Bible写的很好,赞。我也这么感觉 如果老板给力,可以积极向上一下,回信写一句 Yes, see you at 8:20即可。 废话不要多说(你的败笔就在于多说了一句“废话”,给人把柄) 如果老板完全不管你死活,你鸟他/她作甚?拍马屁表忠心的事情随你的心情。 至于manager,你算客气了,换成我就直接跟他说F*** off,he pays you too much!! 另外,manager是怎么知道你邮件里面写了那句狗尾续貂多余的废话的??是不是都cc 了一通,所以惹上这种无关的是非
Second this! The manager is definitely a good person! He/She told LZ what the boss might be feeling of LZ's attitude. In addition, he told LZ what would have been a better way to respond to the boss's demand (--yes, it was a demand). Judging from the manager, the boss is not a bad one. Way to go, LZ.
http://www.cilawgroup.com/news/2012/10/24/visa-bulletin-predict EB-2 China and EB-2 India. Unlike last year, where these two categories were anticipated to move forward dramatically, unfortunately, EB-2 for China and India are expected to move very slowly. Specifically, Mr. Oppenheim indicated that he expects EB-2 China to move forward by approximately 2 weeks in every month’s visa bulletin with a possible target of cutoff date somewhere in the second half of 2008 by the end of the fiscal year ( September 30, 2013).
s*0
43 楼
There is a 15-minute rule when it comes to waiting for people. When someone is late for an appointment, you wait for 15 minutes, and if he doesn't show up, you can just leave. He owes you an apology! You boss obviously does not respect people -- yes you are one of his employees. But that doesn't mean he can just be disrespectful, expecting you to show up with such short notice and then standing you up! 'I will take a cab!' Come on -- it's not even for the presentation! If your boss bears a grudge ever because you are late once or twice for his meetings (key words -- short notice), you might as well look for another gig elsewhere! Good luck.
t*1
44 楼
靠,2周。。。08pd就根那帮07错过大潮的一样悲催
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【在 P**********y 的大作中提到】 : http://www.cilawgroup.com/news/2012/10/24/visa-bulletin-predict : EB-2 China and EB-2 India. Unlike last year, where these two categories : were anticipated to move forward dramatically, unfortunately, EB-2 for China : and India are expected to move very slowly. Specifically, Mr. Oppenheim : indicated that he expects EB-2 China to move forward by approximately 2 : weeks in every month’s visa bulletin with a possible target of cutoff date : somewhere in the second half of 2008 by the end of the fiscal year ( : September 30, 2013).
w*y
45 楼
Personally, I think that the manager is a good person. No matter what exactly the words he used, he was trying to help you. As a young people have not experienced a lot in career, you definitely need this kind of advice. If you do not know how to collect/take this kind of advice in your career path, you won't succeed. Do not take it badly.
【在 P**********y 的大作中提到】 : http://www.cilawgroup.com/news/2012/10/24/visa-bulletin-predict : EB-2 China and EB-2 India. Unlike last year, where these two categories : were anticipated to move forward dramatically, unfortunately, EB-2 for China : and India are expected to move very slowly. Specifically, Mr. Oppenheim : indicated that he expects EB-2 China to move forward by approximately 2 : weeks in every month’s visa bulletin with a possible target of cutoff date : somewhere in the second half of 2008 by the end of the fiscal year ( : September 30, 2013).
【在 s*******0 的大作中提到】 : There is a 15-minute rule when it comes to waiting for people. When someone : is late for an appointment, you wait for 15 minutes, and if he doesn't show : up, you can just leave. He owes you an apology! : You boss obviously does not respect people -- yes you are one of his : employees. But that doesn't mean he can just be disrespectful, expecting you : to show up with such short notice and then standing you up! : 'I will take a cab!' Come on -- it's not even for the presentation! If your : boss bears a grudge ever because you are late once or twice for his meetings : (key words -- short notice), you might as well look for another gig : elsewhere!
c*t
50 楼
唉,EB就是新时代的排华法案!
