这届毕业生的论文致谢里，都写了谁的名字？
随着毕业季的到来，不少毕业生纷纷在社交媒体上晒出自己的论文致谢。他们表示，论文致谢是整篇论文里最“柔软”的部分，“没有技巧全是感情”。
除了感谢亲友、老师、学校外，这届大学生还感谢了自己的恋人，电脑，拿铁，一顿美食，晚霞，大树，甚至是猫咪小狗，还有人感谢自己的饱受摧残依然健在的头发……
中国日报采访了几位即将毕业离校的大学生，来看看他们花样致谢的背后，有哪些美好的青春故事？
Apart from teachers and parents, college graduates have taken the opportunity to thank unconventional things and people at their graduation dissertation, such as a pet, music, coffee, their computer, idols or loved ones, and even their hair, which has stood strong despite many sleepless nights.
They said the acknowledgement is the “softest” part of the thesis and they want to express their most genuine feelings with no writing skills used.
“我爱你，我爱你的梨花带雨，
也爱你的明眸忧愁”
22岁的周一翔是北京语言大学2019级英西复语专业的学生。在他的论文致谢里，很大的篇幅给了他的女朋友彭梓瑶，虽然他们真正“在一起”的时间只有一天。
During his studies, Zhou Yixiang, a senior undergraduate student at Beijing Language and Culture University, expressed gratitude towards his girlfriend, despite having only spent a single day with her.
周一翔
周一翔写道：
最后，我想要衷心地感谢美丽和可爱女朋友梓瑶小姐。你是永远积极努力向上，脚踏实地进步的心之所向。自AC027航班初次相遇之后，思念着你，便已成为了不善歌舞的我日夜悸动的分秒旋律，也成为了不懂花卉的我伫立心间的清丽水仙。念兹在兹，无日或忘。纵使远隔重洋，思念的痛楚无以复加，每当我抬头去尝试看见你，去试图捕捉那哪怕是一丝一毫的你，你迷人的剪影，整个世界便都在我身后，消散，重生，恢复成春天刚绽放的空灵。我爱你，我爱你的梨花带雨，也爱你的明眸忧愁。
Lastly I want to express my sincere and cordial gratitude to my lovely girlfriend, Miss Ziyao.
You are the eternal source of my positive and diligent drive. Since our first encounter on flight AC027, you have already become the celestial star that guides me every night, the radiant moon that illuminates my heart, the melody that dances in my soul, and the daffodil that stands in my being, forever lingering in my mind and imprinting my heart with an unending yearning,” he writes.
Even though we are oceans apart, each day brings new challenges, and the ache of longing knows no bounds, every time I look up and try to catch even the slightest hint of glimpse of you, of your charming silhouette, the whole world fades away behind me and is reborn, restoring itself to the ethereal blossoming of spring.
周一翔和他女朋友第一次见面是在2021年底从加拿大多伦多飞往上海的航班上，那个时候都带着口罩的他们见了一面。下飞机后，周一翔主动帮彭梓瑶搬了行李。后来到了隔离酒店后，他们刚好住在对方对面。奇妙的缘分让周一翔在隔离群里主动加了彭梓瑶的微信，他们开启了微信聊天之旅。
He met his girlfriend on flight AC027 from Toronto, Canada to Shanghai in December 2021.
The pair exchanged a look on the flight with their masks on, he helped her to move her suitcase after landing, and they started chatting after they stayed at opposite hotel room when they were under 14-day quarantine.
隔离结束以后他们一起待了一天，然后周一翔回到了他的家乡四川，彭梓瑶回到了她在山东的家里。后来因为奥密克戎疫情的关系，他们俩再也没有见过面。去年5月，彭梓瑶回到了加拿大继续读研。
They spent a day together after the quarantine ended and after which he returned to his hometown in Sichuan province and her to Shandong province.
As the COVID-19 epidemic became more serious last year, they never got the opportunity to meet one another again and she returned to Canada to continue postgraduate studies in May last year.
The two mainly relied on WeChat to exchange their love for each other.
周一翔（后排左四）
“在我写论文遇到困难的时候，她就是我最大的动力，因为我不断告诉我自己我一定要快点毕业，这样我就可以早点出国读书，和她见面。”
“When I was writing my thesis and ran into difficulties, she was my biggest motivation, because I told myself that I must do it right, so I can graduate and meet her in September,” he said, adding that he has got offers to study at universities in the United State and Canada for postgraduate studies.
周一翔还感谢了他女朋友的两条狗和一只猫，因为虽然他很喜欢小动物，但是从来没有养过宠物。
“不管我考多少，他一直认为
我是个优秀而有灵性的学生。”
因为患有躁郁症，对外经济贸易大学中文学院的毕业生杜佳蔓曾经两度休学治疗，她也花了八年的时间才从贸大毕业。在她的论文致谢中，她花了大量的篇幅感谢学院还有给她提供过帮助的老师。
Suffering from bipolar disorder, it took Du Jiaman eight years to graduate from University of International Business and Economics. In her acknowledgement, she expressed her gratitude to the School of Chinese Language and Literature and teachers at the school who have helped her.
