精读丨你真的会积极倾听吗？我不信
如何修炼一种“积极的倾听”
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The Art of Active Listening
As a culture, we treat listening as an automatic process about which there is not a lot to say: in the same category as digestion, or blinking. When the concept of listening is addressed at any length, it is in the context of professional communication; something to be honed by leaders and mentors, but a specialisation that everyone else can happily ignore. This neglect is a shame. Listening well, it took me too long to discover, is a sort of magic trick: both parties soften, blossom, they are less alone.
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参考译文
积极倾听的艺术
作为一种文化，我们把倾听视为一种不需要深究的自动过程：与消化或眨眼同属一类。当倾听这一概念被具体讨论时，它常与职业交际联系起来；只有领导者和导师才需要培养此项技能，而其他普通人可以愉快地忽略这一专长。这种疏忽令人惋惜。我花了很长时间才发现，良好的倾听具有魔力：它使对话双方都变得柔和，使之相互成长，不再孤独。
重点词汇
at any length 详细地（用于否定句）
○ in a full or complete way — used in negative statements
○ e.g. The book doesn't discuss the topic at any length. 这本书没有详细地讨论这个话题。
hone /həʊn/ v. 磨炼，训练，提高（技艺）
○ to improve your skill at doing something, especially when you are already very good at it
○ e.g. He set about honing his skills as a draughtsman. 他着手提高自己的绘画技艺。
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