每日原则：不要错将批评当成斥责

批评有利于一个人的进步，而斥责是一种惩罚，可能会损害到一个人的进步。有效的批评是以冷静的方式表达，来让对方进行思考，但惩罚意味着伤害对方。由于这二者可能被混淆，所以当作出或接受批评时最好向对方解释自己是在做什么，而且只有在对方也同意接受的前提下才去做。

Criticism is helpful to one’s learning while scolding is a punishment that can hurt one’slearning. Good criticisms are calmly presented for the person who is receivingthem to consider while punishments are meant to hurt the person. Because theycan be confused, when providing or receiving criticisms it’s best to do that byexplaining what one is doing and to do it only if there is a reciprocal agreement for it to be provided.