杜佳蔓写道：
有人在收到我态度恶劣地在问答大题中仅仅写上一两句的期中试卷后的下节课，让我课后留下来，在我恐惧地认为一定会被狂批一顿时，温和地告诉我，他想我这样做一定事出有因并递给我一张新的试卷。
A teacher asked me to stay and gave me a new test paper after I only wrote a few words in the original one with a really bad attitude.
有人在我故意不交作业不参加考试导致挂科后羞惭无颜时坚定地告诉我，成绩不是评价一个学生的唯一标准，他并不觉得我做错了什么，不管我考多少，他一直认为我是个优秀而有灵性的学生。
After I deliberately did not do assignments and failed a class, the teacher told me that grades are not the only criterion to judge a student and no matter how many grades I got, he always believed that I am talented and gifted.
有人在我备受精神疾病的折磨，陷入深渊不可自拔甚而站在自杀的边缘时，向学校解释我的情况，证明我的能力，并且在我身处危崖时给予我坚定的温暖和爱，把我留在人间。
When I was suffering from bipolar disorder and even tried to commit suicide, a teacher explained my situation to the university and vouched for me. He offered me firm care and love, which saved me from suicidal thoughts.
5月25日是杜佳蔓论文答辩的日子。在结束论文答辩后，她感到五味杂陈，在教室后排坐着哭了很久。
她在朋友圈写道：
尽管我的论文很烂，尽管我依然没像几年前梦想的那样给自己的本科一个荣耀的结尾和交待，尽管我依然是个学渣……可是我终于等到了这一天。
想起来那天出盲审成绩后，我问某个非常喜欢的老师，大家的分数是个什么情况，我不知道自己的分数是高还是低。老师说他觉得我根本不用在意这些，高低都无所谓，过了就好。
我觉得自己现在懂了他的意思。确实对于我来说，毕业论文能过就行，无需高分，正如我之前上的很多课，过了就行，也不用追求什么成绩和名次。因为对于我来说，我自己本身，就是这八年本科最好的作品；我能活到今天，并成长为今天的样子，这本身就是最好最棒的毕业论文，是我这一趟大学读下来真正的收获。
虽然在某种感性的层面上，我时常会感到自己是一个失败者。前两天还和朋友自嘲说，我本来该19年毕业的，现在居然在和19级的学生一起答辩，我读本科的时间都够别人读两回了。我也确实会在某些情形下感到自卑和自闭，会写一些消极悲伤的文字，感叹自己是个被时光落下的小丑。
可是在另一个理性的层面上，如今我清楚地为自己感到骄傲。我知道，每个人有每个人的道路，小众不是错误，主流也未必正确。当然了，那些成绩很棒的学生们，是优秀出色的；可是学业困难户，也不是说就是人生的弱者。社会是必然有它的一套既定评价规则的，我表示尊重，可是作为个人，我明白世界的广阔多元和生命的丰富灿烂。人生可以有很多美好的实现方式，哪怕走得艰难一点，哪怕只有很少的同行者，只要是自己认定的，只要确乎可以创造价值，都幸福安暖。
杜佳蔓说她的原生家庭对她的影响很大。在她小时候爸妈的关系不好，也会有家暴的问题，父亲对她经常不管不顾加上打击式教育。而她的母亲有强烈的控制欲，不允许有任何隐私，她也从来没有过日记本。
Du's parents have had a major impact on her. They did not have an amicable relationship since she was little and there was domestic violence.
Her father often criticized and ignored her, and her mother wanted to control everything and did not allow her to have any privacy.
经过治疗，杜佳蔓现在的状况已经好了很多。 “过去一年我吃的药剂量已经很小了，虽然也有过难过的时候，但是我不会像曾经那么痛苦。我也算是真正走出来了。”
After receiving treatment, her condition improved. "I only take a small amount of medicine nowadays. And even though I still have sad days, it is not as bad as before. I have survived the disease."
