I hope that I won't be blamed by using English to express my thought.
LZ makes me to think of a cartoon from The New Yorker Magazine:
One Penguin mom is telling her baby penguin:"darling, remember that you are
UNIQUE.... just like every one else."
It is so true that everyone is unique and lonely. But there is "nothing new
under the Sun", said in the Bible. I struggled with my faith for a long time
, and accepted it just because that I need it, for both psychological needs
and spiritual needs.
It does not fix all the problems, but it helps a lot. Best luck of your own
journey of pursuit, happiness, family, kids, career, etc. Something that we
value but not know very well since we take most of them for granted.