哈佛大学：内心真正强大之人的十个特质

Being firm in your belief yet be flexible enough to change when proven wrong.

对于自己的信念固执而又坚定，但在被证明是错误的时候，也有足够的灵活性去做出改变和调整。

Being aware and cautious yet not giving a damn to everything that crosses my way.

对周围事物保持敏感和谨慎，但没有任何人、事、物可以霸占你的内心，使你裹足不前。

Being calm in calamity and a cracker in celebration.

在困境面前能保持冷静，在欢庆中能引爆全场。

Being experienced like your grandfather yet energetic like a child.

可以像你的爷爷一样阅历丰富，也可以像孩子般精力充沛。

Being well read though knowing you still know nothing.

读了很多书，但内心知道比起浩瀚的知识海洋，自己还是一无所知，永不满足。

Being intelligent with a strong memory yet deleting all the trash and negativity.

敏而好学，有很好的记忆力，但又懂得取舍，删除所有的垃圾信息和负面情绪。

Being able to observe and learn from others’ mistakes yet not fearing to make my own.

能够从别人的错误中观察和学习，但也不害怕犯自己的错误。

Being the one that all look up to yet not looking down upon them.

成为大家都愿意追随的领导者，但也从不轻视任何一个人，能跟他们和睦相处。

Being able to help others yet making provisions for your own self.

有能力帮助别人，但也会为自己争得应有的回报。

Being able to accept defeat with grace yet not resting a moment to achieve success once again.

能够从容优雅地接受失败，但同时也会片刻不停地去再次尝试获得成功。