“我还要特别感谢我的心理咨询师。他在我身处黑暗时一直陪伴我理解我也欣赏肯定我。我和父母的关系已经有了很大的改善，我的父母认识到了一些过去教育的不当，并有所调整改进，做得好多了。”
她的变化也和她最近两年对敦煌文化的热爱有关，对她有着救赎的意义。在近期北京民生现代美术馆举办的“文明的印记：敦煌艺术大展”中，杜佳蔓担任了11场的讲解员，受到了广泛的好评。在今年暑假，她打算去到敦煌，和一个研学机构合作，带九期研学班。莫高里工匠村也邀请她之后去做研学教师。
与此同时，杜佳蔓表示文学对她的意义也同样很大。“我的成绩不好其实不是因为自己不喜欢不擅长文学。我从小就热爱文学，一直写诗。我其实有一个梦想是把敦煌和文学结合，用我的作品去传播敦煌文化。”
杜佳蔓
杜佳蔓表示，很多人对心理疾病有会有一种回避的态度，但是她觉得每个人都可能遇到很大的挫折，都会有难过的情绪，有心理疾病的人通常都是更喜欢思考，感受能力强的人，与此同时，他们的共情能力也会更强。而在这些人能够真正走出这些负面情绪之后，他们都会获得很大的成长，精神世界也会变得更加强大。
Many people try to avoid discussing mental health issues, yet all people might encounter major setbacks in life and have sad emotions. People with mental health issues are usually those who like to think and have strong sympathy. Once they get better and survive from the negative emotions, they will grow tremendously and become more powerful mentally, she said.
“八年以后的我，虽然仍有很多毛病，如今却确乎蜕变了好多好多，成为了一个可以自己照顾好自己，自己经营好自己，拥有和享受着大把的幸福与光明的人。坚定地活着，持续的进步，去实现人生的抱负。”
"Eight years later, I still have lots of flaws, but it seems I have grown so much. I can take care of myself, manage my life and enjoy great happiness and sunshine. I want to live, make constant improvement and realize my ambitions."
“感谢不完美的我，
始终坚定地相信着，支持着，爱着自己”
暨南大学大四学生苏昕在她的致谢里感谢了韩国歌手金钟云的歌Floral Sense，还有李斯特著名的钢琴曲《钟》 (La Campanella) 。前者是她在写论文期间经常单曲循环的歌，后者是她从小学习钢琴最喜欢的曲目。
她也特别感谢了她的“虽然一直崩溃却总在最后一刻坚强地不治而愈”的电脑，和“论文最佳伴侣、每日必备”冰咖啡。
Su Xin, 21, a senior undergraduate student at Jinan University in Guangdong province, thanked her computer, music and iced latte in her acknowledgement.
She has listened to the Floral Sense by South Korea pop star Yesung many times when writing her thesis, and La Campanella, or The Little Bell by Franz Liszt — one of her favorite music pieces since she started to practice piano at an early age.
"The computer, which I thought was about to brake, hung in until I finished my thesis, just like myself not giving up despite encountering great difficulties in writing my thesis," she said.
苏昕表示，其实她最想感谢的人是她自己，虽然传统意义上来说论文致谢很少会感谢自己。
“最后，我要感谢我自己。感谢我在陷入畏难泥淖后还挣扎着仰头呼吸。感谢不完美的我，始终坚定地相信着，支持着，爱着自己。”
苏昕
和以前的致谢相比，现在的年轻人包容，也更敢于表达自己的感情，她谈到。
“有人会问，像咖啡音乐这种小东西也需要感谢吗？其实对于我来说，虽然父母和师长对我的帮助很多，但就像我在致谢中写到的一样，咖啡、音乐也给了我很多瞬间的鼓励，这些鼓励给了我很大的帮助，可以绵延很久，帮助我走出阴霾。”
Su said compared with the more traditional acknowledgement speeches, students nowadays are more inclusive and not afraid to express their true feelings.
"One might ask is it really necessary to thank small things like music or coffee, and my answer is ‘Yes’, because when I am down, the sudden encouragement from a song is as powerful as the care and help from my parents or teachers. The encouragement can last for a long time and help me get out of the sad emotions."
“感谢我的偶像张杰先生”
湖北师范大学今年的毕业生王愉涵在她的致谢里专门提到了她的张杰。
“他曾说： ‘磨难是最好的礼物’，这句话一直是我人生逆旅中不断前进的动力。他对音乐有着数十年如一日的追求与 ，千帆过尽，仍保持最纯粹的初心与少年意气，影响着我，也塑造了我，” 王愉涵。
王愉涵
她表示，她从初中就开始听张杰的歌，他的音乐陪伴王愉涵度过了很多重要的时刻，像中考、高考、写论文到考研，就经常会在迷茫或者困顿的时候听他的音乐，能够带来很多的能量。
Pop star and singer Zhang Jie has taken an important space at Wang Yuhan’s acknowledgements.
The 21-year-old from Hubei Normal University said she started to listen to Zhang’s songs since middle school and his music has accompanied her in major moments of life, such as the high school entrance exam and college entrance exam.
She wrote that Zhang’s words “hardship is the best gift” has been her motivation when she runs into difficulties. “His unwavering pursuit and love for music and staying true to his original inspiration and youthful spirit has also influenced and molded me,” she said.
记者：邹硕
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