他们很近，她就是不敢说也不自己去，在
家怎么鼓励，去了学校还是一个样，但愿时间长点能好点儿吧。老师对他们也很nice，
可是她就不敢，一次坐在老师腿上一起玩的时候她就拉裤子了。在家从来没问题啊，很
久了一次accident都没有过了。我没办法，送了她老师一个礼卡，只能请她老师特地
多提醒她几次了。有了accident也不会抱怨给我们做家长的太多。
她在老师一起教课的时候也不吭声的，以前那个学校，上了一个月整天的，上课时其他
小朋友大声跟着老师念，她就看着，回到家呱啦呱啦，英语也一串串的，都是在学校里
学到的，我们在家里不说英语的，只是教她点而已。现在好像说话多些了，跟小朋友也
玩的多了。以前那个学校都没有几个合适年纪的小朋友，那个班从2岁到4岁都有。人也
多，老师都顾不上她似的。