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e*e2005-07-26 07:07

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Could people on the board recommend some books about dealing with difficult
people? Such as a non-cooperative colleague who always tries to embarrass you,
or a classmate who degraces you in public? need some smart ways to fight back
.

a*e2005-07-26 07:07

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Many self-helping books related to relationships discuss this, it is all about
setting limits.
You can be modest and nice, but this doesn't mean you are a lamb whom others
pour shits on.
good luck!

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: Could people on the board recommend some books about dealing with difficult
: people? Such as a non-cooperative colleague who always tries to embarrass you,
: or a classmate who degraces you in public? need some smart ways to fight back
: .

r*s2005-07-26 07:07

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http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=how+to+deal+with+difficult+people&btnG=
Google+Search
Some of them are pretty good. There is also a popular book:
Author Brinkman, Rick
Title How to deal with difficult people : video workbook / Rick Brinkma
n and Rich Kirschner
Publish info Boulder, CO : CareerTrack Publications, c1992
There are videos too.
good luck! And come back and tell us how it worked.

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Y*d2005-07-26 07:07

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Be cool and ignore him.
不在乎他,慢慢他就觉得没意思了.
或者漫不经心的说:你怎么这么无聊? 建议找点事做.
你越敏感,他越觉得逗你有意思.

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b*g2005-07-26 07:07

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Openly Aggressive People
Stand up to them, but don't fight. Overly aggressive people expect others to
either run away from them or react with rage. Your goal is simply to
assertively express your own views, not try to win a battle of right and wrong
.
First, wait for the person to run out of some steam. Then call the person by
name and assert your own opinions with confidence.
Snipers
Difficult people are experts at taking potshots and making sneak attacks in
subtle ways, such as humorous put-do

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