Counter offer - immediate green card and beats the other one (GC after one year, but not guaranteed) for base salary. Companies are comparable, maybe the new one is a little bit better. 怕接了counter offer 后任人宰割 ==! 毕竟伤了关系... btw, I already accepted the new offer. Pls experienced ppls suggest, thx!
N*f
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【 以下文字转载自 WeddingBells 讨论区 】 发信人: NWWolf (西北の狼), 信区: WeddingBells 标 题: [婚版征文]老夫老妻那一刻 发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Apr 10 15:15:47 2011, 美东) 说起“那一刻”,诸位的回忆往往都是夫唱妇随(or more likely,妇唱夫随), 同心协力营造完美典礼。俺们老夫老妻那一刻,说来惭愧,几乎是俺家老妻一 手包办,老夫只是遵嘱按时到场履任而已,真正做了一回甩手掌柜。 想当初,老子的队伍还没开张,别说十几个人、七八条枪,连俺自己也还在本 系某教授麾下做个靠天吃饭的小小RA,说不准哪天上面有个风吹草动就断了财 源。那年暑假,本来已经和老妻商定七月策划、八月举事,老板忽然一纸令下, 派俺去州府混迹两个半月。这五斗好米,对俺来说意义重大,无论前途、钱途; 于是举事之期只好推至秋后。更重要的是,整个婚礼筹划顿时成了老妻责任, 因为那年头还没有www可用,远程遥控根本无法操作。 话说俺家老妻生得娇小玲珑,那时常被人误认为teenager,行为举止也和相貌 十分般配,吃个parking ticket还要拉着俺一起去学校交罚款。不过婚礼大事, 势在必行;老妻当时已经搬进了俺们新买的小窝,若不从速在教堂订个日子, 她那边的七大姑八大舅和各路叔公姨婆决不认可。而到俺开拔州府之前,俺们 只是选好个教堂,加上maid of honor和best man已有现成人选,其它一切都 在未定之天,只好留给老妻勉为其难,绝对属于赶鸭子上架。 于是俺拍拍屁股一走了之,老妻这边连日紧锣密鼓,每天晚间例行电话会议总 少不了相关内容: “I got Mrs. A to play the organ, Miss B to sing 'Lord's Prayer,' and Little Cousin C to be the flower girl; what do you think?” “Sounds good to me.”俺心说:反正这几位俺一个也没见过。 “We can have the bride's maids' dresses in either pink or lavender; which color do you prefer?” “Either one will be fine to me.”俺心说:您老没拿俺当色盲就算瞧得起俺;至 于咨询,呵呵,咱们还是有点自知之明为好。 “About the florists…” “Whichever one you think is the best.”俺心说:您老跟个大老爷们探讨flower arrangement,岂不是缘木求鱼? “And the wedding cake…” “Up to you.”俺心说:这蛋糕命题实在不比插花问题sexy多少。 “What about the food for the reception? How about half Chinese, half Italian?” “You make the call; I'm with ya all the way.”俺心说:吃啥不是一个吃? “Oh and, I've got the perfect ring for you. While I was at it, I also picked one for you to give me at the wedding, hee hee.”哈哈,俺心说: 走之前早该手书六个大字交给老妻保存:你办事,我放心。 终于有一天,老妻欢天喜地送来捷报:“It's all set, and I already asked everybody; they have all set aside that day for our wedding. Am I good or what?” 看她老人家信心十足、踌躇满志,俺忽然想起伟大领袖毛主席的谆谆教导:“我 们应该谦虚谨慎、戒骄戒躁”,决定适时给她敲敲警钟。 “Everybody? Are you sure? Did you check with Uncle D and Aunt E?” “Yep.” “Cousin F? Pastor G? Dr. H?” “Yep, yep, and yep.” “But but but…there is one important person you haven't checked with yet. We've got to make sure he can make it on that day.” “WHO?”隔着电话线,俺也看得见老妻满面惊讶,眉毛扬起三寸多高,一双秀眼 瞪得铜铃一般。 “Me!”
【在 M***e 的大作中提到】 : Counter offer - immediate green card and beats the other one (GC after one : year, but not guaranteed) for base salary. Companies are comparable, maybe : the new one is a little bit better. : 怕接了counter offer 后任人宰割 ==! 毕竟伤了关系... : btw, I already accepted the new offer. : Pls experienced ppls suggest, thx!
GC takes 5 years or more. Go for the best job offer.
【在 M***e 的大作中提到】 : Counter offer - immediate green card and beats the other one (GC after one : year, but not guaranteed) for base salary. Companies are comparable, maybe : the new one is a little bit better. : 怕接了counter offer 后任人宰割 ==! 毕竟伤了关系... : btw, I already accepted the new offer. : Pls experienced ppls suggest, thx!
N*f
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Hey, no fair!
【在 m*******o 的大作中提到】 : 可爱的老妻,可恶的老夫
x*g
28 楼
再重新想想当初为啥打算找工作走人来着?
【在 M***e 的大作中提到】 : Counter offer - immediate green card and beats the other one (GC after one : year, but not guaranteed) for base salary. Companies are comparable, maybe : the new one is a little bit better. : 怕接了counter offer 后任人宰割 ==! 毕竟伤了关系... : btw, I already accepted the new offer. : Pls experienced ppls suggest, thx!