爱的反面

爱的反面

 

爱的反面不是恨，不是敌人，而是匮乏。

乏平和，乏喜乐，乏安全感。

 

一个人如何给你他没有的东西？

而你又如何给他你没有的东西？

 

爱是连接， 爱的反面是撤回连接。

爱是投入，爱的反面是拒绝投入。

 

爱是供给，是维系。

爱的反面是掐断，是放弃。

 

爱是完整，爱的反面是破碎。

爱是甘愿，爱的反面是计较和抱怨。

 

爱是温和，是谦卑，是从不轻易发怒。

爱的反面是以上行为反面的总和。

 

爱是投进黑暗的那道光。

此时你若在黑暗中痛苦，

去寻光进来的地方。

 

爱是落入旱地的那阵雨。

此时你若在干旱中挣扎，

去找爱开始的地方。

 

 

The opposite of love

 

The opposite of love is not hate, not enemy, but lack,

Lack of peace, lack of joy, lack of security

 

How could a person offer you things that he doesn’t have?

And how could you offer him things that you don’t have?

 

love is connect, the opposite of love is disconnect

love is invest, the opposite of love is withdrawl

 

love is to provide and sustain,

the opposite of love is cutting off and giving up

 

love is complete, the opposite of love is broken

love is willing, the opposite of love is compare, and complain

 

love is gentle, love is humble, love is slow to anger

the opposite of love is the opposite doing of the above

 

love is light shines in the darkness,

if you suffer, find the way where lights coming in

 

love is raindrops fall into dryland

if you struggle, find the source where love begins.