早晨咖啡时间，扫到这篇：

I spent 18 months and $34,000 traveling the world, and felt more lost than ever—4 lessons I learned about happiness

https://www.cnbc.com/2024/08/02/i-spent-18-months-and-34k-traveling-the-world-4-lessons-on-happiness.html

最后是不要羡慕别人，找到自我的幸福？

After realizing firsthand that nothing is as glamorous as it seems, I stopped aspiring to be like others and began to prioritize my own needs. I decided to sleep in and relax at cafés in Cartagena, for example, instead of hustling to embark on a Caribbean island boat tour I didn’t really want to take. I don’t regret it.

Nowadays, I spend most of my time working on my computer, going to the gym, running errands, and seeing friends and loved ones in low-key places. There’s barely any fodder for Instagram posts. 

第一条是关键！Happiness is not about extremes, but balance

歌德：凡事不能太过，因为一旦超出了尺度，依托的效果就会消失。过度是一种极端。

史记：酒极则乱，乐极则悲，万事尽然，言不可极，极之而衰。

我只想知道她$34000怎么能玩18个月，住家里都不夠^ ^

每月13700人民币在中国够了吧，更不要说在更穷的其它国家

有一种穷人旅游法：边旅游边打零工

农博，有没有把这帖发到子坛去，不知子坛家长会怎么看？

南美和亚洲生活成本很低的，可以计算的：住青旅一天20美元，吃饭一顿5美元，车费一天10美元。这个在南美南亚是正常价钱

这个可真省，我儿子穷游比这个多

看穷游哪里。如果穷游日本欧洲肯定多，像作者那样，穷游南美南亚就很便宜。还要看怎么游，请导游就贵，自己去就便宜

主要是花钱太少， 340K游18个月试试？就该是另种说辞