APAD: Accident of Birth

Meaning: the consequence of the circumstances into which a person is born.

 

For example, a prince will probably have a different life to a pauper or an

Inuit to a Kalahari bushman. The term may also be applied to some innate talent

that a person has by virtue of the DNA they inherited from their parents. For

example, "LeBron James's success at basketball was, in part, due to the accident

of birth of growing to 6 feet, 8 inches tall".

 

    - Gary Martin, https://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/accident-of-birth.html

    

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The inner debate of nature-vs-nurture in rationalizing my own successes and

failures was a perennial waste of time. It invaribly led to hubris, self-pity,

or paralyzing fear. For me, it's better to focus on one thing at a time without

obsessing about the big picture, the past, the future, or even current

circumstances. As Zen teaches: "When cutting the onion, just cut the onion."

Accept ourselves and believe everything we have is the best

It's a lesson we have to learn throughout our lives.

觉得这是一个哲学问题。e.g. I started at about age 7 to ask myself

this question: why I'm in this body, not some other one?

still don't know the answer today, but have accepted my fate

the question had been bothering me for many years ...

Ditto and I finally gave up trying to figure it out :-)))

Yes. After many dangers, toils, and snares. I enjoy growing.

赞， 不仅学习了 new proverb。还学习了新词。

perennial waste of time， hubris, paralyzing fear.

"When cutting the onion, just cut the onion". Good one.

Thanks. It’s learning for me, too.

我有几次切菜切破手都是因为脑子里在想乱七八糟的东西。

learned that from Michael Pollan, a food writer.

Good to know I was not alone:-))

很多人只赞扬Trump很年轻就取得巨大成就，没有提他爹直接贷给他1M启动资金，其实他爹还是时代的开创者创造了地产大环境

都是拍马屁的:-))) 好像中国也有领导人子女自称白手起家，自力更生的.

The west accuse the Chinese of atavism.