l*1
51 楼
LZ was fault from you already knew that 我们实验室很大,老板平时找人谈话开会都是email通知,常常做不到提前 24小时。 so why not pop3 linked your smart phone likes iphone 5 to your office mail account, then before you close your eyes and open your eyes lastly and firstly check your mail Inbox. then plus LZ knew that 上周五 you 要做一个比较重要的报告 before that week beginning, you should put your Android phone or iphone POP3 linked to your office mail account.
that is horrible >>manager是怎么知道你邮件里面写了那句狗尾续貂多余的废话的??是不是都cc 了一通,所以惹上这种无关的是非 LZ seems didn't know some basic mail BCC/CC rules, for any mail sent to outside collaborator must BCC No. one boss but never sent to No. 1 boss mail CC/BCC No. 2 co-PI or lab manager or outside collaborator except that is group mail btw, who is LZ her/his No. one mentor? sometimes s/he forgot it?
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【在 a*********0 的大作中提到】 : Bible写的很好,赞。我也这么感觉 : 如果老板给力,可以积极向上一下,回信写一句 Yes, see you at 8:20即可。 : 废话不要多说(你的败笔就在于多说了一句“废话”,给人把柄) : 如果老板完全不管你死活,你鸟他/她作甚?拍马屁表忠心的事情随你的心情。 : 至于manager,你算客气了,换成我就直接跟他说F*** off,he pays you too much!! : 另外,manager是怎么知道你邮件里面写了那句狗尾续貂多余的废话的??是不是都cc : 了一通,所以惹上这种无关的是非
我觉得manager也不一定是说真的让LZ take cab, 那个应该只是字面意思而已。应该 是强调准时到的意思吧,而且这样也表达了LZ的积极性。
K*S
58 楼
周四早上我一早起查邮箱,果然不出所料,老板让我8点20去他办公室见面谈怎么改我 的slides。 It sounds like you knew your boss's style already. In this case, I would check emails a little bit earlier on that day or come in early on those 2 days if the presentation is really that important. Personally, I think lab manager's intention is good. We all need to be more articulate when writing such emails.
【在 l**********1 的大作中提到】 : LZ was fault : from : you already knew that : 我们实验室很大,老板平时找人谈话开会都是email通知,常常做不到提前 : 24小时。 : so why not pop3 linked your smart phone likes iphone 5 to your office mail : account, then before you close your eyes and open your eyes lastly and : firstly check your mail Inbox. : then plus LZ knew that : 上周五 you 要做一个比较重要的报告
【在 N********n 的大作中提到】 : 你真是弱暴了, 纽约?? 直接回他一句:my paycheck can not afford the cab. : 强调MY
r*o
63 楼
The lab manager is a good guy. He was teaching you how to complain positively. It doesn't mean you literally need to take a cab. Your email is a typical negative complain.
l*s
64 楼
不好意思 没看明白。。。
【在 l**********1 的大作中提到】 : that is horrible : >>manager是怎么知道你邮件里面写了那句狗尾续貂多余的废话的??是不是都cc : 了一通,所以惹上这种无关的是非 : LZ seems didn't know some basic mail BCC/CC rules, : for any mail sent to outside collaborator must BCC No. one boss : but never sent to No. 1 boss mail CC/BCC No. 2 co-PI or lab manager : or outside collaborator except that is group mail : btw, who is LZ her/his No. one mentor? sometimes s/he forgot it? : : cc
这个观点很不错,非常正面,可是读来读去很难从楼主的原文读出来。。 “刚才跟manager开会,快完的时候他提到了这件事,主要是关于我的email回复。他说, 他读了我的email,感觉就是我不够积极,能来我就来,来不了就拉倒的感觉。他说换 作他的话,他会回复说,I'll take a cab! 就是拚了命也要在8点20前赶到的意思。我 ” manager明说了是literally need to take a cab,你觉着呢? 再读几遍看看?
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【在 r***o 的大作中提到】 : The lab manager is a good guy. He was teaching you how to complain : positively. It doesn't mean you literally need to take a cab. Your email : is a typical negative complain.